What makes a man cum under 1 minute?

So I recently had sex with a guy I've known for a while, but we haven't seen each other in around 3 months. I'm pretty sure in those 3 months he was away he was seeing other women. When he met up and had sex, he lasted around 30 seconds. We didn't do much foreplay at all except I sucked his dick for around 2 minutes. Why does this happen?
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also i should mention we used condoms..
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  • Maybe he was dry for those 3 months?
    Was he drunk or hungover?
    Was it only the once you had sex, any comparisons for you?
    Maybe very horny?
    Some like to get an ejaculation out of the way to really enjoy the sex?

    • 49 years old like u with too much experince amazing

    • I have no idea if he was having sex in those 3 months (I assume he was), but we did meet up as soon as he came back... He wasn't drunk or hungover, and I have had sex with him 5 times before. He is very horny though

  • If a guy is really, really horny and exp if he hasn't had sex in awhile, he can have a short fuse for round 1. Moving onto round 2 is suggested.

    • I guess this is true, I was just surprised because I'm sure he was seeing other people while he was away and was taken aback...

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  • he's so stimulated

    • stimulated how? it was only 30 seconds

    • he's not girl. was he real hard?

    • the harder the dick the sooner it comes.

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  • The only thing that has ever caused me to cum quickly is anticipation. I was really excited to see her, and it made me cum in a few minutes. So you should be flattered

    • I guess I feel better about it now you say that, but I thought it was because he didn't enjoy it so he tried to get over and done with ASAP.

    • Well... What happened when he was finished?

    • we layed in bed for 10 minutes and he asked me to leave.. I confronted him about it and it ended up with me confronting him about his behaviour

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  • Your guy has a lot to learn. To begin with your pleasure, paying you attention. For half an hour at least. That is very arousing to a guy. Later, we can come too

  • You just completely turned him on!

  • If the nuts r like full, we can shoot really fast.

    • even with a condom?

    • Yeah, I mean when my nuts are like full of boy juice, it's hard to keep from like shooting.

    • do they ever shoot on there own?

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  • Poor sexual stamina

    • but surely this wouldn't be the case if he was already having a lot of sex?

    • Yes it could be

  • Think about it like drugs or alchol the more you us it more you get numb to it, but if you don't do it for a while and then do it again you will feel it almost like it was the first time.

  • Probably nothing is guaranteed to do that every time. Sometimes things are just super sensitive and they are raring to go and other times it isn't as sensitive and it is going to take longer.

    You could probably make a guy cum in a minute and if you did the exact same thing on another occasion it might take 5-10 minutes. That is just how it works.

    Probably going without for a bit... no sex, no masturbation for a week or more and he'll be really extra sensitive and capable of climaxing quicker.

    If it is the 3rd time that night it may take 20 minutes to cum. If it is the first time in three weeks he may cum in a minute.

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  • We can cum fast with someone we admire! It all depends on our level of excitement!

    • do you come faster with some one or alone?

    • @linda86 I'm afraid I can't say, because any time I've came, I've been alone... But I can almost promise you this, If I was with a girl, I wouldn't last very long!

  • You must be hot as hell.

  • Super horny and you turned him on so much. Conpliment to the woman.

  • if had blue balls all day maybe i would cum under 1 minute lol

    • ahaha just for one day?

    • just for my first load lol i can go 4 hours straight without cumming if i wanted to

    • damn. would your ego be hurt if the woman expressed dissatisfaction after you came in 30 seconds?

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  • Premature ejaculation

  • 30 secs is too few no offense but it seems he wasn't ready (tired heache ;hasn't eaten) he should have cum little and then practiced sex again to last longer

  • Sounds like he has not learned how to control himself. He obviously was very horny and you did too good of a job turning. I try to have a girl cum 2-3 times before I cum, but takes patience and understanding that both the girl and boy needs complete satisfaction.

  • Over excitement & selfishness, or perhaps just inexperience!

    • in those 30 seconds he would pull out and reenter and would keep telling me to relax (even though i was relaxed). In terms of experience he definitely has more experience than me. I wonder if most of his experience comes from drunk encounters (except for me)...

    • Hopefully things will improve for both your sakes

  • If one doesn't have sex for a long time, then one cums really quickly.
    Also if a guy finds someone very attractive, then the anticipation makes him cum quickly.
    lastly, he might be suffering from pre-mature ejaculation problem, so if that happens regularly then it can be an issue. which is resolvable as well.

    • 3 months ago he would last around 5 minutes. So he cums a lot faster than usual...

    • Must be anticipation then. or you must be looking super hot ;)

    • Then he must be super excited.

  • don't you think its useless poor dick?

  • Because he was only out to get off. He didn't care whether you got off or was satisfied

  • the guy is way way over horny. it happens

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