Does it bother you if your boyfriend or husband watches porn?

[Anonymous]

[Curiousity796]

While I know that porn is almost impossible to avoid at some point in your life, I say it does bother me. I’ve heard of marriages ruined because of porn. I know it’s just for the means of masturbation, but I take sexual intimacy really seriously. While I would be able to understand if he had an addiction, I would still want to know that he watches it, and I would hope he would be able to see that I love, care for, and respect his sexual interests too. If he felt I were lacking in some way sexually , I would hope he would understand that I want him to tell me his thoughts on what I can do to bring him more pleasure. I would hope that I could maybe even give him more pleasure than masturbation itself. I would rather have the real deal than the video... when it comes to the one I love.

[DinaM]

Nah, I'm cool with it. I actually lost my virginity to my first boyfriend while we were watching an erotic movie, borderline softcore porn... Took me ages to work out that he'd probably chosen that movie in the hope of getting me horny so I'd let him seduce me. What can I say, it worked.

While I can see where the girls who ARE bothered by their SO's porn watching are coming from (it's easy to get jealous and think "am I not enough for him?"), I've never been one of them. Porn isn't real, and I've never been one to tell people they can't fantasize about what they want.

[Anonymous]

I’m more than fine with my boyfriend watching porn. There’s no doubt in my mind he wants me and enjoys what we have. Porn is a fantasy and not a big deal to me.
If I had a problem with it then it would be kind of hypocritical of me to read those trashy erotic novels. Right?
The only time I could see porn becoming and issue is if he’d rather watch it and jerk off than have sex with me.

[wankiam]

i wish a lot more of my exes had been so open minded but i can count them on one hand the ones that saw it the way you do

[dantetheexplorer]

I've always wondered - assuming that all porn is made by legal-age, consenting adults, how is watching porn (which the numbers say many men get off on) different compared to reading erotica like 50 Shades of Grey, erotic novels, (which the numbers say many women get off on)?

[_dardorsama_]

Are you implying that guys are OK with idea of their wives/girlfriends watching porn?

[ZambieMouse]

I don't have a partner currently, but if I did and he watched porn, it wouldn't bother me.

[Jessicaml]

Only if it takes away from sex with me if it doesn’t then no as long as I can watch him sometimes

[BrittBratt2416]

It would, I'm not into porn really. I just don't see the point of watching other people have sex. To me sex is intimate, I don't know i just feel like if you have to watch porn then something isn't going right in the bedroom.

[lovemyirishman]

Yes it does bother me in my eyes I see it is as cheating because he is watching other women and jacking off to them when he should be thinking about me and webcaming me and jacking off to me

Please don't argue with me and don't respond to my opinion

[ashleyb93]

It's literally just to fulfill a need. It's not like masterbating to porn means he wants to fuck the random people he's watching lol.

[lovemyirishman]

Well first off dumbass it ain't funny And second off... if he truly loves he he wouldn't even be watching nor thinking about it Porn is cheating You are masturbating to other people EXCEPT the person you extremely love If u r an ldr.. you can always have send a picture , webcam , or just even think about her Other women / men shouldn't make u horny at all

[ChloeStarfire]

My boyfriend doesn’t watch porn anyway

[billy0190]

That's what you think

[ChloeStarfire]

@billy0190 he told me he doesn’t

[billy0190]

He's lying

[Asker]

@billy0190 Because you know him better than her? Fucking stupid lol

[ChloeStarfire]

@billy0190 no he ain’t he doesn’t have time I know what a typical day for him is

[billy0190]

Because I am a bloke and I know that a guy will always make time

[ChloeStarfire]

@billy0190 not him it’s strictly work cubing practice and maybe a live stream

[billy0190]

Okay

[Anonymous]

Nah I watch porn more than he does. there's no reason to be upset.