My husband slapped me in the face during sex. Is it normal in a long term relationship for partners to ask to try new things before doing it?
The other day me and my husband were having sex and out of nowhere he smacks me in the face. He wasn’t like hitting me hard though, but firmly. (No Bruises). Still personally trying to figure out if I enjoyed it.
Don’t get me wrong my husband is a good man. I enjoy rough sex so I let him do it more during that escapade. So please don’t think my husband is trying to beat me.
We have tried it since again without him asking, again, and I’m 50/50 about if I enjoyed it. I can’t make up my mind. This is a tricky one for me. I usually let him try new things but usually I get some prior warning. He will usually talk about it during sex a few times and then do it to judge my reaction.
I dont mind kink, I actually like it. But smacking someone’s face I feel might warrant a conversation beforehand. Mind you he did corner me after to make sure I knew he wasn’t being disrespectful and just wanted to try something to “get me out of my head”.
What do you think? Would you have discussed this with your spouse prior?
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