I don’t really like to give oral, I just like to recive. Am I selfish?

Am i wrong for feeling how i feel? I mean it’s people out here who don’t mind, trust me i know personally because I’ve had many. But everyone doesn’t feel that way.
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  • No, it's not wrong to feel the way you feel. Plenty of people feel that way. You just need to find a partner who doesn't mind, or at least decide on how much of a sacrifice you're willing to make.

    For me, personally? I need to be with someone who loves to be a giving lover in all ways, like me. I love giving AND receiving, and I couldn't be with someone who didn't.

  • Its totally fine. There are a lot of guys who like to give and dont want to receive oral. I prefer to give oral to girls who dont give blowjobs

    • My kinda guy 😉

    • When i licked a woman to orgasms all night, i felt selfish because i get more pleasure from doing it then the woman does 😊

    • I love men like u lol

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  • I dont think your selfish. Everyone is different. I love giving oral to my man. It turns me on and gets me in the mood. But i HATE receiving oral. I just dont like it at all. Some people are givers and some people are takers. Maybe your man LIKES giving u oral and thats his turn on like mine is for my man. Hope this helped.

  • I mean it's probably a lot more comfortable for guys to give oral since they don't have to suppress their gaggung reflex. But you can't expect to get without giving

    • Not true at All, when it comes to oral sex 99.9% of the time I’m the reciver, and it always has been like that.

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  • Eh I honestly don't really like receiving it most of the time either but really enjoy giving it so I guess you just need to pick the right guy

    • My kinda guy 😉

    • I imagine we'd have lots for you to sit on and me to "talk" about.

    • Yes indeed 😉

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  • It's not selfish if the guy doesn't demand or expect anything in return. If he's fine with it, great. If not, find a guy who won't care.

  • not really an issue tbh, my recent ex due to something in her past feared giving but I didn't mind giving and not receiving but it would have been nice once and a while which she did sometimes do but never pressured her to do so either way

    • That sounds exactly like my current relationship right now, every time me and my guy hav sex , he gives me oral, and my way of returning the favor is giving him (vaginal) sex, but i don’t really give him oral and he is ok with that because he prefers sex over head any way.

    • yeah my recent ex knew I liked oral both giving and receiving but we both knew neither would pressure so had fun with other things instead

    • I mean don’t get me wrong i reciprocate every once in a blue moon , but i really don’t like giving bjs I’d rather just recive and if he needs to get his off then that’s what i have a vagina for, i don’t need to give oral as long as i have a pussy lol

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  • It is not selfish. It's important to be honest about your sexual interests to keep a healthy relationship. Some people prefer giving and some prefer receiving.

    My current friends with benefits let me know early on that she is "a giver" which works perfectly because I prefer to receive. Some people get upset with no reciprocation but you have to hold your ground and be true to yourself and you will find someone who will match you.

  • Yea that's pretty selfish. If you don't give you shouldn't recieve.

    • I’ve never had to in my past experiences

  • No but you will be lonely

    • I actually have a boyfriend. He always give me oral and doesn’t mind not getting any in return 😊

  • No you are not wrong. I am rather indifferent to a girl sucking my cock. I would much prefer to be buried in her warm, wet pussy. But, I do enjoy eating women, sucking on their clits and cumming in my mouth.

    • Exactly ! I knew i wasn’t wrong 😊

    • Keep on receiving and you will make most guys happy.

    • Haha i definitely do 😘

  • Yes, it is selfish.

    • Sorry, i guess i am selfish then

  • Yeah

  • nope! I love giving oral but usually rather insert or have a hand used with a bit of lube. I can breathe through my ears...

  • I mean some guys don't mind, but personally i think i would talk to a girl like be cause that would means she is selfish lover and possibly just a selfish person and that's a no go for a guy like me.
    you need a sucker lol