Why doesn’t he lick my pussy anymore?

Question

Okay so when me and my boyfriend started dating we began our sex life with oral sex. I would suck him and then he would eat me out for about a minute or two and it felt good. After like doing it three times to me I stopped. I continued to give him blow jobs, some that lasted 30-40 minutes and I did whatever I could to satisfy him hoping he would do the same. Recently we spoke about going down and he stated how he would never go down again because all vaginas taste and smell bad apparently. This kinda hurt me because he had gone down on all the girls he had flings with and I was his serious girlfriend after a long time and that really made me feel bad. However, I take good care of myself, I always wash there after I pee and take showers at least twice a day and proudly I am always fresh. I even sometimes check how I taste down there using my fingers just to be sure and there’s nothing that cannot be handled. He is my first boyfriend and honestly I want to experience a lot when it comes to sex, he’s the first boy I ever kissed and he says he’s in love with me but when it comes to sex the only pleasure I get is from fingering and well not much from penetration because it’s a known fact that girls don’t feel much pleasure, at least a very few do. I do everything for this boy, I go down on him, I jerk him off, I ride him till he cums but I feel I’m getting very little in return. He is a very sweet, polite boy and he really does love me and care for me. I thought that maybe because I love him I should not let sex ruin the relationship but honestly it hurts. It really hurts knowing that the guy you were with pleasured other females he was with before you but does not try with you.

Showerman69 · Accepted Answer

Okay girl, here's the deal. I've gotta believe in your statement saying that you take care of your pussy, keep in mind that in addition to you cleaning, and checking your own pussy by fingering yourself and then licking to make sure that your pussy isn't stinking right? Also, make sure that you duece, and duece often too! Because that gets way up inside your pussy big time and cleans your pussy as good as it can be cleaned!!! If you ever doubt whether or not your stinking, compare to your friends pussy, or friends plural just to make sure because we can't always smell ourselves if it's bad or good? It's like having bad breath, you cannot smell it, but we can! So start there, then I'm a guy who's had probably 70 plus girls in my lifetime and I absolutely love putting my face between their thighs big time girl! Although, I always check myself by the finger test before I'm going south on their pussy or not? Also, I sure as hell not going to tap you if your stinking either. Your guy was into putting his face between your thighs right? Now he doesn't because at first he's got to impress you by pretending he likes chowing on your box? Yes that's right, he's pretending that he likes eating pussy and I highly doubt that he does? The reason your getting those answers from the other girls is he probably did the exact same thing to all them? Impress, then expect! Meaning he wants you to suck all the cum outta his cock if you can basically, and he's a guy therefore he thinks that he can didcktate the relationship. Make sure that he doesn't, 50/50 on everything if you want to stay with him and work out for you two. Otherwise, I'm here to tell you it won't if your relationship is off base. It's gotta be balanced with the two of you, and if he doesn't like eating your pussy I guarantee that you can find a lot of guys your age full of testosterone and would absolutely love to put their face between your thighs okay girl. Deano

MikeAndMolly · Accepted Answer

Yikes, he sounds like a total dick. I would never deny my girlfriend oral sex. But then, I actually love her and want her to feel good, so... Sorry, but your boyfriend is awful.

Benedek38 · Answer

1) Talk to him.  2) Wash that pussy, ffs.

joshuafreeman707 · Answer

It sounds to me like he is simply not a very generous lover.

slatyb · Answer

Sexual happiness is very important. Dump him and find a guy who will happily do it

TadCurious · Answer

I don't blame you for being hurt about this. And he's just wrong about what he said about the smell and taste of vaginas/vulvas.

Johnnie1000 · Answer

He simply doesn't want to do it and thinks it's subservient. Your flavors and consistency may be too smelly and feel bad on his tongue. Some guys like some girls just decide that it is nasty to eat their partner. By the way , what is it that is widely known that girls don't get much pleasure. Was it penetration that girls don't get much pleasure from?