A guy just called me nice set of holes?

So i was talking to a guy on a dating site. I just wanted to dirty talk to someone cuz i was horny and im not into one night stands. And he said to me that im a nice set of holes and big tits. Should i continue talking to him? I mean was that an insult or he was horny? Did he see me as a slut?

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  • I tend to agree with what others have written here. I wonder if when you said you wanted dirty talk you meant that you wanted to flirt? You mentioned below the guy didn't know how to woo a woman, did you want to be woo'd?

    I feel like when dirty talk is requested almost anything is on the table. Some people like and will get turned on by dirty talk that is even mean to them or demeaning, like calling her a fat big slut.. When you open up the dirty door you cannot judge any of the words that are used.

    So I would suggest you change next time from requesting dirty talk to asking for flirts, which by definition do have a respectful cut off. Moral of the story, be careful what you ask for when you are horny.

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    • Wait i never requested it. He started and i let him

    • Ok, I assumed when someone wants something they communicate what they want. So I thought you asked for dirty talk because you said in the question description: " I just wanted to dirty talk to someone cuz i was horny".

      If he started talking dirty to you, it was your option to continue talking dirty to him or to not. If you let him talk to you in a dirty way, you are enabling his behavior and he will assume you like it. If you tell him to stop it or just stop replying he will figure out he crossed the line.

  • Reminds me of one time I was upset an ex long ago when I was much younger when she asked me what I liked best about her just after sex, and I said I'm really enjoying her "hole".

    And she became very upset about this and I had to explain that this wasn't the only thing I liked about her, and maybe asking me so quickly after having sex might have put that at the forefront in my mind. But I realized she had some sort of insecurity that I might only like her for her body, so I had a lot of convincing to do with her that I liked more than that. Though of course I liked her body as well.

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    • * Reminds me of one time I [/had] upset an ex long ago [...]

    • Had to admit I really liked her hole though. It was one of my favorite parts about her. But not the only one! I liked her smile and laugh and things like that... but I mean like if I had to choose between messing up her smile or her hole... you know. :-D

    • We did get engaged to be married though. I was serious about her. I put a ring around her hole... err, I mean finger.

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  • So you initiated dirty talk but then get mad when the dude does it? What did you expect to be different?

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  • If your goal was to sext then i gotta say he isn't very good. Much better descriptive words to use other than nice set of holes. The whole point of sexting is to be descriptive so each other can imagine what it would be like.

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  • An insult? Was he horny? Why even ask those questions if all you truly wanted at the moment was to talk dirty? To the G@G community: don't go to a dating site and expect to fall in love.

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    • True but some men speak better even if all they want to do is fuck. Seems like this one doesn't even know how to woo a woman.

  • You wanted dirty talk, he talked dirty.

    Different people have a different idea of what it means when you want "'dirty talk."

    Dude was probably just trying to please.

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  • Nope. He just wanted to dirty talk but he was just not good at it. Sounds like a creep.

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    • Yep πŸ˜‚ a lot

      Like he had never talked to a real woman before...

  • He must have seen something he liked many offices he calls holes email me we can talk dirty all you want

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  • If you’re talking dirty you should be open to other perspectives on what that means

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  • Well that is immature. That guy obviously has zero class.

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  • its bad but whatever your heart says just follow it.

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  • but you have holes, isn't it?

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  • well are u

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  • He was horny, and you were acting like a slut.

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    • He was talking dirty to me i just didn't stop me him and well maybe i said a few sexual things myself. But do u think he took me for an easy busty slut or he was just horny and would do that anyway to any girk

    • You have no clue. If you "said a few sexual things" yourself, then you were playing along. It's that simple.

  • You need to message me asap then

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  • Can u send me that site?

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  • LMFAO I've never heard that one before

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  • He sees you as a slut

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  • ''I just wanted to dirty talk to someone''

    Then someone dirty talks to her...

    ''Did he see me as a slut? ''

    This could be made into a Meme...

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  • Stay out of his reach. He's not interested in you.

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  • He is probably horny but seems to not really select women that much of that is all he sees you as. But he may just be looking for sex.

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What Girls Said 3

  • Pff he is just a fucking crass pig. Even guys that just want to fuck but are decent will talk better than that πŸ˜’

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  • Bit crude maybe but then dirty talk does tend to be

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  • He was horny and thought you wanted dirty talk?

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