Is Pornography realistic?

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

Do girls really like rough sex that much? Do girls actually love anal and love to deepthroat? Are girls actually horny animals who NEED to fuck 24/7? Do girls crave threesomes and letting 5 guys fuck them and stuff? And last but not least are women actually obsessed with Black guys like they are in Porn?

I am a virgin and I am also much younger than 38. I'm only 18. So I guess I am a loser because I haven't had sex.

Thanks for reading.

[Anonymous]

Pornography is realistic but not representative. Almost everything in porn, some people like. Everything people like is represented in porn. But the 'average' porn people watch doesn't line up with the middle in terms of what most people like.

A distinct minority of women like rough sex. A majority do not.
Most women dislike anal, a minority like it, another minority will do it occasionally. Same on deep throating.
On average women have lower sex drives then men, but the top 10% or so of women do indeed have sex drives men physically can't match.
A lot of women fantasize sometimes about threesomes, but most don't actually want to do it.
Most porn is made for white men. So the main people who want to watch huge black guys fuck tiny white women are … white men. Some women do indeed have a black male kink, but i'd guess they're a minority (and its probably more common the more racist their home region is). Another batch of women are indifferent to the guy's race.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

The “Black man” porn is very popular but it’s humilitaing for white guys so I doubt most White guys watch that type of porn

[Opinion Owner]

There's no porn that 'most' people watch. A lot of people have a humiliation kink. Look at all the femdom shit - it's not being made for female doms (who are extremely rare). Cuckold porn is not made for black guys, it's made for white guys who want to get off at the idea of their little dick being pathetic while their wife gets bred by some big black beast (who is totally dehumanized in this context, but whatever). Not my kink, but that's why some are watching it.

[Browneye57]

So now you spill the beans. 18 and f'ing clueless.
And yes, porn is all fake, and a steady diet of it will leave you unable to function properly with a real woman, and you'll think all that depravity is normal. It's just not.

Men are sexually driven - some 15-25 times as much testosterone as any woman - the sex-drive hormone. So no, women aroused emotionally and men are aroused physically. If there isn't the emotional connection they just don't get the vag-tingles you're claiming they do.

A woman can easily just shut down her entire sex-drive. It's not uncommon for them to go years without having sex. Just ask any married guy. ;)

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

If that was true then how come girls hookup often? If they need an emotional connection that is.

[Browneye57]

Cuz the guys they hook up with have game and she gets the hots for him. End of story. If they're not doing YOU then work on your game, your looks, and your wallet.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

“Gets the hots for him” There you go. Girls just want casual sex. They just like to fuck, I’m 18 and I understand that.

[coralee]

No, porn is designed to appeal to the male gaze. It is designed to appeal to the way men like to see sex and not the way women do. Some women do enjoy anal and deepthroating but for the vast majority of women that isn't their game. If porn was designed toward what the majority of women like it would focus far more on oral (cunnilingus), you would see more foreplay in general, and positions that stimulate the clit.

[deliriousmistakess]

That's why women watch lesbian porn?

[coralee]

@deliriousmistakess Yes that is one of the reasons some women like lesbian porn. It focuses on acts that women find pleasurable.

[deliriousmistakess]

If a woman is aroused by "women being pleased" the how she is straight? She is aroused by "women being pleased" not by men/man. Even someone is aroused by self sexual pleasure they are narcissist

[coralee]

@deliriousmistakess Men aren't aroused by women getting pleased either so you can stop using that tactic. If men actually cared about female pleasure a lot more of you would be able to locate the clitoris. There wouldn't be an orgasm gap and you wouldn't be into straight porn as the acts depicted there are giving the women no pleasure at best and causing her pain at worst. The acts in porn are all about male pleasure often at the expense of female pleasure so no that doesn't make women lesbians.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

@deliriousmistakess many girls watch lesbian porn

[deliriousmistakess]

If you enjoy watching Lesbian Porn you aren't 100% straight otherwise girls wouldn't interest you at all. if you choose to "visualize" what can be done to you and it does not involve a penis, you are not straight. Women get turned on by lesbian porn because they like the idea of sex with women. If gender is irrelevant then women should be aroused by women having sex with animals because situation is same. Glad to know that women enjoy animal porn as well as child porn. When do women see women getting pleased by another women what kind of thought/sense run into their mind? They imagine themselves as a receiver or giver? If the imagine themselves as a giver then they fantasize about licking vagina. If they imagine themselves as receiver then they fantasize about licked by another women. They have to imagine another person's body and mouth. My question is how do they imagine this?

