Is it weird/superficial that this is my fetish?

Okay I just turned 24, pretty and carefree. I'm turned on by a body part. I'm sexually turned on by abdomens. Like if a guy has a flat stomach with abs I'll masturbate to it. That actually is what I masturbate to, and I can seriously have the best orgasm in 30 seconds or less depending on how turned on I get or how much i like his abs. It's been a fetish. And I feel embarrassed just saying that. I can't get with guys that don't at the *very* least have a flat stomach. I try not to act on impulse when I'm hooking up but I end up wanting to so I usually slip my hand under their shirts and rub around.

I've been dating this guy I've known since high school and I think he's gorgeous! Ever since he joined the football team, he has gotten ripped, with lean muscles and a 6 pack to boot. Fast forward 3 months and like if we're cuddling I'm always running my fingers through his abs and I've full on licked and kissed them for over 3 minutes.

Guys, would you be straight up turned off and freaked out or would you just be like fuck it whatever as long as you get sex and you personally think she's hot.

Girls, anyone who has the same fetish/experience as me? So that i know i’m not alone & feel all weird about it...

In case you’re wondering, yes that’s my current boyfriend.

Is it weird/superficial that this is my fetish?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • lol I remember the first year I got a 6 pack. I asked my girlfriend at the time what her favorite part of my body was and she said my abs. My response was, "Good, I'd of been offended if you said anything else with how much work I put into them" lol. Part of me gets off on a girl liking the parts of me that I like. That seems to be true for girls a lot of times too. Like if a girl really likes her ass, then she loves that her guy likes her ass. If a girl doesn't like her as, but her guy does she can't really get behind it even tho she's glad her guy likes her. She's just not "with it" so to speak.

    • Oh i see! Glad to hear she loves your abs ^^ For my boyfriend, he loves it that i love his abs so much, but still can’t really wrap his head around it! Cause for him, his proudest muscles are his pecs (which i love too 😍) How do i even explain to him why his abs are such a turn on for me? 😂 I think part of the reason his ripped bod gets me so hot & bothered is cause I always knew him as the skinny guy in middle schl. So imagine my utter surprise when on our 1st night, as we were making out, i felt some solid bumps on his stomach through his shirt! 😂

    • lol no need to explain, just enjoy xD. Glad you two are enjoying eachother

  • No worries, 70% of the girls I’m with are like that. No turnoff, feels nice actually 😋

    • Oh so it actually doesn’t feel ticklish and feels nice? How does it exactly feel? My boyfriend says it gets ticklish when i lick/kiss the bumps sometimes.. Do girls you’ve been with do that?

    • They do the same and yeah it’s ticklish, especially on the sides... what feels nice is the attention they receive, it’s worth standing through the ticklish feeling 😄

    • Oh what do you mean by sides? For me, i think the appeal of my bf’s ripped bod is also more cause when we were younger, I always knew him as this super skinny kid.. So imagine when we got tgt and I discovered/felt some hard bumps on his stomach through his shirt! 😂

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, it's not weird or superficial at all.
    Do you think I'm superficial for liking full-figured guys with wheelbarrows?

    Is it weird/superficial that this is my fetish?
  • I have the same kind of fetish. I love guys who have fit bodies and nice abs... I lick and kiss them too 😂

    • Ooh interesting. How do you lick/kiss? For me, i love to run my tongue in between the lines and slowly appreciate and kiss each bumo

    • I’m with you on that girl! 😂😍

    • Two very wild girls, my dick is hard as fuck after reading the answers so far.

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  • You're perfectly normal. Most women are turned on my a great set of abs.

  • That is not my turn on, but we’re all wired differently.
    Have fun!!

  • That's super interesting because I don't like abs. Interesting.

  • No, that’s just what your into. That’s what you like 👍🏻

  • No it's not weird, we all have fetishes as long as they don't harm
    others or ourselves.

  • Nah nothing wrong with it.. Every one has their thing lol.

  • Same desire but i get totally wild if a stiff cock rises in front of the abs

  • most girls like abs

  • You be you! If you like abs and your boyfriend has them it is also because he likes you to rub them and touch them. A fetish is a fetish. I also love girls with a toned tummy!

  • It's your thing.

  • No I work out something fierce and I'd love for a girl to get off my abs

  • I'd actually be a bit disappointed if she didn't appreciate the work in the gym and with dieting.

  • im turned on by feet.

    am i weird for that?

  • No I wouldn’t care if I had abs for her to rub and lick 😊