Is a girl a virgin even after dry humping?

[Anonymous]

So if a girl has kissed and been to second base with a guy, got fingered and given a hand job, dry humped with only their underwear on is she still a virgin? I mean absolutely no oral or penetrative (I mean dick anus or vagina) sex. Is that considered a virgin?

[Miristheiss]

Here's a hint. If you are wanting to be a virgin stop doing sexual stuff with guys. Otherwise just do it and get it over with. Stop this stupid charade of trying to do all of the sexual stuff with a guy but "technically" keeping some virgin tag.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Depends on how you define virgin. Does it mean sexual innocence? No, you are not a virgin. Does it mean hymen intact? I don't know; some girls rupture their hymen before the first time they have sex.

2. Why does that matter to you?

[JanuaryCanine]

You don’t lose your virginity until the penis enters the vagina in my opinion. So yes you are still a Virgin if you do that.

[amnatural]

Totally agree..

[DiegoO]

Sex can be: oral, vaginal and anal. If she get to do one of them, technically she stop been a "virgin". It not only involves intercourse.

[JanuaryCanine]

@DiegoO I said “in my opinion”.

[amnatural]

@DiegoO There would always be a debate on it, but to lose your virginity there should be penetration. Oral is a part of foreplay but not the actual sex itself.

[DiegoO]

Your opinion is not a fact, what I mention is a fact. Why do you think condom package have 3 condoms normally? They are for oral, anal and vaginal sex. Each condom should be used for each one of them. The condom you used for oral, shouldn't be used for vaginal sex, and so on.

[JanuaryCanine]

@DiegoO Where did I claim my opinion was fact? I said it was my opinion, and it isn’t going to change.

[amnatural]

@DiegoO So from when too condoms started deciding the parameter for virginity?

[DiegoO]

@amnatural Oral is sex, is oral sex. Anyway, virginity really doesn't exist. Been virgin means been pure, and science haven't prove the existence of virginity because you are who you are, sex only becomes a form of expression of who you are as a person, an extension of it. You can be good, you can be bad, the only thing sex do is express a part of you.

[DiegoO]

Your opinion is far from the truth.

[JanuaryCanine]

@DiegoO where did I say it was fact or the truth? I said it was my opinion.

[DiegoO]

@amnatural Not that condoms decide it. It is known in the scientific field that there is oral, vaginal and anal sex. At the end you can believe in what you want, it doesn't mean you will be right. What I have mention is what they give in sexual education classes, not what the popular believing thinks.

[DiegoO]

So you rather stick to your opinion instead of correcting it?

[JanuaryCanine]

@DiegoO did you miss the part where I already said it wasn’t going to change?

[DiegoO]

No, but why don't change it? Is like if someone tried to explain you the planet is not flat, it's an oblate spheroid.

[JanuaryCanine]

@DiegoO Because it’s what I believe. I’m not going to change my opinion to please a random stranger on the internet.

[DiegoO]

Ok...

[Anonymous]

No, you're no longer a virgin. So now you're free to do what you want.

[EmmaMary]

Might I suggest you get some further sex education.

[funguy90]

Still a virgin in my book.

[sawno]

I consider someone a non virgin if there was genital contact in a sexual manner. Dry humping doesn't make contact so to me it doesn't count.

[allaboutadamsel]

I think she is if his dick hasn't gone inside u n penetrated u

[ATuairiscean]

In the traditional sense yes

[JosyJosy]

no intercourse = virgin

[Reggieray]

Yes, you are still a virgin.

[DiegoO]

Hhhmmm, if there was a sexual activity going on that involved fingering and handjob, I would say is in the borderline. Sex, sex is : oral, vaginal and anal. If you haven't have any of those, technically I guess you are still virgin.

[bananathunder]

yes still a virgin...

[RIVERTAY888]

Yes she is

[Nachowedgie]

Obviously

[Jordan_Jam]

Of course, a virgin

[jon28805]

I think you’re still a virgin until you’ve had penetrative sex.

[Anonymous]

Yes she's still a virgin

[Anonymous]

Penis in vagina equals sex. Nothing else. Still a virgin.

[Anonymous]

A girl is a virgin until a penis penetrates her vagina.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I won't consider you a "virgin" anymore

Because sex doesn't just mean penetration.

All those activities were purely sexual in nature. So , you can't be a virgin anymore.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

You are a virgin. But your innocence isn't any longer with you

[Asker]

Define innocence

[Opinion Owner]

It is not virginity that matters, it is your innocence. It is like the difference between 12yo and 19yo. Innocence is what makes that moment special... you lost your special moment

[Asker]

Would you say the same thing to a guy?

[Opinion Owner]

Technically you are virgin, emotionally not. Yes. Same applies to a guy. Even a guy would love that first special day. Tho society is making things more complected hence many just waste that special moment.

[Anonymous]

Yes, if she hasn’t been penetrated she’s still a virgin