Girls, why do you hate me so much?

[LonelyGuy87]

I don't really see anything Misogynistic or Sexist in the things I post. Maybe slightly antagonistic. But all I've every said is that:

Girls are promiscuous - Meaning they have quite a bit of casual sex, at least young women in the developed world do. There are stats to back up what I say. Studies show that around 60-80% of American women have had casual sex and that the average American woman has had 6 casual sex partners. Keep in mind that 6 is the average, so a large amount of American women would have even more than 6. That may not be promiscuous in your opinion but it is in mine. Deal with it. Not to mention many people even agree with me and many guys always say how promiscuous girls are at college, so by no means is it just me living in my own world.

Girls are often selfish - Meaning they enter relationships for shallow reasons like just for sex or maybe for money. There is no need to explain this any more, as everyone knows guys with lots of money are more successful in the dating world than normal guys.

Girls are unfaithful - This is the truth. Studies show that roughly the same percentage of men and women cheat however women cheat slightly more. Women are also better at hiding it so the reality is that women do in fact cheat more than guys do. I'm not saying all or even most girls are cheaters, but that women are more likely to cheat than guys.

That's basically all I ever say. I don't really get why some of you get so damn offended and go as far as insulting me and degrading me - calling me things like a loser who hates women and stuff. That simply is not true. The things I say are backed up by other people and studies even prove my point. A lot of girls on this very site state how girls are more horny than guys and sleep around just as much. They pretty much say girls want to use guys for sex and I have to just deal with it. I don't know why all of you put the blame solely on me and make it out like I just come up with these things.

[StarsInTheEyes]

We don't hate you, but I think you hate ALL women and absurdly generalize ALL women.

Not ALL women have had at least 6 partners, as you said "60-80% of American women" -- so don't say all "women" - you can say "some" but don't include all of us. Plus a lot of people in America are not native Americans, therefore have different cultural standards and expectations, not to mention everyone has different individual expectations and some people have standards.

I have my own standards so don't include me in your obnoxiously repulsive descriptions. Not all women have had casual sex, not all have had multiple partners in their college years.

I have never been to a club as of today, and the first party I've ever been to was a holiday party for one of my jobs when I was 26 years old. I did not drink alcohol nor hook up with anybody like some would've done, so don't generalize all women.

I think you're the one who's with a partner only for sex, as what I've seen in at least 2 of your posts you expressed, that love does not exist and that you should just go and sleep around with 50+ partners. Not everyone is in a relationship for sex like I notice you've been describing yourself doing.

Not all women are in relationships for money. I don't want any type of relationship based on money, including friendship. I want the non-material things which a millionaire can never buy in a relationship - including love, which I don't see in you since you don't believe it exists.

[StarsInTheEyes]

But you're too young. You have plenty of years ahead of you, so please use that opportunity to learn and mature.

[StarsInTheEyes]

I understand that you're frustrated with some girls, and it could be from your experience, but don't generalize ALL women and don't attack all women... That's the problem I have with the way you talk. If you say "some," I would even agree with you and would have totally different response. However, if you've been putting yourself in the place where you'll only find girls who sleep around and don't treat you nice, of course that's whom you'll going to find. If you think you should sleep with 50+ partners like you mentioned in another post, or don't get into a serious relationship because love does not exist - like you mentioned in another post, then you're not going to find a nice girl who doesn't sleep around and is going to be loyal. So don't blame all women just because that's the issues you've been having with "some" girls.

[LonelyGuy87]

I never say all. I say most.

[StarsInTheEyes]

Really? I read that you commented that "50 partners is normal for women" and "Girls are promiscuous." Okay, then none of your descriptions is applicable to me. I don't do any of the things you've said "women" and "girls" do. Thanks for the invitation.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah I'd say a lot of girls are at 50.

[StarsInTheEyes]

Well, "a lot" but not all - thank you! Add some descriptors next time so no misunderstanding.

[BackBreaker]

I don't hate you at all. I admire the way your brain works. My only wish is that you would stop claiming "fact" when most of the time, its not. You don't use evidence to support your claims. The majority of everything is discredited by your own lack of experience and bias.
On a side not, what's the point in scientists running all those studies? To assign blame to women?

Look at what you just said:
"Girls are promiscuous-- Girls are selfish-- Girls are unfaithful--"
You're doing the same thing those studies are designed to do, which is to tear people apart, rather than come together and rise above this bullshit world.

I WISH you would channel all this negative energy into something more productive. You display the true grit of someone that could make a GREAT leader, but you are biased, misinformed, and inexperienced. I don't hold any of this against you, however. I completely understand where you're coming from, but you cannot ask questions like this and expect to not have a certain response. Especially if that question contain fallacious content
Both men AND women are victims to society's lack of morality. No one has respect for themselves, let alone others. That doesn't mean you have to be that way and it definitely doesn't excuse everyone else of their acts and decisions.

