Experience having sex with muscular guys?

I’m currently dating a guy who used to be scrawny back when we started dating. But ever since he went to college and joined the football team, damn he got ripped. Like seriously ripped, with a chiseled chest and solid 6 pack abs. Not even kidding! I used to be one of those girls who thought sex was only for marriage (I'm not Christian, but was brought up with rather conservative values) But the day I discovered my boyfriend was hiding those muscles beneath his shirts, that was the day I lost my virginity. When we get intimate, I like to run my hands over his muscular arms, chest and 6 pack. I've even kissed and licked his chest and abs and it's just so hot! Such foreplay helps me get wetter, which is essential because my vagina is rather small and tight compared to my bf's dick which is about 7.5 inches "even though he's Asian" (his own quote, not mine) It's incredibly erotic when in missionary position or when I'm on top, I see his muscles (especially his 6 pack) flex and contract and I love to feel his muscles up when he's pumping all the way into me. It's a very sexy sight to behold. We've had an active sex life ever since I came over to the same college as him (feel kinda bad for his suite mate though.. He probably hears us all the time..) But he's the only guy I've ever had sex with, so I can't compare to other guys who're not exactly in shape. So my question is - how does sex with muscular guys and out of shape guys compare to you - both visually and sensually? Does seeing and feeling muscles during sex help you get wetter and hornier too? And for the guys who're muscular, what's your experience with girls? Do they go crazy once they discover that you've muscles? Or were they just.. meh.. Haha.
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  • Yes, I think quite a few women go "crazy" as they discover as a guy is fit. Of course they have to be interested in the first place, and muscles probably won't compensate for a shitty personality, but once she's interested and finds a guy "initially hot", discovering that he has muscles can make it even more interesting for many women. Not saying that's the case for every woman, but I'd say quite a few.

    In my own experience it also helps boost her attractiveness. I won't claim that I've had a lot of partners who've expressed interest in my athleticism, since my Girlfriend is the first woman to see me naked and that I've been intimate with, but in my place on earth women seems to appreciate a mans physique more than they used to. So to be honest, I'm a bit surprised about what people are saying here; that women don't care about it.

    Of course, it could be that it doesn't have an effect where they live. But it could also, as the case has been for me, be a result of girls' "subtleness" about this topic. That is, like my girlfriend, she may not say anything about her guy getting fitter as she doesn't want to be seen as superficial. In addition there may be other reasons like in our case; that my girlfriend not mentioning anything as she felt guitly about not being able of having a fit/sculpted body herself in return, as she has a condition preventing hard physical exercise. The last reason it was never mentioned is that she didn't want me to feel bad about my own appearance. But even if it took us a while to get around to talk about it, there were still noticable signs that she liked that I got fitter in terms of more intense intimacy.

    But even if non-vocal signs that she appreciates a fit guy can be good too, I'd recommend spending some time talking about it after a while together. Because, a guy spending much time/resources on his looks can sometimes be considered shallow and looking for a way out of a relationship by society, while no one bats an eye if a woman alters her body to match her husbands idea of female dream body.

  • damn i wish he was a lot more bigger down there for you while he is pumping all the way into you! 😍😍😍😍

    • I think any bigger and i might not be able to handle it!

    • thats the point! ;)

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  • Well, as a girl that's had sex with a few really buff black guys out of fetish, I can say missionary feels amazing when someone's laying on top of you and you feel their pecks and big arms wrapped around your entire body. But that doesn't actually equate to "orgasm" its more of an "i feel so protected and comfy" feel.

    Buff guys have a lot of stamina and they can lift you up for awhile before getting tired. But if i'm honest its not that much better then any other guy, you're just more likey to get more orgasms in quicker because buff guys can go non-stop which has its ups and downs. Another downside is from my experience buff guys aren't good at dirty talking, and they aren't as creative because i think they think their "hotness" is enough to get you off which isn't true. The best sex iv had was with normal guys who were sexy at dirty talk, while buff guys i had to kinda lead the dirty talk and sexual direction.

    "- how does sex with muscular guys and out of shape guys compare to you - visually"
    For my personally, seeing a buff black man wrapping his entire arms around my white body and me being completely submissive to him is SO HOT! That shit makes me feel like a woman, and if i were to look into a mirror while its happening i cum immediately lol. But that's not to discourage out of shape guys or guys who are in shape. Dirty talking and creativity are your best friends and a guy who's funny and charismatic can aboustley give me more butterflies then a buff guy.

    • @EmoKate97 wanna pm? I have a BBC and i love cute white girls like you! :)

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  • My wife told me that skinny muscular guys kinda hurt! No padding. She mostly dates softer guys lately. But I’d think visually it’s better.

  • As I got more muscular, most women didn't really care. I kept getting told that women like skinny muscular guys.

  • As with most things about women; some love muscles, some don't really care. When a guy is in shape, he can keep the intensity going for longer. So if you like having that headboard banging sex, the kind of sex that leaves you feeling a bit tender the next day, an in shape guy is the way to go.

  • You are dreaming

  • The girls I met were not realy into muscles. They didn't realy care about mine.
    They just liked me

  • And how about a guy whose not that much muscular but knows your pleasure points and knows how to react to which sexual situation and the 1 who can withhold the entire sexual regime much longer than any muscular guy you know... just think about it and how does this make you feel?

  • All was going good up until the Asian part. Just not into Asians for dating but only as friends. Glad you like it.

  • sounds like you had fun writing this lol

  • Now you know why most guys prefer women who are thin

  • Are you Asian?

    • I’m caucasian actually!