Don't dish it out if you can't take it in return. Because I'd respond to that sort of sexual aggression in kind, and ramp it up to the next level. I'm not some submissive cuck doormat. I'd actually quite like a decent bit of sexual aggression from a girl- if you need your partner to be some meek, mild cowering little helpless lamb, then you're not a real dom, you're just a wannabe playing out a power-trip fantasy. But rest assured that you'd get more than you bargained for.
You slap me, I'll slap you back, harder. You bite me, I'll bite you back, harder. You pull my hair, I'll yank on yours, harder. Because let's make this clear- I would be the dominant partner. I am stronger than you; I can overpower you, easily. And if you try that shit on me, try to overpower me or assert dominance over me, then I would instinctively rise to the challenge, just as I would with any non-sexual acts of physical violence against myself by any assailants, and put you in your place. Beneath me.
I never surrender; I never lose. And if no surrender's forthcoming, if the hostile (/s) won't back down or acknowledge their defeat, I'll fight to my dying breath, without fear or hesitation, because that's the kind of guy I am. So if you're the kind of wannabe femdom bitch who gets her kicks from stomping on guys' balls, but who'll scream and shout "RAPE!" from the rooftops and don her victimhood cap the second that any guy actually stands up to her and asserts his masculinity, then you can go do one. But if you just like it rough, angry and feral, then I'd be more than happy to oblige.
chill out with the macho bravado man lol
@MrNameless lol some dudes
Well godamn. Zero chill with this one... Jesus.
I like a balance. If I'm DATING a gal, I want some sweet and some rough, and sometimes one changes to another. But in a friends with benefits situation, it would mostly be rough. I sometimes even eat rough. I'll put you exactly where I want you, hold you down, and I'm going after one thing, to make you cum hard. If we're having sex, it's probably going to be the same thing. I've never slapped a girl in the face, ever, but I hear that's a thing for some, and I guess I could be convinced. In the past 2 years, I've learned to be much rougher during sex, and I'm running and working out, mainly with the goal of being able to be rougher for longer! Haha!
Alpha09, where did you learn to be aggressive in the bedroom (or wherever ;-) at 19y/o?
Never really learned it I've just always done that. Though I will say reading erotica has given me some ideas.
Gotcha. Yeah, reading that stuff gave an ex of mine some pretty crazy ideas. Loved it though! That's where I learned! Then of course, 50 shades came out...
I'm very submissive and like to be treated like a naughty girl! I couldn't be dominant tbh
I'm sexually aggressive too, and always the dominant/on top.
Thank you for MHO
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Oh I love it, but I also am a bit overwhelmed at first, have eenn with a couple (ex girlfriend too) who were very aggressive in bed and wanted control, but wanted me to keep up to her pace. My last girlfriend was 23, she wanted me to Fuck her harder, and keep endurance level up, I felt some pressure and unfortunately she broke it off with me and didn't tell me it was that I couldn't keep up until I asked her. Its hot regardless but I'm 37 and try my best though sometimes not enough. So yes some pressure ill feel
She wanted you to fuck harder. How is a woman aggressive which I often seen connected to dominance if she's the one wanting you to fuck her and ravage her. It's weird how I feel women feel they are aggressive or dominant, but more often it's just them having the guy fuck them. The only different is they are wanting that. Guys who are aggressive, they don't tell the chick to fuck them harder. The dude just stays on top mostly and bangs her brains out. If a woman is aggessive, I'd think she be fucking the dude on top and him harder and ravaging him, not asking or wanting the dude to ravage her as her aggression would prompt her to wanting to fuck the dudes brains out... I don't know...
Assertive yes definitely! Aggressive no... doesn't do it for me... a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to get it.. hell yes, but keep your teeth and claws to yourself and don't hit me. It's probably because an ex of mine used to actually work in a dungeon. so I've kinda got it outta my system. Its amazing what can be achieved with a fork!!
I like it, and it will just feed my aggression and passions really. But at some point, it isn't needed or that it's somewhat doesn't have to be ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Like if that's all you like, it seems to me like you don't see the value in a more sensual intimate situation. Or that you feel if you change your tactics it will come across as you say you are this way and you are being hypocritical to yourself. It's like how BDSM is not always about the whips and hand cuffs and pain increasing endorphin flooding what have you. It's about knowing what each other wants out of it and then being the provider for that person of what they want, and the rough stuff is just a part of that. But even then, I'm sure vanilla sex or more subtle sex is still enjoyed and practiced.
Anyhow, not criticizing here. I love a woman who want to attack me and have her way with me, but if it's overly aggressive, like she wants to treat me like her dog or "peg"board ;) than fuck that noise. I'm no one's tool or toy, unless I want them to play with me.
Men like savages in bed, scratch his back, slap his face, give him a wedgy, slit his throat, they like the passion.
My current g/f has a higher labido than me and if I don't service her enough she will aggressively demand sex. I also had an ex who was very sexually aggressive, she would even tell me that she was going to rape me when we got home. So yeah I've experienced it and I think it's hot.
Yeah, I think it's totally hot! The first time it happened I totally didn't expect it. She was riding me in cowgirl more and more intensely. She had previously restrained both of my arms to the bedposts.. We were both really into it when out of nowhere she slapped my face really hard four or five times.
I was stunned. She told me I just stared at her for several seconds with a hurt look and moisture in my eyes. It turned her on insanely and she rode herself to orgasm, then I came shortly after.
The contrast between pleasure and pain becomes blurry when you're really aroused.
I haven't been with very many girls who are that way though. And she was the only one who got aggressive with me out of the blue like that. It was a total heat of the moment thing and she was super sweet when we finished.
G@G seems to be where all the dominant females hang out. There are many more represented here than in the general population it would seem.
Sounds like fun
Perhaps you could charge for it. [shrug]
Who is that in your picture? Normally I prefer without make up, but when they do have it, it looks best like that picture has it.
Anyways for your question, I wouldn't like biting or scratching or being tied up at all, but slapping, choking, punching, kicking, and stuff like that would all be good fun for a girl to do. I'd never want to do any of that to her though.
Shit sorry I haven't been on in a while. Top photo is Eiza Gonzalez, from "Dusk till Dawn" it's on Netflix.
Didn't know about that show. Is it any good?
Depends on what kind of content you enjoy. It was cheesy at times but overall it wasn't horrible. In all honesty she was the best part of that show.
girls like it gentle like a feather.
it's Enthusiasm , not aggressiveness :)
You don't consider slapping aggressive?
yeah, well that is! :)
I like my sex messy and aggressive. If you don't mind, spit, sweat and cum everywhere you and I would have lots of fun
Dominant women are pretty fucking hawt
No matter how aggressive she is, I am way too much aggressive all the time lol
I have been with an agressive girl in bed. She was very go-ahead and it's very pleasant because she does eveything guys want without asking. She dares e erything. I love theses times. I remember all good things she made. She was enterprising and agressive too but it ends without hurting anytime. For exemple she bites me in the arms without permanent markings or in the shoulders. She drives strongly her nails in my back.
Or she grabs my balls and squeeze them just a little bit when she makes blowjob.
No choice I can't say no to a blowjob in these conditions.
But it was also a pleasure because I am enterprising too and sometime I surprise her. I gave her no choice and rule everything during making love.
Both it was very eespectful of the other.
Fuck yes!
Let the boy be dominant sometimes in bed and let him do these aggressive things. You can can it by yourself how does it feels.
Slapping is a bit much, but biting and scratching is great.
I like it and have been with one woman who was very aggressive
there has to be a balance
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