Why does my boyfriend get turned on by the guy I fucked after we broke up then worked things out?

Loveeexxx Xper 2

So me and my boyfriend been daying for 8 years and last year we decided to call it of because I didn't feel like he loved me. But we went our diffeent ways and we both relize we loved each other after 7-8 months of break up. I did fuck a guy a few months after we broke up with no feelings. Honestly I fucked this guy because ingot jealous when i seen him with another girl. Yes i shouldn't haven't and should of asked him but i was trying to move on and it didn't work. As the results of this It thought me a lot and who I really love. And my question is why does he's gets turned on by it? How do you ladies feel about your man getting turned on by thinking of another man with you? and mens what is it that turns you on? At the end of the day i do get turned on by the idea vecause he fucks me so good. I would suck his dick and tell him how the guy i messed with fucked me and made me feel.

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So as I stated he doesn't like guys he's straight. He just likes to see me be pleasured. He enjoys watching me play fuck myself with my dildo, and when we broke up I thought it was the end of us so ifucked a guy to try move on from my boyfriend, but it didn't work i started to relize my heart is still with him and i thought if we could work things out because he's truly the guy i want and start a family with. So i decided to tell him yhe truth. And told him i fucked abother guy.

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As we sooke about it he didn't seem hurt or anything but asked ne to tell him everything and intold him every detail how the other guy fucked me and used me, and it led to me wanting tonsuck his dick while telling and we ended up fucking.

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Anonymous
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I've had this happen to me. And I was like what the fuck is wrong with me, why is this turning me on so much. I hated the fact that she fucked someone else but it really turned me on. I think it was that she was sexual with someone else and it made me want to fuck the shit out of her knowing someone else turns her on.
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- Loveeexxx
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  Sounds hot tbh. But did you ever tell your girlfriend that? And if you did how didnshe feel about it turning you on?
- Opinion Owner
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  I didn't let on that it turned me on, by the way it had nothing to do with the guy, it turned me on to her. I think she might have figured it out because I would ask her all these details about what happened and how it affected her. I didn't want her to know bc that might make her think that I liked her sleeping with other guys, I definitely didn't. It just told me she was a very sexual being and I couldn't stop her and I was going to fuck that sexual being and have a piece of her and that experience.
- Loveeexxx
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  Are you still with that person now? Did you fall out of love from her after it? Or does she still love you the same?
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- Opinion Owner
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  She loved me for the longest time. We weren't official but we had an agreement that if we asked if the other was seeing someone that we would tell each other. I asked and she lied. That was a HUGE betrayal. So the situation was different. If it was your situation I wouldn't have felt betrayed. When I wasn't thinking about it in a turned on way... then I just wanted to fuck the shit out of her and make the other guy lose. That was different than when I thought of her in a highly sexually charged experience. I guess I wanted to be part of the experience. I'm not into guys but if I could have an experience... a MMF experience where I could flip a switch and the guy didn't exist AT ALL after the sex then I would do that. I think part of the turn on is the nervous newness she experiences. To see her as geuinely super aroused. Because for guys newness raises arousal through the roof. That is why we watch porn, not because we want them IRL, not at all, we just want newness in the sexual expe
- Loveeexxx
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  Omg ! Thats was what I wanted to hear so there's fait ! Well I kinda did lie at first but then when I toldnhim if we do work things out I dont want tomkeep anytbing anyway from him so I did tell him everything and this what I found out! And its a turn onnnn
- Opinion Owner
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  "There's fait" what does that mean? Is it a turn on for you or him or both? Would you feel the same if he was the one that saw someone else?
- Opinion Owner
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  How/what did you lie to him?
- Loveeexxx
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  Well at first i told him I messed with someone. but I did hesistate tontel him because inwas scared to loose him. But I overcame my fears snd told him when we talked it out. Abd tbh yes it does turn me on. Because im turining him on. And i love when he pleased by ne. And yeah I would say what I ment is that there's still fsit that he will love me again like he did befor.
- Opinion Owner
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  Ok so you hesitated... you didn't lie... right? Would you be turned on to hear how he had sex with another girl? It is not wrong if you don't want to hear. If you didn't lie... in my case... yes I could love her/you as much as before. Would you sleep with other guys if it kept your guy turned on?
- Loveeexxx
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  Yes I hesitated but I did not lie, I was afraid to tell him atm but as we keptbtalking I ended up telling him. Honestly I wouldn't. But I never ask him and dont wanna know but if its turns him on I dont mind telling him all detail however he likes it. I wouldn't. But if he wanted me to and we are a strong bond again, ill do it for him ofc ill fuck with no feelins attached ill focus on him what he likes
- Opinion Owner
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  Hessitating isn't lying... so you would be perfectly fine in my book. I could still fully trust you. That is completely fair and I expected as much and you don't have to have it goes both ways if you both agree it is fair. And I honestly expected you to say that bc male and female psycho sexuality are def different. That is the perfect answer. If it were me I would think you are awesome. I wouldn't be surprised if the bond between you gets much much stronger. When you can talk openly and honestly like that and feel completely safe and not threatened I think you can turn him on more than ever and you will have a very powerful sexual response in return. Wish it were me.
- Loveeexxx
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  Thank you so much !!! i really hope so
- Opinion Owner
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  You are very welcome. Let me know if you need to ask any more questions :-)
SngBirdy Xper 7
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What makes you think it turns him on?
We can't answer that. Men like that are shunned by other and seen as disgusting and inferior.
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- Loveeexxx
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  Because he gets very hard abd asked for setails and when i do he fucks me harder and longer