[coralee]

@deliriousmistakess Keep telling yourself that.

[deliriousmistakess]

What about lesbian porn arouse you? How do you visualize lesbian porn?

[coralee]

@deliriousmistakess I don't watch lesbian porn. I don't like visual porn in general I would much rather read it and then it's heterosexual. I am just explaining that some women like it because of the reasons that it encompasses acts the women enjoy. It isn't about who is performing them it's about the act itself. But you are clearly to wrapped up in your view to ever understand that women and men experience porn differently.

[deliriousmistakess]

Keep telling yourself that.

[TacosRAwesome]

It absolutely is... Most hot girls get dicked down in all holes at least twice a day. And that's not including the lesbian activities.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

I mean I know you’re joking but to be honest I wouldn’t be surprised with girls at this stage.

[TayTay21]

You need help, professional help.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

Why?

[Byakugan]

Its acting for a reason. But there are indeed women who do realistically enjoy all of that shit you see in porn lol

After all, the concepts and such had to come from somewhere

[tonicandgin]

Porn is unreal. Especially the orgasm part. I heard porn pot is painful because they aren't aligned correctly because the girl has to make sure the camera can see her tits while she bounces her ass

[tonicandgin]

Lmao I didn't mean to incorporate the word "pot"

[QueenofCups]

Porn is extremely unrealistic.

[wankiam]

its down to what genre/type of porn you watch. plenty of realistic stuff out there but hey people like hollywood cgi movies so its hardly surprising many like unrealistic porn too

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

So girls like all of that stuff? ^

[wankiam]

some will but to base a view of women in general on a distorted fantasy portayal in movies is just ridiculous and is one bad side to porn

[PixiSophie]

It's not like I don't want to try out when I feel like it but in most cases it's all very unreal what you see in porn

[Malita55]

You need help. You should know thats not realistic dummy

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

I wouldn’t be surprised with girls

[Jenny4455]

You'll find some girls that enjoy things you see in porn but most girls don't. Porn is unrealistic, exaggerated just like most other media is

[Johnnie1000]

Pornography is by nature unrealistic. It attempts to take the perverse desires of a multitude of people into a 10 minute secession of what some experience in a life time in the real world. The 60 minute ones usually repeat the same actions throughout the video. No not believe that porn represents the real desires and wishes of most people. Remember that love is never a motive in porn.
Now 18 and a virgin. What is wrong about that? Everyone has a different age and the older the age the better the first time is.

[bethgurl]

This a dumb question

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

How is it?

[Redstang88]

Nope

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

So girls aren’t like that IRL?

[Redstang88]

Most aren’t

[genericname85]

there's porn that's more realistic than other porn and some people do have sex like in a porno. however the average joes sexual experience isn't gonna be like the average porno.

[outside_Toronto]

This is the correct answer 👍

[Lance1965]

No, porn is pure fantasy for the most part. Watch some real home-made amateur porn and you will see how boring it seems compared to the professionally made stuff. Take away the fake acting, the lighting, all the different camera angles and the hot women and you have nothing.

[stormbreaker06]

only 5% is. If you include creep shots and homemade.

some girls in scripted porn mourn to much that it gets annoying. On home made they have a more light, soothing mourn.

[wankiam]

most of the moaning is actually dubbed on afterwards... while the actual sex is being filmed there are loads of directions given so the sound isn't ever recorded and a moaning track is dubbed on after... some people actually make a good living out of being voice overs lol. can you imagine watching the action in an editting suite and making the noises whilst drinking a cup of tea

[DzDzhhh]

Porn is fake

[StrawberryMilkyy]

Stop it. Get some help. Pls stfu!!! This need to stop.

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

Why do I need help?

[Tanyabetsa]

Porn Is unreal but some people want to try things like that

[CuriousMufuxka]

Why did you sign up with an age 20 years older?

[Iamagoodguy]

Nope just like Harry Potter is fake

[DracoLuciusMalfoy]

It might not be. There is no way to know after all.

[Shy_Steve]

Porn gets a bad wrap for being unrealistic by most Women that is because they are focused on the situation or story usually but most of us straight Guys are focused on the woman's body and her private parts, So we all have different opinions of porn.