Fuck Buddies...Whats your view on them?

[Anonymous]

I didn't have f buddies but I had cuddle buddies. It's like the same thing minus the f-ing. well we would kiss, make out, cuddle, and watch movies online or whatever, read, play cards, cuddle, kiss some more, touching, you know? I had like a rotation of 6, some times 3 different guys in one week on different days and I think it's all fine as long as they all KNOW that they are not exclusive and they agree that they are just what they are cuddle buddies. But I got a boyfriend a year after I did all this so I had to drop them all and then got married 3 months later... hahahah.

but if they agree and in honesty I think all was fun and games and most of them are still my friends. Unless we developed strong feelings and then I had to cut them out because I didn't want them and me to cause any frictions but there was no hard feelings. We did nothing wrong to each other, just that there was too much feelings... so about 3 of them are sort of not close to me (no longer facebook friends) but at least 3 of them and I are still facebook friends!

[wildwolfxoxo]

I was fuck buddies with a guy i worked with, at first i didn't really even like him, and didn't want a relationship, so it was strictly sex and it worked out great, that is until i got feeling for him. Everyone told me it would happen at some point but i didn't listen, and then i ended up in this horrible situation where i was falling for someone who didn't feel the same way about me. It was rough for a while but it turned out good, we ended up dating and eventually getting married and now we have kids. So i would say anyone considering it should prepare to be in a relationship at some point because i think it's almost impossible to stay JUST fuck buddies.

[XRabbitHeartX]

I think guys can have f*** buddies easily, they don't go through all those emotional sh*t, but girls will eventually somewhere get hurt, when it's least expected. A girl can try and be as friggen hardcore as she wants and say she won't, but in given time, she will. But it can work, I suppose. Just not for a very long time. I haven't had one and wouldn't either. Just not my thing. It's really easy to get a bad name if you're a girl when it comes to f*** buddies.Word spreads are quickly. I only have one and I'm sure as hell not throwing it away by being known as a f*** buddy.

[Brando]

I wouldn't have one, I don't warm up to people quickly enough at all to be able to have sex with them like that. To me, sex is what people do in relationships, not what they do with random people. The time and energy they spend trying to find a f*** buddy, they could very well have been looking for a relationship anyway. And for those who do it because they don't even want a relationship anyway, sex obviously means enough to them to go out and find it with someone else.

I don't disagree with it really, I don't really care to be honest but it's just something I don't think I could do.

[Cascade]

As I said in another post, everyone develops attachments when they have sex with the same person for a long period of time, whether they would like to admit it or not. I've tried it before, its not nearly as satisfying as a relationship, and it gets all complicated as to how much affection should be shown. Finding someone who cares for you and will stay with you is probably much better for your emotional well being.

[Prettygurl12]

Yeah...no. Not for me. Just no. If I'm going to be intimate with someone I need to know them really REALLY well and I need a commitment and I just can't do a friends with benefits set up. Heck, ask my boyfriend, I need a bigger commitment than boyfriend/girlfriend to do anything more than making out :p

But yeah, can't do a friends with benefits thing. Just can't. Heck, I can't even be truly supportive of friends who are in that type of relationship. The concept is just so foreign to me lol.

[Anonymous]

Guys that are 'missing' something can fuck anything and not develop feelings etc. Women on the other hand start getting attached after about the third shag. I know from vast experience!
The friends with benefits situations that last way past the 3 shag mark. The women will be smitten. They just won't necessarily admit it. All in all friends with benefits is fab for the guy but crap for the girl. Main Reason being is that women are looking for an emotional connection and they never ever get it doing this. Guys are just out for the sex. No time is wasted by the chap to allow her to have 5 minutes worth of emotional intimacy. basically They get what they want.. They are happy and they always dump the girl in the end. Girls don't even contemplate doing this even for two seconds. You will never know or experience self loathing like it.

[Anonymous]

It's possible, but it depends on the people involved. There must be a certain chemistry + understanding that a deeper relationship is not sought. Also the term f*** buddy needs to be replaced with "friends with benefits." You can still care about someone who is your friend, just 'can't fall for them---especially if you're both in relationships with other people who you want to keep separate from your friend with benefits. You know Ashley Madison has a whole website devoted to just such a concept. I've found more than a few takers on this very subject...

Why do you want to know? Are you looking?

[Anonymous]

Yes I have a few fb and yes I can keep the feelings out of it I have been have them the last 4 years I love the idea and I don't have the drama that comes from a relationship. please read mine question and give me a idea if I should drop the guy cus I think he is getting feelings for me and I can't seem to get anyone to answer this.

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[ThatBritishLad]

I think it's a tad bit extremely peculiar, and this is coming from someone who didn't mind TMNT 2014.

[2011confused2011]

Yes, two people can continuously hook up with each other without letting any feelings get involved. Best to only have one f*** buddy then multiple f*** buddies, why go for multiples when you already have one. I had one for so many years, I'm not going to mention exact years, but it has been a long time, until we went our separate ways.

We have never let any feelings get involved, because we both kept our words - agreed to be only f*** buddies.

[Gibbo24]

I think it can work, but there's a time limit on it, before one of the "buddies" gets to involved!

[Anonymous]

i don't get feelings if he's unattractive or bad in bed. case closed!

[Mudskipper]

Always makes you feel like a piece of meat and that your personality might as well be zombie

[Anonymous]

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