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Anonymous
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He’s gay.
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- Loveeexxx
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  I doubt that. I think he gets turned on when he see me in please he says im his personal pornstar. Which makes me wet when he tells ne that its like he all about me and inhonesly dont mind if its turns him on and turns me on.

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hellionthesagereborn Guru
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He is a cuck. Personally I think its disgusting and would never want anything to do with that (its not a turn on in the slightest). So I can't say why this would turn on some men besides them having low self esteem or just being emotionally messed up.
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OlderAndWiser Editor
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Most guys are NOT turned on by the idea of their girlfriend having sex with another guy.
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JxrdN Xper 7
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Cuck alert 🚨
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Eryxx Guru
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Damn it. What the hell is wrong with these guys becoming cucks these days?
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- ArcticHamsters
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  Lmao crazy, isn't it
- Eryxx
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  @ArcticHamsters way too crazy man. Disgusting.
s2firestar Yoda
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He's a cuck...
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- s2firestar
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  And please do read after why a guy would get turned on from that. Tooooo long to explain here.
- Loveeexxx
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  I have read it. And tbh I thinks its hot that he would want to share me or watch me. I honestly dont mind putting on a show for him as long I love him and inly him right? After all he still fucks me better than anyone else does. And he’s probably the largest I been with
- s2firestar
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  Then that is not true cuckoldry, as it lacks the shame aspect. In that case, it is sperm rivalry. Mind you, don't ask me if you are morally right. I am not the arbiter of that. How do you feel? How does he feel? That's what matters. I personally would never accept such a thing, but then again I don't get hard from the thought of somebody else pleasing the girl I want. So talk to him about it.
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- Loveeexxx
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  I asked him one time. And he told me it gets him hard and turned in being able to share me becatse he feels likes seeing me in pleasure and he loves taking me after. And honestly it turns me on because I so love him and his cock but its is fun and exciting to get him off
- s2firestar
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  You are strange people. To me at least. But it's neither my dick nor pussy. You do what you like. Don't let others' judgement get to you.
Golden-Thread Xper 6
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Unusual love story I must say. Ask urself boyfriend is he attracted to ur ex or sympathies or feeling guilty or horny? What makes him interested to ur ex without being jealous or completely taken over u.
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- Loveeexxx
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  The guy I fucked when we broke up wasn't an ex. He was more of like a rebound because I was jealous and I didn't enjoy the sex with him because I wanted my boyfriend back at the time and we worked things out talked and he did ask me if I was ok telling him my sexul encounter with this guy and I was because I wanted him to know as we are going tonwork things out snd he got very hard and I sucked his dick and told him eveything and he wnd up fucking me soo goood that I enjoy telling him.
- Loveeexxx
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  And I dont think he gets jealous because he knows what he has and he knows he can fuck.
esotericstory Guru
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What a cuck.
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RIVERTAY888 Yoda
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He wants a go as well
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Eckorocker Xper 2
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I would want to hear about you sucking another guys cock if I was him. I also would want you to record it with your phone so we could watch it together while you stroked me
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Anonymous
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He's a cuck
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Anonymous
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I wouldn't have been okay with that.
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- Loveeexxx
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  Can you explain why wouldn't you?
- Opinion Owner
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  It's hard to describe but I just can't see myself being with someone who has slept with someone else recently. It's not like I'll only date a virgin but it takes me a year or two to get over a relationship. I guess I really don't want to think about someone I care about being with someone else?
- Loveeexxx
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  Makes sense. But what if that person only fucked that guy because she eas jealous he was another gurl and relize she made a mistake?
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- Opinion Owner
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  It'd still make me uncomfortable. Killing out of love and killing out of greed have different circumstances but they're both murder.
- Loveeexxx
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  I get you. Hopfully he doesn't ever feel like that. Because i truly do love him and I only did it because I thought he was done with me. So I trued to move on but it didn't help or work. I still wanted him
- Opinion Owner
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  I honestly hope he never feels like I do either. I hope your relationship goes well.
- Loveeexxx
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  Thank you! I know what i did wasn't right. And inshould of communiczted with him instead if just assuming. Everyone makes mistakes its how you learn from it !
- Eckorocker
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  I would be okay with it. If you were my girl i would want you to suck a lot of cocks. I would want guys to scum on your face at least one time