Would you have a three some if your spouse wanted to?

Would you have a three some if your spouse wanted to?
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I don't share well And any man of mine doesn't want to share me either if he does he doesn't love me
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  • Never. My wife and I would have no one but ourselves in bed.

  • It's not for me, so no

    • Thanks for the MHO

Most Helpful Girls

  • Absolutely not

    • Good girl

  • Nope, id leave

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  • Yes, absolutely.

    The only condition would be that we both get along well with that other person (it doesn't need to be a friend but someone we find kind and likable).

  • The answer is "yes" - I know because it happened.

    I've had threesomes in the past in casual situations, but never in a relationship, because I know how dangerous that can be emotionally. But my most recent girl, who was bi, really wanted to do it, and after talking about it for almost 4 months, we finally did it. Thankfully she wasn't upset or jealous about it, which was my concern, and I did my best to give her equal attention, which I think really helped.

    It wasn't my idea, and I'd have been fine without it, but it was a lot of fun (and happened a few times), but that's because SHE was really into it too. I did it as much for HER happiness as for my own. by the way, she had zero interest being with another guy, so that was never an issue.

    • How do you know she didn’t cheat on you and do it anyway in those four months?

    • @Highsxhoolstudent15 1. Because she had permission to mess around with girls from the start. 2. Because she told me every detail about the 2 girls she kissed/made out with. 3. Because she had zero interest in other guys, or in having relationships with girls. If you knew her, you'd understand. 4. Because I have open communication and trust in my relationships.

    • I wouldn’t never mind having a girl making out with another or mess around with them. But if it is a guy, my inner hulk would be realease lol

  • No but I would have a break up.. or consider divorce if we are married and he's serious about it.

    • thats the normal human reaction, id have wrote the same.

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    Would you have a three some if your spouse wanted to?Would you have a three some if your spouse wanted to?
  • no, i wouldn't

  • No I don't want to share my man at all with a man or a woman.

  • Nope. I would not. If she insisted, I would leave. I want to love and be loved by only one person.

  • Probably not. I don't really have a desire to. I might engage in a mmf thing if I was out of a relationship but not in one. I also doubt my partner would approve. I see a lot of guys being like "only if it's with another girl" but I think my partner sees other women as just as much a "threat" as other men. I don't have any desire to have a ffm threesome other than pleasing my partner, so the likelihood of it happening is low.

  • 1- of its ffm
    2- if it’s a deal breaker like we do it or we break up

    Because I consider sex as making love and I want her only and expect her to want me only
    But if it’s like her #1 fetish to have 2nd girl with us otherwise she don’t get satisfied then I will do it.

    3- if it’s mmf he’ll no coz it will prove she doesn’t love me
    It’s called making love so she makes love to another guy
    It’s game over
    Even just asking me for mmf is game over.

    • And if it’s ffm it also proves you don’t love her. How can you not see the hypocrisy here?

    • Not hypocrisy I said I am against it But if it’s her absolute deal breaker for her. Then I will. But mmf is absolute deal breaker for me so she won’t do it. Got the idea? And she should feel the exact same way. That if I request ffm then she won’t agree because it’s her deal breaker And mmf she will accept because it’s my deal breaker Got the idea?

  • No. He suggests threesome and I suggest divorce. If he wants to get some strange he can do so while he's single.

  • Only now that the marriage is over.
    I wouldn't have done it when I cared about her.

  • I have when I was single. Couldn't do that while in a relationship since I can't share my love with another and I'm on the same wavelength as you as far as they should feel the same way and if not then peace out lover lol.

  • Yes as long as I know the girl.

    He wouldn't do it with another man though. To him it would be too much chance for gay stuff to happen.

    He is pretty close minded

  • Hell yes! Thwyre fun as fuck

  • Nope.

  • I don't think so.

  • If my spouse asked for a 3some, then I will say sure... right after our divorce, then you can all the 3somes you want. Sorry but i don't condone adultery and I'd be damned if I let my husband/boyfriend think that shit was okay. I mean just mentioning would have in the dog house for months or possible a break up. Why do you need to bring someone else into your marriage or bedroom? That doesn't sound like a good strong relationship to me if you need to bring someone else in just to "spice it up".

    • Mad respect for your opinion. 👍 Damn, is it ever refreshing to read the women's comments on this. I totally agree.

    • well you know how is he gonna no if you did want to if he couldn’t be honest and open with you about it he’ll your talking breakup/divorce just gor fucking asking

    • @kellea Hell yes im talking break up/divorce for asking ME if it's okay to bring someone else into our bedroom. Just asking is a problem, he's pretty much saying our relationship isn't enough and that he wants to bang another woman besides me. That's an issue and if he wants to do that then he can do that freeily as a divorced/single man. Also why would you ask such dumb question if you know you're partner only believes in monogamous relationships? My boyfriend and I are only monogamous so he knows better to not ask me that shit.

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  • When I am not loving her anymore and it will be time to say good bye.

  • With two girls... she's bi, so that does happen.

  • No, no and no. and would question if we should remain married...

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