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Do you feel submissive or dominant while giving/receiving a blowjob?

or does it depends on what type of blowjob it is? if yes then what makes it dominant or submissive
i feel i am submissive whenever i give him blowjob
i feel i am submissive whenever i give him blowjob
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Translating to Cunnilingus. Contrasts.
    Nurturing. You are absolutely responsive to her reactions. You do what it takes for as long as it takes, well into neck, tongue and jaw strain territory. You had better like doing it or you will be a bumbling fool.
    However...
    You are in absolute control and know it when you have brought her into breathless incoherence.

  • i dont call them blow jobs, i call them throat fucks

    does that answer your question? :D

    • lol yeah

Most Helpful Girls

  • For me it depends. Most of the time I feel dom but then there are times when my guy holds my head/hair and face fucks me so then I feel sub

    • which do you like better?

    • @QuietRunner depends on my mood. If I'm super horny I will let just about anything happen during sex but if I'm just horny I'm going in with a mission.

    • sounds hawt!

  • Both. I'm servicing him and giving in to his desires, but I'm also controlling him and owning his dick.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Submissive, I have to really relax to enjoy the sensations and I can't do that being dominant

  • I don't think that giving blowjobs are neither submissive nor dominant, nor than it is that for my boyfriend to lick me.

  • Submissive while giving for sure. And that pic is hot I love when a guy grabs my hair like that.

    • I loelve that way

  • Dominant, even though she's the one whose got me by the balls. I love watching her do it (with the lights on).

    • Submissive girls are hot, especially when they're on their knees and looking up at you while sucking.

  • I don’t think if it either way really. It is just about giving and sharing pleasure.

    • Thank you!

  • Dominant when recieving, submissive when giving.

  • I feel pretty dominant when I give oral.

    • Because you can bite? Lol

  • I feel sub, but I like it that way.

  • I feel submissive when I give but that turns me on. There is no better feeling than receiving one.

  • Never submissive. Appreciative. Even during or after a good face fucking I don't feel dominant because of it. It's consensual. I just feel lucky and thankful she is such a great team player and thinks it's hot. Wouldn't face rape. Have had one experience where a girl I'd been flirting with on a dating site came over one random night finally and I didn't ask politely if she wanted to choke on the dick and get face fuck frenzied. She was thankful for it. Turns out that's what she wanted. Apparently so did I. I didn't feel dominant. I'm a team player. I wouldn't ever want to feel like I took something I wasn't given. Like I raped a frown. I actually turned that frown upside down and all the way the fuck out. This dick only enters smiling mouths.

  • I JUST like eating out in submissive position not blowjob

  • In love there no such thing as submissive or dominant, such as a husband and wife will make each other feel happy and comfortable, they might take turns

  • I've only received one and that was a long time ago but I don't remember feeling any particular way besides hyperstimulated.

  • Who tf thinks of every little aspect of sex as necessarily falling into either of those categories? A blowjob is just a blowjob. It's like if I gave you a back rub, does that mean I'm dominating you? Or that you're dominating me? It's utter nonsense to think of it as having anything to do with those concepts.

    • Yeah basically i agree with you! Maybe thats also the way that we could get rid if taboos, by not considering sex acts, games roles etc as dom or sumb things.

    • Thanks, and yeah that's one way to go about it

  • submissive because i beg him to explode in my mouth and i swallow them all.

    • Tech u are sub but if your the type of girl that loves.. it askes the guy if u can do it... and takes control or ties guy up and does it then it becomes dom.

  • Girls have all control naturally... so i want her to be dominant

  • I feel dominant when receiving a blowjob and submissive when going down on my girlfriend. I think it has to do with the giver being lower on the receiver's body and the giver doing all the work for the pleasure of the receiver.

  • It all depends on your mind set. It can be seen as dominant especially if you edge them- because you are in control of when they cum.

  • I don't feel either.

  • "what type of blowjob it is" Uh... huh? There's only one kind.

    Anyway, I've never given one, because I'm not gay, so only received and yes I feel dominant as a result. Which is how it should be.

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