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Girls dating virgin guys a turn off?

How come girls on here say they don’t care about a guy being a virgin but a lot of videos on YouTube show girls say they wouldn’t? What’s the real truth

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, it really depends. Something tells me that female users online are more honest with their opinion because they have a shroud of anonymity, whereas the women being videoed do not. I think the women in the video could be influenced by certain factors such as peer or societal pressure. As for the topic at hand, I don’t think for the majority of women, a man being a virgin is a problem. I think it depends on the specifics man, what he knows, and how confident is he. I think if a man is very insecure, quiet, and shy due to his feelings about his virginity, that obviously is going to leave a negative impression

  • Uh... I'm not going to date her if she's not going to have sex. If she decides that I will be the one *to take* her virginity, then I'd absolutely date her. If she thinks like "oh only after marriage" or whatever nonsense... BOOM I'm outta there as fast as possible.

    • Well we should get what we are entitled to in life

    • Then, merit it

Most Helpful Girls

  • Personally I don’t care if he’s a virgin. The reason why certain women don’t date virgins is because once a guy has sex for the first time it’s new to them and they went to experience more of it. So they usually don’t stay with the first perosn they slept with. Personally I don’t think they should because guys will always want sex and if they don’t feel fulfilled before marriage they are more likely to cheat when married.

    • Damn humans are horrible people

    • Not all guys cheat smh, I would rather die than to cheat

    • I used to think that way. When I devirginized my first real girlfriend. That really isn't the case. My experience is when you lose your virginity to someone you catch feeling you've never had before and you don't know how to control them and you become very attached to that person. Not all people are the same, some will cheat, some will stay. I think the odds are greater they will stay compared to people who've had previous lovers. I think the feel attached to the person more than they are curious about what else is out there.

  • That depends on each individual woman. Personally I prefer a guy with experience, but I have dated virgins and been their firsts. There is nothing wrong with it some guys naturally know what women like or dislike and can read a woman's emotions and reactions despite being a virgin. You just need to find a woman who is either a virgin herself or will help you learn what not only she likes but what you enjoy too.

    • Did he told you he was a virgin before the sex?

    • Yes I was aware

  • I prefer a man with a bit of experience. When I was a virgin, I wanted a virgin partner to learn together.

    • Well I guess I’m different because I never saw sex as learning something new, it was always something you do with the person you want to spend the rest of your life wife, but I guess if you don’t really care that much for monogamy then I guess it makes sense to sleep waround and be with other people that have done it before.

    • Let me clarify: No, I don’t sleep around. Looking back at my answer, I can see how it sounds that way. My first partner was someone I loved very deeply. We planned on getting married. I was excited at the idea of sex with him because I loved him and I wanted to learn together. Neither of us had previous partners. I have only been in monogamous relationships. But now, if I were to date someone exclusively, I would prefer them to have a bit of experience. You may still disagree/think differently with my opinion but I think that clears things up. I hope you find what you’re looking for.

    • Well I guess for me I wanted things to be in place in order for me to start dating, like having my own place and enough money to support my wife or children, it seem like everyone doesn’t really care to have sex in there parents house. Hmph oh well

  • i dont really date but i wudnt care if he was a virgin or not

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  • On some primal level a girl doesn't want to be with a beginner. Its like they need to not know what you are going to do to her, and if she 'trains' you she will know every move and that doesn't feel spontaneous or adventurous. But once a guy gets up to speed he will naturally come up with his own moves.

    • Well then there goal in life is to tell boys and girls to start having sex as soon as possible so now one is a virgin by the time there 20

    • I think they just need a mentor. One day a guy over heard me say something about sex with a girl. And he latched onto me. Over a long time I figured out he was basically a virgin and when he was trying to get with girls, he was so clueless they all went running. He would PM me all day for weeks. Over time I taught him how to have sex. How to kiss, G-Spot, Clitoris, how to be in control, lasting longer, etc.. Then the girls were saying he was the best ever... his ego started to piss me off. Then I caught him making out with two girls at the same party. I told him I would be pissed if he became an asshole. People don't need to have a lot of sex to be good but they definitely need a lot of experience and that can be gotten by talking to someone who has a lot of experience. I'm proof. He's married with a kid now... to the girl I helped him get.

  • The problem here is that we get so hung up on losing our virginity it kind of turns us into monsters.

    In less words, just relax and see how it goes. Because being pushy/needy is a bigger turn off.

  • I wouldn´t waste my time with an inexperienced guy. I prefer a guy who knows what he´s doing.

  • I lost my virginity to a more experienced girl and was fantastic. I was blessed with having a relationship with a virgin girl and it was absolutely fantastic. I don’t know why it should be a turn off. This person is sharing something so intimate for the first time.

  • The video doesn't represent all women and neither do the women on this site but as for me I don't care if he is a virgin

  • Everyone will see your virginity as one of 3 things: 1) a good thing, 2) a bad thing, or 3) a neutral thing. Generally, if you're young the majority will view your virginity as either good or neutral. As you get older, the proportion will change and more people will start viewing it negatively, while fewer people will take a positive or neutral view.

    Never really sure why this matters though. No where is it written that you MUST disclose this. And the older you are the more likely everyone will just assume you're not a virgin unless you really feel the need to tell them otherwise. So just do what makes the most sense in your situation.

  • Rule #1 is that gag is not a reliable website at all.

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