Just be you and choose happiness-- Stop complaining and assigning blame-- Start being more positive and live your life.

[LonelyGuy87]

It's a lot harder to live positively than it sounds. I just wish girls were great and I could be happy with my dream girl but I know I do not deserve than and am not that lucky. So it's hard to be happy and have a positive outlook on life.

[BackBreaker]

Everyone deserves to have love and to fulfill their dream in finding someone that is "perfect" for them, but you also have to be realistic.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah I am realistic. I most likely will never have a good relationship with a girl.

[BackBreaker]

Let's cut all the bullshit about girls. For once, answer why YOU won't ever have a good relationship with a girl.

[LonelyGuy87]

I am not lucky enough for that.

[BackBreaker]

Luck has nothing to do with having a good relationship.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yes it does. Luck governs everything in life and I guess I am unlucky.

[BackBreaker]

Luck does not determine outcome. At least not in relationships. In life, your outcome is determined by the number of opportunities you take to better yourself. Stop pretending like you're in a place of absolutely NO opportunity. There is ALWAYS something you can do to improve your outlook and, ultimately, your life.

[LonelyGuy87]

Not for me as the world is against people like me and people who think like me... how does that not make sense? And there is no way I am gonna date a girl seriously as I know I will just end up hurt.

[BackBreaker]

Do you?

[BackBreaker]

No statistics. Do you really know that?

[LonelyGuy87]

Do I know what?

[BackBreaker]

Do you really know that you'll just end up hurt? Any girl would be risking just as much to be in a relationship with you. After all, how does she know that you won't end up hurting her?

[LonelyGuy87]

It's safer to assume every girl is a hoe and it's a good excuse to be a fuckboy.

[BackBreaker]

That doesn't answer either of my questions.

[StarsInTheEyes]

@LonelyGuy87 Take responsibility and control over your life. Luck does not dictate your life. If you let it, you are bound to fail... There's no luck in having a relationship that works; luck is you go into a casino and bet on a number or whatever and win $100. For a relationship to work, you need to have a genuine and mature mindset. Don't blame your preference for being a f*ckboy on girls. There's no luck in a relationship. You communicate and work things out with your girl - that's a relationship.

[TarrAva]

Welcome to the 21st. century. Girls are basically doing nowadays what men did for hundreds of year and sometimes without the consent of the women. Times change. Get used to it or drown in ancient beliefs. That was men's gospel since ever. That is basically the message I am sending

[LonelyGuy87]

I have accept. All of my questions are about how girls are exactly like guys and are even more promiscuous - yet I still get hate. And if you think girls cheating more than guys is a good thing then you're sick. Also going by your logic being a fuckboy is perfectly OK so be careful what you wish for. The truth is that girls are way more promiscuous than guys, they just want sex and have killed dating. Now if that's what women want... ... but relationship orientated guys just have to deal with it I suppose or become fuckboys which is what most guys are doing. Oh and quick flaw in your logic - it takes two people to have sex so if guys have always slept around who were they sleeping with? The truth is that women always were and always will be more promiscuous than guys.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't hate you but I sometimes get more than 40 - 80 notifications a day so I don't respond to all those who talk to me.

[DementedCutie342]

I don't really know you just yet but so far I don't hate you at all.

[DaChillCookie]

No. We don't hate you. At least I don't. And all the info you're getting is a phat load of bullshit

[LonelyGuy87]

Is it though...

[DaChillCookie]

I'm tellin you it is. Leave it at that, baby boy

[LonelyGuy87]

Girls are promiscuous. More so than guys. They always were and always will be.

[LonelyGuy87]

I don't think that is bullshit.

[Blunique]

I've never had sex so none of this applies to me. I would never cheat either.

But I just see you are a little kid. No offense but you guys always make a mountain out of a mole hill.

[LonelyGuy87]

What does my age have to do with anything?

[Blunique]

Ok.. can you please stop inviting me to your questions.

[LonelyGuy87]

Answer my question!

[fauchelevent]

I don't.

[LonelyGuy87]

But you always disagree with me on my questions.

[fauchelevent]

And disagreeing with someone means you hate them? No. I don't have much of an opinion regarding you either way.

[Lostranza]

Most people are selfish, both genders are unfaithful and can be promiscuous. None of the traits that you mentioned above are uniquely female. I certainly dont hate you and really dont have a reason to. I just think that you have a lot of questions about relations between men and women that you need answered as they are troubling you greatly. I think that women are frustrated by some of your comments because they want you to see that women are individuals just like men are and dont need to be classified into one group.

[GeekyGirl16]

I don’t hate you. But the things you post ARE sexist. I’m not going to lie to you. I disagree with your point of view and hope that you learn to become open to new ideas.

[LonelyGuy87]

Sexist... wow...

[GeekyGirl16]

You are not necessarily sexist, but some of your ideas ARE.

[LonelyGuy87]

Ideas such as?

