Girls, why women aren't sexually attracted to the male body?

[deliriousmistakess]

Keep hearing from early childhood that girls are not visual, they don't experience sexual attraction visually. They experience sexual attraction after spending time with a guy, if they have the right chemistry with then they can experience sexual attraction to that specific guy. But this sexual attraction is caused by "chemistry, mental connection" not his body itself. Women aren't actually sexually attracted to anything intrinsically male.

Most popular and most common thing that I often hear from girls,
I literally never feel any sort of sexual attraction towards a guy based solely on looks. I don't check out random strangers or anything like that. I only feel attraction towards guys I have the right chemistry with. I can look at a guy and acknowledge that he is conventionally attractive, but I don't feel attracted.

From my childhood I am looking for a answer,

1. if a guy with asymmetry face, chicken leg, chicken hand, shorter guy, weak jawline ask you out and after knowing him if you find right chemistry then you will find him sexiest person in the world and only he will sexually attract you?

Broad shoulders, symmetry face, abs, back muscles, veiny forearms, well-defined calf muscles is just nice as like nice painting and will not attract you if you already don't know the guy well or the guy is not your familiar and if stated conditions (1) aren't met?

Friend circle, colleague, neighbor except this league all people are stranger to us, so women's sexual attraction is limited to this specific league? Until they meet the stated conditions (get to know and find right chemistry) girls are basically asexual? If they never find right chemistry then they will never experience sexual attraction because physical appearance is not something that attract them, it's just an object as like mobile is an object?

If women aren't visual then in which way women are different than demisexual?

[ak667]

I think women are but maybe not so primitively visual like us in my experience (though I am going merely anecdotally). Even homosexual men seem to operate more visually this way towards other men than heterosexual women.

But I have, in my experience, certainly found some women attracted to touching a man's body, being impressed by some muscle and wanting to touch, that sort of thing. And I think there's still a visual stimuli there but it's probably just not as blatant as guys who can merely look at a picture of a woman's butt without knowing anything about her (maybe not even seeing her face) and get excited.

Another tendency I've found just in my experience and I don't know how much it applies for all women is that women seem to respond more to how you touch them than just feeling your body. With guys usually if you just feel a woman's body against yours (ex: a lap dance), that's a turn-on. I think that might be true to some extent for women as well if they feel a man's strong chest, arms, this sort of thing, but a lot of arousing a woman in my experience is going to boil down to how you touch her, grab her, and show desire for her that way. It's like they're responding to your own expression of desire for them and reciprocating.

This is all just my crude kind of observations. I hope I didn't offend any women and I wouldn't claim to have almighty knowledge whatsoever of how women work. Just based on my limited experiences here, I've found these sorts of things tending to be true in my particular life.

[deliriousmistakess]

Then they wouldn't mind have sex with another woman because they are not visual and touch is not gender specific, hand is hand, mouth is mouth.

[ak667]

Something there might be an attraction to something still very male-oriented like greater muscle, strong arms, the consuming sort of desire a man can express towards a woman. Another thing to factor in is that even if a woman is very visually stimulated by a man, she has more incentive to not jump headstrong on that urge. Because with women sex can easily hurt them and lead to extremely dissatisfaction if they choose an insensitive and selfish partner, for example. So they have a greater incentive to select more carefully, perhaps, which might also make them appear less visual in nature even if they are getting excited by what their eyes see.

[deliriousmistakess]

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Muscular women have muscle, strong arms. Muscular women can express her desire towards a woman.

[ak667]

Absolutely, but so can a man be soft and delicate like a woman. Fundamentally if we're talking sexual orientation which is a whole different topic, a lot of that is fundamentally tied to the difference in reproductive functions. But the reproduction functions do actually express themselves in a lot of nuanced ways that often lead to differences between the sexes (the differences in hormones over a lifetime usually lead to very different traits, both physical and in terms of character).

[deliriousmistakess]

1. Women are not visual so they are not aroused by body, they are aroused by (!!!) 2. They are aroused by touch, touch is not gender specific, hand is hand, mouth is mouth.

[Tizoumoukel9ahba]

Girls are visual, and most of them experience sexual attraction without any sort of connection if the guy is attractive to them, but they don't act on that attraction because they are shy or they are afraid of society and generally it's the job of men to approach, so they need some connection with the guy to have sex with him to feel safe, women chek out men all time and talk only about men and a lot of women watch gay porn, do you know any woman in real life? i don't think so

[Hannah202]

I barley care about “chemistry” lol

[deliriousmistakess]

Then how do you experience sexual attraction?

[Hannah202]

Arms, abs, dick. Easy

[DzDzhhh]

But you are bisexual

[Hannah202]

How tf would u know that

[DzDzhhh]

Because you are visual

[Hannah202]

You’re just dumb

[DzDzhhh]

I knew it

[Hannah202]

So by your logic, anyone who is visually attracted to someone is bi

[deliriousmistakess]

if a girl is sexually attracted to a guy without outside factors, there's a high chance she's attracted to a girl too. Cause most girls can be attracted to guys but not sexually enough to lust or be horny, if they do feel lust for a guy, usually they have too for a girl. Cause sexually lusting girls are bisexual than straight.

[DzDzhhh]

80% of women are bisexual and those who are not are demisexual

[samoht89]

girls are just as shallow as men are but, that doesn't mean she's bi