Why do women treat "nice men" like shit and expect to be treated with respect in return?

[Alone-Forever]

So, i am in my late 20's. Never had a relationship, and lost my virginity to a whore, or to use more "kind" words a prostitute. And that was it. My experiences with girls women have been 100% negative. I don't fit the stereotypical characteristics of a self-described "nice guy", since i never called myself that. I already heard from the women who rejected me, that i was a nice guy, that i listened to their problems and gave advice, made them laugh and such. But they only wanted to be friends and nothing else. My first experience with love, was in middleschool. There was a girl i had a crush on for 2-years. When i asked her out, she said she could'nt. And the next day in school, i heard her talk with a friend, saying how i dared to ask her out, and i was ugly. And her friend saying that she should have said yes, so she could get a free meal. These are the reasons of their rejection: - To ugly - To young - To old - To weak - She deserved someone better - Inferior - To poor Women in their teenage years, and early 20's, prefer the exciting bad boy's for short-term (sexual) relationships, after doing one night stands etc for a longer period of time. They tend to reflect on life, and how they have been treated by those men. And see no future in them. Then all of a sudden she changes her mind, and looks towards the men she looked at as "inferior", and expect those men to welcome her with open arms, out of desperation. I was told by one of those women, that her past does'nt matter, it's about the person she is now. Basically getting a free pass to treat people like shit, without consequences. Yet if a "nice guy" wants sex, then the men in question are not "entitled" to sex. Which is fine, yes she thinks she is entitled to be treated as a princess and forgiven for her past actions. Just goes to show how sexist and psychotic they are, thinking they have the right to use and abuse people as she wishes. I am no longer a nice nor bad guy. I am indifferent, i need nothing.

[nasty4fun]

Man look. You just be who you are. If you don't represent as anything other than you then we open attracted to you will come to you. Stop searching, be content. ENJOY LIFE!! Be you. Then the right woman will find you or you her. Because your not being anything but you. If you want something to adhear to anything else you must clean the surface first. If it's a dashboard in a car you wipe down with alcohol and then let dry proceed to stick. No debris in the way means you better want that there cause it ain't coming off. Same with a relationship. To find the right one you must learn to be content by yourself.

[AustinMan]

Middle school is the cruelest part of our lives. I suggest you let go of what happened there and understand that women are not anywhere close to as visual sexually as men. We are attracted and aroused by what we see, hence lingerie and porn. Focus on becoming a really good conversationalist and learning how to make the ladies laugh. I predict you'll be amazed at the difference.

[Alone-Forever]

I already make women laugh, humour is not the problem. I have female friends, no male friends tho. Although, i would'nt really call them friends. I would'nt care if they died to be honest. I only care about myself. The whole would can die for all i care.

[ThatFaroeseOne]

They just aren't that into you. It sucks, and I'm sorry, but that's why anyone turns anyone else down. You try to group all women together, when we are all different. I'm in my early twenties and i, by no means, prefer bad boys and one night stands over something meaningful from a person I care about.

To say, that's who I was in the past, isn't a free pass. They are making it known that they've changed, but all sane people understand you don't have to accept that. Men can deny women and women can deny men.

[Alone-Forever]

The women i know, get pretty angry when i say i look at a woman's past. And don't want a woman who got fucked by 50+ guy's. So which means they are still immature, and they have'nt changed at all. They just don't want to face the consequences of their life choices. So basically, they are just sexist.

[ThatFaroeseOne]

Sorry you've been interested in sexist women, but you can't group everyone together

[Alone-Forever]

Yes, i can.

[ThatFaroeseOne]

You can try, but it won't do anything. You'll just have people treat you like shit for being a bigot. So much for that respect you wanted, if you can't even see people as individuals

[Alone-Forever]

Who said i wanted respect? I treat people how they treated me, tired of being a victim. Of others treating me like shit and getting away with it.

[ThatFaroeseOne]

Strange thing to complain about if you don't want any respect. People can treat you however they choose, they aren't "getting away with anything" as long as it's legal. You are just looking for that respect, since you can't punish others for not liking you

[Alone-Forever]

Treating women like shit is legal to. Noone mentioned anything about illegal or legal, until you.

[ThatFaroeseOne]

Getting away with it kinda infers to the legal side. Treating anyone like shit is legal, but by boxing people together, you'll only get more and more hate

[PatriceONeal]

He absolutely can, and is. Women can be painted with a broad brush becuase they act so congruently with one another.

[partydelights]

You're falling in love with the "same person" over and over again (Sex and the City).

And that "same person" drain your life.

Try to reevaluate and then find someone really different. There are women who are ready to settle down and look for nice guys and treats them well. Good luck.

[Alone-Forever]

I am balancing between absolute hatred of women, and complete indifference. I have no interest in sexual encounters, since i consider myself to old for that. I have no interest of relationships, since i simply cannot trust their words. Since those type of women will alway's lie about the number of men they had, because they know it would lower her chances. Best option is to simply be alone, and only care for yourself. At least i have good credit, and focus on doing things i like. Like gaming.

[partydelights]

I feel sad reading your reply. Really. And I'm sorry you had to go through a certain past that I could not understand. But one thing I know. Love is real. So find it. It will be life changing for you. Like I wrote many times here: finding real love is like Edison making light bulb. He failed many many times. But it took him only ONE success to light up his life. And may you have this success.

[Alone-Forever]

I have no need of it. There are plenty of single women and men, if a man is desperate enough to take such a used woman, then let him. Rather him then me. I prefer my freedom, i am used to being alone, and only relying on myself.

[partydelights]

I believe in the saying "no man is an island", romantically speaking. And I hope you don't make an important life's choice just based on a past or something you talked yourself into. Nevertheless, I respect the eventual choice you made. Just voice a concern and I truly wish whatever you decide, be content and find happiness. 😁

[ChocolateCheesecake]

Correction... Some women.
Some men do the same.

[chunlilovesvega]

I'm always nice to men...

[Just_A_Guy2018]

I hear you mate.
We have call girls, sex robot companions, fleshlites, can toss one off. You do not need to have a woman in your life. They drain it anyways.
Take care of you mate. Work on yourself, obtain a higher or more education, travel the world and see all its wonders, explore different hobbies. Met people from all over the world, get a dirt bike and hit the trails.

[Chaz269]

Your meme missed a big one. Of the top 10 leading causes of death for women, 9 affect more men than women, yet we invest 4 times more money researching and treating women's health issues than we do men's health issues. Of course, ours is the only society in the history of mankind to treat an oppressed class in such a manner.

[Just_A_Guy2018]

@Chaz269 www.realsexism.com there is a ton more facts here.

[Lance1965]

The answer is in your post, self-entitlement. Most don't do it to be mean. They do it because they feel entitled to do it and that is almost impossible to change. Women want they think of as the top 10% of men. If they can't find that man they will take less but they will always keep their eyes open for an upgrade. Not every female is like this but I would say it is the majority that have this mindset.

[MarketData]

"the men in question are not "entitled" to sex"

That's the one part of your rant that I agree with. I'm sure womankind is heartbroken to have missed out on you.

[Alone-Forever]

I believe i said i agreed with it, but that it cut both way's. Did'nt say women were obligated to have sex with anyone who is nice, did i? Just pointing out the hypocrisy. But your little lizzard brain did'nt understand that apperantly. PS: Yes, i can insult you aswell.

[Anonymous]

Dating apps.
They can now swipe and find another guy.

[Anonymous]

They're feminist bitches taylor made for abuse.