Why do I get embarrassed about moaning when he kisses my lips, body or during sex?

Question

I’m 21 and he is the first and only guy I have ever had sex with. I lost my virginity to him 6 months ago (I’m a late bloomer I guess you could say.)

Every time he kisses my neck I get embarrassed and instantly put my hands over my mouth to silence myself or muffle the moans. I don’t know whether it’s normal to moan when he kisses my body or neck too I don’t know why I do it I just can’t control what comes out of my mouth.

My boyfriend tells me he likes and always whispers to my
While we’re having sex ‘stop with the hand over your mouth I want to hear it!’. He ends up gripping my hands above my head to stop me.

The thing is even though he says he likes it I still get really embarrassed and scared. How do I stop this?

Klemen777 · Accepted Answer

Society does this to you, not so long ago sex meant doing something dirty and enjoying something like that meant you are bad. That's how "a bad girl" expression was born. Girls we call "Bad girls" like having sex and enjoy having sex and are probably loud. Feeling bad about enjoying sex and being loud is this unconscious shame society gave you, because stupid priests are against everything that is natural and nothing is more natural than sex, thats how we are born. Find a nice quiet place to have sex with your boyfriend, you two are clearly very close and unleash your inner bad girl! You are doing everything "bad" already so why don't you allow yourself enjoy it as well? Close your eyes and let yourself go!

MarkGerrits · Accepted Answer

Ur sensitive! Ur feeling the effects of foreplay. Don't be ashamed don't change anything about it. Just fully enjoy it! 😍

As for the moans. He's clearly loving it and he's doing such a great job of foreplay to get u to moan. So just moan as how you feel. Let them out and enjoy the sex. From the sounds of it u got an amazing partner who knows how to take care of you 😉.

Moan Cum pleasure him as he pleasures you. Enjoy it all and just have loads of fun with it! 😁

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I used to be the same way. I just kind of got over it. Now when a guy is fucking me, I don't care how loud I am.

Kittyj · Accepted Answer

Sounds like he’s really into it, just once try to be uninhabited and see what happens

SngBirdy · Answer

Moaning is the most hottest and arousing thing you can do

Browneye57 · Answer

"I still get really embarrassed and scared." Psychosis. It's all in your head.

outside_Toronto · Answer

I don't know... you shouldn't

andrermm · Answer

Well as a guy I can tell you we do enjoy a girl moaning.. And if all it takes is a few kisses, he's a lucky guy. You don't need to feel embarrassed by it as he won't judge you. If anything he'll enjoy every little sound you make