Why do people lie to young women about virginity and being a bad girl?

[Michigander]

Listen young women, Virgins DO have different vaginas from non virgins. I've googled it and everything. I've seen plenty of pics of other women's vagina to know. When a woman isn't a virgin and she does lot's of sexual things, her vagina is not as neat, soft or smooth. It's wrinkly and sloppy. I'm not talking about big labia's, I'm talking about vaginas that look like balled up paper I'm a virgin and my vagina is really smooth looking on the inside. It's also really soft and pink. I can tell my vagina hole hasn't ever been messed with and my hymen is visible. I've never masturbated before. I've never done kegals and I can grip very well down there by squeezing my muscles I never knew I had really... Partying, drinking, sex, etc. Will age you. Save yourself for a nice man and remain single. Bad boys will stress you out and cause wrinkles and weight gain. Let the bad/party girls have them. Smoking and drugs are gross. Take care of your body, drink water, eat right and exercise. Many people call traditional/old fashioned values bad. They're not. If you don't want to be a housewife then don't. I don't want too either. But you should still treat your body as a temple and hold yourself to a high regard. You only have ONE body. Think about your fertility, future, and health. Who cares what's sexy vs non sexy to other people. Don't let the media brain wash you. Kim Kardashian is a fake clown wearing makeup slut. Any older woman who leads younger women into destructive lifestyles is a hating, busted Jezebel slut. Keep your virginity, focus on school, etc. The right boy will come when it's time. Don't let sluts like to you. Even Google it. Good women fisting themselves or sticking didlos inside themselves bigger than your fist and ask yourself if you could do that... You wouldn't be able too unless you were fisting yourself or sticking didlos in your hooha.

[ImJustCurious13]

WOW, you share a similar viewpoint as me. Here I was thinking the entire world was in this toxic cesspool of sex, drugs, alcohol, gangbangs, partying, and hookups like that, I guess I'm not alone. People like you makes me see hope again, thanks.

[Berethor]

Well it's mainly slutty women who want to drag virgin women with them.

tvtropes.org/.../NatureAdoresAVirgin

[Michigander]

I agree. They get mad when you don't want to be liberal with them. IDC about being a feminist. As long as I'm treated right I'm good. It just divides women and men.

[Berethor]

They want to make all women like them, so men would not have a real alternative.

[Michigander]

Too bad I exist and I teach younger women the truth.

[Q-tip-boy]

And bad girls also try to make men bad. I talked with a women here who tried to bash me for not having sex and all stupid drama, competition She tried to make me jelous.

[Anonymous]

here we go both the bs again...

[Celtero]

I don't disagree... but you've gotta be a man. Most women love defending their freedom to be a whore if they so wish.

[TonyMetal86]

Amazing!
Your a wise girl...
I wish you the best and there is nothing wrong becoming a housewife 😉

[jacquesvol]

Only an obgyn can know if your hymen is still there. But he can't tell what happened to it. Normal men can only believe you.

[Celtero]

Hymen is pretty visible... I'm sure any schmuck who has an idea what they are can tell if a woman has or hasn't one.

[kittycat119]

@Celtero considering most people still have this belief that hymens rip or go away if she's not a virgin I highly doubt you're correct

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 Never said most people have any idea what a hymen looks like, just that it doesn't take an obgyn to discern one.

[kittycat119]

@Celtero Hymen is pretty visible... I'm sure any schmuck who has an idea what they are can tell if a woman has or hasn't one. Yeah u did...

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 I said it was visible I said people who are familiar with them could identify it I did not say "most people know what a hymen is and can identify it."

[kittycat119]

@Celtero saying any schmuck who knows what one is which is almost everyone implies u think everyone can. And hymens aren't that visible

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 Sure, I guess I wasn't very clear. I still think it's obvious when a woman has a hymen fully intact.

[jacquesvol]

@Celtero you're askingv to be deceived

[kittycat119]

@Celtero it's always intact. During sex it doesn't break or tear. It already has a hole or whatever u wanna call it to get through

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 That's just nuance. A virgin who's never been penetrated is very unlikely to have a similar hymen to a woman who has.

[kittycat119]

@Celtero no. Because hymens change from many different things not just sex

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 Okay... I know, but you can still differentiate between an "intact" one and "broken" one.

[kittycat119]

@Celtero again no u can't

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 Okay, then how can an obgyn?

[kittycat119]

@Celtero they really can't. You can't actually tell if a girl is a virgin

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 Okay, I agree you can't tell if a woman is a virgin by hymen. But that doesn't mean all of them are indistinguishable.

[kittycat119]

@Celtero they are. People who claim this stupidity if how a girls vagina looks can say if she's a virgin or not. That's just not true at all

[Celtero]

@kittycat119 Lol... you're basically arguing hymens don't exist. In other words, you're now being stupid.

[kittycat119]

@Celtero no they exist. They just aren't how u r trying 2 make them

[Redstang88]

This is obviously a dude

[Michigander]

Why do people keep saying that? Is it really THAT bad out there? I'm so happy I'm an introvert and quiet. My life is peaceful. I had one guy try to turn me into a bad girl/bring drama in my life and I learned fast. I tell young women to avoid bad boys cause they're sneaky. Sluts hang around bad girls. The bad boys will give them sluts attention/try to make you jealous to turn you into one. I became more firm in my beliefs. He even said he wanted to turn me into a slut so he could use me l. 2 years later still a virgin/never masturbated. He can only get the sluts he tried to hurt me with. They all fuck each other's girlfriend. Messy. He chose that life though. Many good girls hide from men and many men lose their chances with us because they're not mature enough and want to play games. I let him play by himself. I taught myself not to stress, I never did anything with him and realized I'm gonna be 20 next year and there are many men who'd rather date me then party/bad girls. I'm focused on my f

[Michigander]

*future

[Q-tip-boy]

She is among the few understanding people from the US. That's awesome

[WeirdoWerdo]

Did you know taning ages your skin faster?

[WeirdoWerdo]

That's why Im pale af :) gotta look 15 years old when Im 25 lol

[DanOh2018]

LoL you're looking at a lot of vaginas for someone claiming the moral high ground

[Michigander]

It was for research purposes. Different considering I have one myself and I'm heterosexual.

[DanOh2018]

Ah well enjoy your research porn LoL

[RIVERTAY888]

They stick baseball bats and bottles and candels in as well and lots more deep inside there vigina

[ImJustCurious13]

Have you also traveled too far into the internet?

[RIVERTAY888]

@ImJustCurious13 Why you ask?

[RIVERTAY888]

nope never

[JoshOhMyGosh]

Your hymen does not break during sex and a healthy girl who's had sex one time, their vag is no different than a virgin maybe the virgin is slightly tighter, that's it

[Anonymous]

I love your advice. I wish every girl from my country could hear and understand you.
I care for people from my country but i think theyre not thoughtful enough. They keep on making mistakes and wouldn't accept advice.