What do guys pay attention to during sex?

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What do guys pay attention to during sex, If anything at all? What are you thinking about?

Returnofthekinkph · Accepted Answer

I've seen it vary from guy to guy and also on positions. If I'm on top they tend to focus on my boobs.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Isn't it normally seeing how fast they can get their end pushed in! lol

Stan_Control_ · Accepted Answer

Not cumming in less than 30 seconds.

jeffybill · Accepted Answer

Baseball lineups

Riyabongprincess · Answer

It differs between age groups and sometimes person to person when guys of my same age or say younger below 30 guys noticed how I moaned and expected the moanings to be louder more like the porno voices. Older men always expected me to submit and be slavish dolly expressions in my face and submissive voices while getting penetrated. Mostly men loved how I sounded to every one of their spanks on my butt

1988fido · Answer

Her face
How she feels
React and moans etc...

I like to make my partner happy it makes me enjoy it more.
So maybe her hand squeeze or stuff like that.

Sometimes lose my focus and I hit cervix so I think omg I got to deep
Did it annoy her?

wingattebaby16 · Answer

To me it seems to be staring at his penis going in my hoohaa as he admires "how big it is"

Or thinking about that hot big boobed wide hipped girl we saw at the mall And him telling me what he would do to her while he is doing it to me

At the end, the blank stare as he turns inward to focus on whatever it takes to launch!

Girls, don't ever ever ever talk during launch phase!

IntellectualDevil · Answer

Her expressions, her voice, her body. Everything about her really. But what I most want to hear is her cries of passion. I want to hear what turns her on, what excites her and then to fulfill those desires for her. I want to be so sexually arousing for her, that she's puddy at my hands.

MrMysteryMan · Answer

Oh that's a different pic. Boyfriend perhaps or friend or model?

Anyhow, what don't I pay attention to during is a better question.

I love looking at how the woman's body moves and what pulsates or throbs or what winks at me or drips or hardens. I love how her muscles contract and relax and her facial expressions and intensity in her eyes.

I love how she feels, her skin as it glides along mine, the feel of her lips on my body, the feel of her pussy grinding into my parts, the feel of her body with my hands and the textures on my tongue. How her juices dribble down my shaft or how they slosh in my fingers. The feel of her clit pulsing on my tongue or between my fingers. Her breath on my skin. Her tongue on my body and in my crevices.

I love the scent of her passion and heat from her skin. The scent of her aroused pussy or on her neck and breasts. Sometimes, I like the scent of her ass as well. Since you are in doggy, or going down on you, that is something that comes up. But there is a good, sexual scent and a, well, unhygienic would be the best explanation. I find sex sort of changes certain scents to be more arousing and pleasant than if not.

I love her SOUNDS I feel mostly. Like her moans, and whimpers and gutteral groans and getting her to that real raunchy feeling that she has to be vocally filthy. Maybe tell me graphically what she likes me to do or what she likes me doing to her or how whatever is feeling. Whispered and purred in my ear is very DELICIOUS! The sound of our bodies slapping and pounding against one another. Or the sound of my tongue moistening her pussy or her mouth slopping over my cock. IT'S GREAT!!! That part where you're thrusting and she says, "Mmmm yeah fucking fuck me." with that dangerous sexual purr... Can't beat!

So all these cues are very helpful in knowing what she likes or doesn't. The thing I do is try to get as much of these cues going and as many times and hopefully at a constant state, which tells me, she's definitely enjoying herself.

ichighost · Answer

I usually Focus on one if not both nipples but I'm still paying attention to the other parts of the body I'm not really thinking about anything but holding out until I think she's had enough.

purplepopsicle · Answer

I like to watch her boobs bounce around and watch her face. Hearing her moan is a turn on too!

ATuairiscean · Answer

Your partners response is usually a good guide to how things are going - Whether they are enjoying it, whether to go to next level, how passionate or gentle to me, what they need

thenewgirlll · Answer

Probably they pay more attention to how they feel

aa180 · Answer

Dem ass n titties as well as the girl's responses to what we're doing to her

Pink2000 · Answer

My boyfriend said  The feeling  My noises  My shaking

Frankenstein99 · Answer

Her face (non verbal clues... ok verbal to) is she enjoying it. If not what can i do differently.

winterfox10 · Answer

your face, the way you move your body, your moans/whimpers

hindril · Answer

I always watch her reactions and sounds. That lets me know she's enjoying it also.

kingofthellamas · Answer

How can I get her to take one up the bum.

Aenetoo · Answer

I think about how best to please her. Sex, for me, isn't just about getting off. I get a better high knowing I satisfied her. I know she'll return the favor someday, somehow.

Bruce_VVayne_ · Answer

I am like a damn computer that makes calculation. Reading her pleasure and satisfaction, making her feel just better and feel pleased more.

Gottabsavagee · Answer

They pay attention to their orgasm haha

OceanVibes · Answer

At girls reactions, moaning, a complete image of her and sometimes if I get to horny at something else to keep my mind off it and not cum too fast

Philyouup · Answer

I pay attention to my lover, I try to read her actions, her breathing, the sound of her voice. My aim is to please, I use my senses to see if I am on the mark..

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