Why do men like to stick their finger in a woman's butt?

Question

my current friends with benefits for almost a year now, like 5 mths ago began initially massaging my a$$hole, then progressed to sticking his thumb or index finger in my a$$ while fucking me from behind, then progressed to eating my a$$ every time we have sex.

But anyways, why does he keep putting his finger in my a$$. Why do men like doing this so much?

Soft4u · Accepted Answer

I really don't know why they like to stick their finger or anything at all in a girls butt, especially their tongue I don't get that at all.
Then again some guys are so off balance when it comes to girls, I've seen on here some anonymous guy asking if girls fart, now if a guy asked that the finger in the girls butt could be to find out if a girl's butt hole really smells like shit or flowers.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

I've always wondered that myself as it has baffled me why a guy wants his finger someplace where it is going to come out smelling like shit and in almost every case going to have some of the waste on it. I'm afraid I don't know any girls who give themselves enema's after they take a crap so that orifice would be sort of clean.

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

You're not a very good communicator are you? :)
You don't tell your guy what you like or don't like and simply expect him to know. Brilliant.
And the whole friends with benefits thing is a fail too. No honey, this is on YOU.

Dommer · Accepted Answer

Don't you enjoy it? We do it for your benefit, not ours. I love it when she does me.

TrixiePooch · Answer

Got tired of sitting on his own thumb and rotating? It's funny a guy will stick his fingers in shit yet is too manly to change a baby's diaper.

MrKinktastic · Answer

I too have a bit of an ass fetish. A lot of women enjoy it so thats a lot of the appeal for me, otherwise its mostly about the visual.

boggboss · Answer

iv never done it and have no reason to

Ankitasingh466 · Answer

Eu, my boyfriend never did that. And by the way it's a no entry zone. He can rub his tool there but if it goes in even by mistake he is dead.

Dargil · Answer

This is not a direct answer but might make interesting reading. A Take I wrote.

ATuairiscean · Answer

Some guys and girls like doing it - If it is uncomfortable for you speak up - I like doing it from the point of view of giving pleasure, I like to give pleasure so if I do something and she respond well, I will do it again.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

If I already occupy your main entrance - where else could I put my finger/s? To silence your mouth would be a too direct message, I reckon. Is it not showing respect to your freedom of speech to shove a finger up where it feels appropriate? One other option would be to let my hands hanging loosely at the sides or raise them into the air. That surely would look strange. With all possible humour: could you not mark preferred finger resting points on your body? It could be a tattoo, or just make-up.