Girls, erections (please read details)?

[Anonymous]

You're probably thinking "ugh, another erection question" lol, but this is a bit more specific and I'm curious what women think/feel (if anything). So, I know women's feedback usually about seeing erections, that if it's attached to "your guy" or someone you're attracted to, seeing them can turn you on, or you don't mind looking anyway. And that "random" "public" erections from strangers you don't want to see, understandably if the guy is being "creepy" or flaunting it on purpose, I get that.

But what about random public ones but the guy isn't doing it on purpose and you may be in an environment where it's "acceptable". Does seeing them do anything for you? Or do you like seeing them, but doesn't necessarily "do anything" for you, but you don't mind looking? Or maybe you like (want) to see them? Example, say you were at a sex club. Erections are expected, and say you seen some, but he wasn't hitting on you or anything like that, you just see a few random ones, what then? Thoughts? Turn you on? Or just, "enjoy the view" but that's about it? Or nothing at all, don't really pay attention because it's not your guy? So in an environment where erection would be "expected" to see, and he's not a "creepy guy" would/do you like them, turn you on at all, or is it still if it's just attached to your guy? Or like porn, if any of you watch it, are you focusing on the guys erection or is it more the sex act you're focusing on when you watch it? Do you, or have you looked up pictures on the internet? Just curious lol.

Please be detailed in your answer, eg "yeah I like them" isn't what I'm looking for lol. Thoughts, feelings etc is what I'm curious about. What goes through your head in other words :)

[Sangita93]

I am from India and belong to traditional Hindu cultured family. Thinking anything outside marriage about sex is strictly prohibited and considered as a sin. I have never tried it before marriage, and I will never try it. I need not to explain how the sight of my husband’s erect penis always excites me and makes me want to put it where it should be – including in my mouth. I happen to think that his penis is magnificent and it never fails to turn me on. If it is attached to a man that I find sexually attractive, and I have consented to seeing it, then yes, I enjoy it. I believe most women feel the same way. A strange erect penis if I am forced to look at is a different story. I have been flashed by strangers twice, during my project in a hospital. The whole experience lasted less than a minute, but it left me feeling disgusted and violated. So while women do tend to find an erect penis arousing if they have chosen to see it, you will not get anywhere by just whipping your dick out in front of random women. Hopefully you will be arrested instead. The man is someone who the woman wants to be intimate with, or the setting is one where displays of arousal are appropriate, in sufficient privacy or in porn; in this case the woman usually enjoy seeing an erection. The man is a stranger, or someone else the woman does not want to have sex with, and the setting is inappropriate - a public place, work or school - the woman will not be happy when confronted with an erect penis. In northern Australia there are lots of off-clothing optional beaches, and many girls go there to watch a man`s organ from soft to hard and try not to stare and embarrass him though. They like watching it twitch and throb while he tries to hide it. We may call them just a natural born hippie girl. In general, women like to see their own man`s erect, but dislike ‘flashers’ and people sending dick pictures to random women they do not know intimately. There will still be some women who will not mind, but most will. Just seeing a stranger with an erect penis, could make a woman feel uncomfortable or threatened. It depends on the woman and her mood at the time. To some, it makes them horny.

[fauchelevent]

Look away because 1. It’s minda creepy to stare at some random dudes boner in my opinion, and 2. He’s probably in some discomfort and embarrassment and hoping no one sees and he’ll be trying to control it, no need to make the situation worse for the dude. Like, if I got turned on in public and my nipples were visible through my shirt or something, id feel uncomfortable if anyone looked at them, so I’d extend the same courtesy. I doubt it’d really turn me on besides a mild interest.

For porn, it’s more the sex act. Sure, the dudes boner is hot and I’m going to look at it but I’m more focused on the actual sex rather than individual body parts. I suppose that when I’m actually having sex with my partner though, I have more interest in checking him out, maybe just because it’s more intimate. I haven't googled pictures on the internet.

[Jazz_mackay]

I love to know that I've turned a guy on especially in public ;)

[Asker]

What if you're not sure if you're the cause of it? Or do you just imagine that you are? lol

[Jazz_mackay]

It depends if he's my boyfriend or not

[Anonymous]

Do you know my friend felt an erection on her on the tube and the guy who is a stranger to her had the audacity to write about his experience so not good