Most Helpful Guys
Reminds me of one time I was upset an ex long ago when I was much younger when she asked me what I liked best about her just after sex, and I said I'm really enjoying her "hole".
And she became very upset about this and I had to explain that this wasn't the only thing I liked about her, and maybe asking me so quickly after having sex might have put that at the forefront in my mind. But I realized she had some sort of insecurity that I might only like her for her body, so I had a lot of convincing to do with her that I liked more than that. Though of course I liked her body as well.
I tend to agree with what others have written here. I wonder if when you said you wanted dirty talk you meant that you wanted to flirt? You mentioned below the guy didn't know how to woo a woman, did you want to be woo'd?
I feel like when dirty talk is requested almost anything is on the table. Some people like and will get turned on by dirty talk that is even mean to them or demeaning, like calling her a fat big slut.. When you open up the dirty door you cannot judge any of the words that are used.
So I would suggest you change next time from requesting dirty talk to asking for flirts, which by definition do have a respectful cut off. Moral of the story, be careful what you ask for when you are horny.
Most Helpful Girl
So you initiated dirty talk but then get mad when the dude does it? What did you expect to be different?