Girls, when someone plays with you, do you like them to rub your clit or finger you or both?

I prefer both personally. Guys, what does your wife/girlfriend/fwb like you to do when you play with her?
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I like it when the person uses two fingers inside me and two fingers on their other hand to tease my clit.
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Two fingers inside and a thumb rubbing my clit also works. Fingering is unlikely to break your hymen if you're a virgin. I fingered myself and was fingered lots of times before I lost my virginity, and it never happened to me.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Clit first with two fingers to build tension then fingers all around pussy teasing me til I am ready to scream. This tbh works best for me if I am tied down or restrained so I can't touch myself or make him/her do more

    Otherwise I like both clit, gspot, and penetration

    As long as my lover keeps me aroused, I am on cloud 9

    • Nice!!!

  • I like clit rubbing, not a big fan of fingering unless it involves other things. When doing it to a lady, I really like rubbing and licking, or fingers inside and licking her clit.
    Your question doesn't include those relationships :-/

    • My bad. I forgot to include what a girl can do to another girl.

Most Helpful Guys

  • My girlfriend is pretty particular.

    I've found that rubbing her clit works the best, especially if I occasionally finger her, right in the middle of it. So it's about 80/20 clit & fingering. When she starts getting close, that's when I go down on her.

    Works every time, lol

  • Two fingers inside, thumb on clit, and that leaves a hand and a mouth free for other things...

    • I like it!!!

    • I like to kiss her, and to look deep into her eyes as I finger/rub her, and of course, as a "breast man", I love to lick and suck and nibble on her nipples - so it's important to be able to do a lot with just a single hand...

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  • Both at the same time. Only one finger inside at first though :)

    • Agreed. One at first, then two when I get really wet.

  • Finger. Clit stimulation doesn't do much for me. Thats what my nipples are for

    • i wish you were not getting married :'( he is a lucky man!

    • @vald9inches awww :D

    • i will miss flirting with you Dizzy <3

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  • Both. Although if I had to choose just one, I'd rather fingering.

    • You don't have to choose lol

  • the best for me is the use of the thumb. it represents a small penis and the clenched fist is the testicles , and my husband wriggles it all around inside me, the hardest of the thumb also rubs up against my clit, but that is secondary to full sex

  • Most of the women I have been with preferred having their clit rubbed.

  • shove those fingers inside... mmm

    • I love it when he finds my G spot.

  • Just mix it up for me...

  • Rub. Fingering doesn't do much for me.

  • Rubbing my clit with the occasional dip inside... magical to me.

  • I like them to rub my clit, and also finger me inside.
    And, and I'll like them to do more with me.

  • I like both. Sometimes at the same time.

  • I actually only like a tongue down there.

  • a good mix of both seems to work best, just personal experience tho... can't speak for the girls on here 🤷

  • Definitely both.

  • Tongue... definitely likes me to twirl the alphabet for half an hour. I like to rub her clit when we whisper horny secrets to each other discreetly in public or when talking about how hot some guy turns her on.

  • I'm not sure... Fingers can't do it for me and most guys I've been with couldn't make the clit happy either

  • Mostly both I feels better in my opinion ,

  • Both but initially more the clit

  • Both!

  • Both, 2-3 fingers inside and mouth sucking my clit

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