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Do you PREFER a Surprise BLOWJOB standing, laying down, or sitting? Or ALL 3?

I want to surprise my boyfriend by giving him a blowjob sometime next month, over college break. Our schools are 2 hours away from each other. We've only made out and he's played with my boobs and butt. We're both not ready to have actual sex yet (he's waiting till marriage) (I'm just a shy virgin). But he said he doesn't consider oral or anal actual sex. I'm not really interested or comfortable with anal... at all... BUT he's such a sweet and great boyfriend and I'd like to please him, so I though I'd start small with a blowjob. He knows I'm shy and honestly he doesn't expect me to give him a blowjob for a while. I made a joke about giving him a blowjob, and he was like "nah not you're style" XD I'd like to catch him off guard and surprise him since he thinks I'm too innocent to give one. But I don't know what position would be the best time to surprise him in. **Here are four options I'm considering: 1. He is a gamer so while he's in his chair, I was thinking I could go on my knees, and spin the chair towards me and just unzip his pants. 2. While we're cuddling I could start touching his junk mail and then just ask If he wants a blowjob? 3. Just drop to my knees while he's standing in his dorm room and unzip his pants 4. Start rubbing on his junk mail while he's in his gaming chair AND THEN bring him over to the bed to continue the actual blowjob act. * ALSO instead of doing it over November break should I wait until his birthday in December which is during winter break.* Let me know which situation you would prefer... or if you're a girl which one you think your man would like the best, or come up with your own. Thanks so much for your help!
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Thanks so much for all the great opinions! Should I give him one on his birthday instead? I'll update I guess on how it went... even though that kinda weird XD
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Most Helpful Girls

  • People on this website really seem to love sucking dick, but most women i know personally don’t like to do it, they just do it to please their partner, in almost starting to think these pink accounts are catfish and really dudes... kus

    • LOL I guess people on this website do XD I'm surprised to learn that a lot of girls don't like to do it. I think its just because I'm young and I have no experience. I guess I'll figure out if i hate it or not soon enough haha

    • Personally when i was your age i was also a Virgin but i wasn’t interested in that at all. Any way, just curious , what would be your pleasure out of that? Lol

    • No sexual pleasure really i guess... Sorry i'm not trying to brag here but a lot of my friends describe me as a "Giver" not a taker. I just make me happy to make people happy in general. Especially my boyfriend. He's like the ultimate gentleman. Always pays for my food, respectful, always is supportive when it comes to school, carries my stuff, opens doors, my parents love him. He always says that I don't owe him anything just because He "pays for my food". But he does so much more than that. I just would like to repay him for his niceness in a different way... I guess... haha

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  • While he's playing a video game "tell him to keep playing no matter what" or while he is on his knees lol.

    • OH WOW that's hot! Good idea XD

Most Helpful Guys

  • I like either 2 or 3 the best. If you do #2, though, to make it a real surprise don't ask him. Just go from making out and touching his junk right to pulling his pants down and putting it into your mouth.

    • oh? really? So it's fine not to ask? Maybe just cuz I'm a girl i think consent is important and all that. BUT If you think it'll make it more exciting for him I won't ask.. but I'll go slow so that he can stop me lol

    • That's probably why. Guys aren't that concerned about being coerced into anything, probably because we're physically able to resist. It's more of a turn-on than anything if a girl initiates.

    • Yeah you're right. I might get all awkward if I ask. Thanks man!

  • I always liked it any of those ways, but I was over excited the first time a girl pulled my shorts off to do it

    • this helps! Yeah I'll make sure to pull them down for him

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  • All 3. Standing first, because after the second one, standing is probably not an option any more. And for the last one he can lie back on the bed and enjoy you.

  • Laying down!

    • thanks friend!

    • You're welcome! 😊

  • Sitting is best because I can spread my legs wide and relax while holding her head.

  • Honestly do whatever comes naturally to you but it might be a better idea for a birthday surprise for him

    • Yeah ill try to go with the flow, but if I chicken out then I'll shoot to do it on his birthday. Thanks girl!

    • There ya go that's a plan! or if you'd want to really surprise him (and don't chicken out) then you could always do it both times. I'll do it for my boyfriend once in awhile

  • laying or sitting.

    • oh both? cool thanks!

  • lol it's a surprise blowjob. i'm not picky xD

    • lmao yeah seems like none of the guys that replied are picky at all. They're all just happy to get one. Real gents haha

    • yeah that's exactly what i'd expect xD like if some was to offer you a million dollar in bills or as a cheque, would you be picky? you'd be like "i don't fucking care, just hand me the money" right? xD

    • LOL omg you just made a question about blowjobs into a life lesson. Thanks so much again!

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  • I like any position and change is good, but lying down is my favorite because it's easier for me to concentrate on how good it feels.

    • Yeah it seems like most guys don't care as long as they're comfortable and can just focus on feeling good. Thanks for your opinion!

  • Laying down in a comfortable bed or something, would be amazing

    • comfort makes its better I guess! thanks for your opinion!

  • Standing.
    "he doesn't consider oral or anal actual sex" He's wrong.
    "I'm not really interested or comfortable with anal..." Well that's a shame.

    • haha IKR I was confused when he said that "he doesn't consider oral or anal actual sex" too. He's catholic tho so bascially he told me "As long as his Peen doesn't ACTUALLY go into my V then he feels comfortable" XD. I think he's just scared he'll go to hell or something... I don't know And I mean I'm scared to do anal... I feel like it'd just be painful... and dirty lol

    • Catholicism makes no fucking sense. Anal is great as long as you prepare a bit for it and have good lube and relax and he's a little gentle with you. It's totally normal. It may hurt a bit at first, yeah, but then you just back off and wait for pain to subside then try again.

    • Yeah Catholicism kinda is haha I'm actually not religious... he doesn't force it on me either, we just try to respect each other. I feel like he's just in denial tho... or brainwashed about what types of sex is right or wrong... Maybe I'll take your advice. I kinda told him straight no that I'm not comfortable with anal. But he's not a rough guy at all... maybe it wouldn't hurt so bad. But like do you not feel gross putting your Peen in a poophole lol?

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  • If u ask.. It'll make it weird.. If he's gaming.. N u try it.. It might not go smoothly as he'll be mad when he initially looses focus n ull be off mood then.. Just start by rubbing over pants.. N just let him know with eye contact.. Him standing will be best way to go

  • Number three

  • Laying down is the best, but sitting is nice too.

  • Any surprise blowjob is a great blowjob. But do all three.

    • LOL thanks!

    • Np. After make him work for it.

  • All 3

    • haha thanks bro

  • 1,3,4. Mostly 1. If I were him I would love that

    • lol awesome! I'm guessing you're gamer too? XD

    • Yeah I can be. I would love to just be sitting there and all of a sudden get a bj. In going to add that to my bucket list rn lol

    • OMG YES! Do it XD Lol sorry if this is always but what do you like to play?

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  • No3. Standing :)

    • thanks man!

  • let me relax sit so I can cum easily.

    • okie doke! I'll remember to make sure he's comfortable ^__^

    • ask him how he cum easily.

  • All depending on place and situation 😍😜

  • #3 I prefer the drop to your knees approach!

    • that's my favorite to get on my knees... i get excited by giving a blowjob

  • Standing

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