Is being a virgin a turn off?

I still haven't lost my virginity and at 20 I feel perfectly fine about it but so many people I meet seem to think its a complete deal breaker and think I'm some sort of alien, is this normal or do I just know a bunch of jerks?
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  • A bunch of jerks. If I like a boy I don't care if he's virgin or not. If he's not he will be more experienced. If he is a virgin, inexperience is not a problem, I can teach him. Also there's the advantage that a virgin can't compare you to other girls in bed, you are unique for that guy, while with a guy who have had sex with more than 20, will be probably difficult to be special for him. That's how I see it.

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  • In my experience, the fact that a particular man has yet to have sex will indeed come across as a turn off to most, if not all, women.

    On the other hand, virginity in women is well sought after. Highly valuable trait.

    I don't know, maybe its evolution? I don't think society really has anything to do with this. I was never raised to think like this, its just innate.

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What Girls Said 3

  • For me right now, a guy who is a virgin that is a turn off.

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  • U know a bunch of jerks, it's totally fine in my opinion

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  • It is ok with me. Some girls do not want a virgin guy just like some guys do not want virgin girls.

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What Guys Said 4

  • A rule of thumb, 99% of all people who shame others for being a virgin is also a virgin and is one because they're undateable, not because they strictly aren't ready. So forget about that

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  • You need to hire a hooker first

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  • Nope. Perfectly fine.

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  • Normal for a guy, abnormal for a girl

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