[LonelyGuy87]

Saying most girls are promiscuous is not Sexist - some would even see that as a compliment.

[GeekyGirl16]

The way you make blanket statements about women and how you have called me—and all feminists— “unintelligent” on a regular basis. The way you think women should have more restraint because “men cannot control their biological urges.” These are just a few.

[LonelyGuy87]

I never insulted you. I do not like Feminists as from what I see they are very anti-male and are hypocrites. Not all of them but enough of them are to make me dislike the entire "feminist movement". There should just be a Human Rights movement which everyone can fight for the rights of everyone. That's how it should be. How is thinking girls should be more moral than guys Sexist?

[GeekyGirl16]

You did... I was anon... There already is a human rights movement. The feminist movement was created because of everything we were not permitted to do or participate in. It was created so that women could gain some respect in the eyes of men. To this day, I know many people who put down women... Even dress codes are typically aimed at women; no one complains when a guy walks around in no shirt, but heaven forbid a woman have her shoulders exposed! My mum remembers watching her dad beat her mum’s head against the dresser until she bled. This was considered “normal punishment” for a wife. There are still some who believe that is the way. THIS is why we need feminism. This is why I am a feminist. You want girls to be more than you expect yourself to be. That’s just wrong.

[GeekyGirl16]

It’s hypocritical.

[LonelyGuy87]

Beating your wife until she bled always was and always will be wrong. The fuck. So what you're saying is that guys can act like scum and have no morals and it SEXIST of me to hold women higher than guys... so GIRLS SHOULD BE JUST LIKE GUYS otherwise I am sexist... ok... makes a lot of sense... the truth is that girls behave even worse than guys these days so i hope you're happy... i guess that is equality huh

[GeekyGirl16]

Yet, it was a widely accepted and supported practice... and still is in some places today. Not all girls are as you say. That’s what you don’t seem to understand. And the ones who do? That’s their prerogative as much as any man’s. What, are we supposed to do as I was told for years (before my mum figured out how messed up it was) and “wait for him” while he messes around and makes a fool out of the family? It’s fine for him to cheat and do stuff, but not for women to leave him? Because that’s where you’re thinking is coming from. Do I disagree with the hookup culture and think people should wait for marriage? Yes. But it’s not my place to force my beliefs on them. Nor is it YOURS to put all the blame on women when men are JUST as responsible for that.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yes I can put the blame on women. Of course I can. That isn't Sexist. I can't force my beliefs on other people but I am allowed to judge them. I will admit I am extremely judgmental and judge women very harshly - but that isn't Sexist.

[GeekyGirl16]

“Sexism: 1) prejudice or discrimination based on sex; 2) behaviors, conditions or attitudes that foster stereotypes of social roles based on sex”
Quoted from the Merriam-Webster dictionary.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sexism

[LonelyGuy87]

I don't discriminate against women. I guess I stereotype them but come on that isn't bad. Girls constantly stereotype guys and discriminate guys so...

[GeekyGirl16]

The generalized stereotypes and the venom in your opinions on women as a whole are, by definition, sexist. In the time that you’ve known me, do you think I’m promiscuous? Do you think I sleep around? I don’t have time to sleep sometimes let alone participate in the activities you say all college girls do, nor do I have interest in those activities. And, where I go to school, at least half of the girls are like me—too busy to even think about boys. Yet you constantly make blanket statements about the promiscuity of women who go to college. I have yet to see your generalizations actually in action. Some women do make similar statements, yes. And those who do are sexist, by definition. But not all women do.

[LonelyGuy87]

I say that *most* (51%) of girls attending college party frequently and casual sex naturally comes as a result of lots of partying. Make sense?

[animelover14]

Well, for one thing, I don't hate you but you target women way too much. Reading your other posts I'm just assuming you had bad experiences with the women in your life.

[LonelyGuy87]

Well my Mom is awesome so I don't think its mommy issues. I have never had a serious girlfriend and the last girl I had a thing with ended it because she "didn't want a relationship" and got "bored". And the reason why I "target" or focus on women and their behavior & morals is because I am attracted to women! I don't care about what guys do but I hold women to a higher standard than guys and I also am attracted to them... does that make sense? Like if you supported a football team wouldn't you care about how they play and all of that?

[animelover14]

Okay, I understand but if you're going to continue doing that back up your statements with proper scientific evidence and statistics.

[LonelyGuy87]

I did in this post anyways!

[animelover14]

This post, yes but in your other posts, no.

[Elliegirl]

I don’t hate you. I don’t know where your studies come from, but at least you’ve got something to back up your opinions. It’s a lot better than all the all girls are bisexual posts. And I hate the blue eyed blonde girls only like black guys posts. So unfounded and annoying. And total bullshit.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah. Most girls aren't bisexual but to be honest a lot of blonde girls like black guys so maybe there is a bit of truth in it but I do think they are trolls.