Boyfriend Can't Stay Hard or Cum While Having Sex With Me?
I usually end up having to give him a blow job or hand job to get him off.
I have talked to him about it and he says he is attracted to me and I know he is. He told me that sometimes he's just so stressed he can't perform. But... how can he stay hard and come when I give him a bj or hj?
He's not that active, he doesn't eat super healthy, he is a little bit overweight and he's 36, but he doesn't smoke or drink, and he does have a high sex drive. But all these things were true 3 months ago as well and then he could perform just fine, so I don't understand.
It's really affecting our sex life. Lately when he wants to have sex, I don't even feel up to it anymore. I'm too afraid that we'll be half way through and he'll go limp and I'll have to suck him off or jerk him off or something. I usually don't mind, but I just want to have sex and feel good and have him inside me until he comes, instead of having to stop a few minutes in, half satisfied and having to sit there and suck him until he comes.
What can I do? What can he do?
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