Is it hypocritical for a trans person to not want to date a trans person?

Is it hypocritical for a trans person to not want to date a trans person?

Blaire says she only likes white; cisgender; men.

Why would she not date another trans person? She doesn't even like anal sex so it's not a sexual thing
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but she fights for trans rights. What if I fought everyday for black rights but marry a white woman?
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  • She doesn't fight for trans rights as far as I know. Further more she has argued outright that no one is entitled to date any one else as other transpeople have stated its "transphobic" to not date a transperson, she herself argued that's insane, your allowed to date whom you are attracted to and its wrong to demand some one to date some one they are not attracted to. So she is not being a hypocrite at all, she is doing exactly what she says. However when you have one of those trans people who do demand that others date them and then refusing to date a trans person then that would be hypocritical.

  • Not really it's just a preference. Plenty of people don't want to date their own race. Being trans doesn't mean you like being trans or thonk it's sexy. Or if you want to be less pc about it, she's a gay man so wants to fuck a man with a real dick not some frankendick attached to a girl.

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  • Not sure I get your MO here, but one's preference as to whom they choose to be with is hardly related to how they identify, or by their gender, orientation, race, religion, political stance, favorite sports team, etc... see what I'm getting at here.
    We, anyone... everyone, choose to be with who we choose. Feelings of intimacy occur when people connect, sometimes it happens to be with someone exactly like us, a lot of times it can be with someone we would have never expected.
    #openmindednessisawonderfulthing

    • True that

    • @AdmiralBailey... The fact you fight for black rights yet might date white women are mutually exclusive of one another. Actually, it's slightly cringy that you would think dating a white girl would somehow diminish your support of black rights.

    • You won't see a white nationalist with a black chick is my point

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  • you can fight for black rights and marry a white woman wtf does you love life have to do with what you fight for

    • now you just sound like a racist bigot

    • i fight for male rights and i date females, that doesn't make me a hypocrite. I know plenty of trans people that don't want to be in a relationship with other trans people its not hypocritical its only hypocritical if the trans person is a bigot towards trans people

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  • No absolutely not. She's a woman who is like most straight cis women, attracted to men. Saying one fights for the rights of one group doesn't necessarily mean one is attracted to that group

  • I don’t see why personal preference would be “hypocritical”.

    • but she's trans

    • Doesn’t matter what she identifies as. Just because I’m a man doesn’t mean that it’s hypocritical for me to not date men.

    • False equivalency. A trans person can be male or female. That's like saying I don't date black people and you ask why and I say that I'm not required to date a man because I'm a man.

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  • Well first off there is nothing wrong with you fighting for black rights and marrying white.

  • Because she's in love with the idea of the man. If that's the case then why would she want to date another trans person? Everyone has their preferences so just let them be

  • People are entitled to their preferences. Would you say it’s hypocritical for a tall person to not want to date a tall person?

    • what if you fight for tall people rights daily?

  • You are the hypocritical here. She has the right to date whoever she wants.

    And as for you, that was a rather racist statement in itself.

    You are saying that blacks should not marry whites if they do something for theor community too? You racist fuck.

  • Preferences do not need to be the same as yours. I'm pretty sure she's dating someone anyways.

    • Good thing you aren't doing either of those things based on the questions I've read.

  • No that would suggest a trans person is a trans person because of love which isn’t the case someone goes trans because they want to be the other gender more than anything rejecting another trans is the same as a straight girl rejecting a straight guy nothing to do with gender just the type of person.

    • No it would be like rejecting the whole male gender. Not one specific man

    • What do you mean?

    • Are you saying because that trans rejects one person it means she will reject every one of those people?

  • Who knows, there ain't no rules to that shit they just be freestyling

  • Probably the same reason fat women hate being asked out by fat guys

    • THANK YOU! They want you to accept them but they won't keep that same energy when it comes to others of their sorority/fraternity

  • I don't think ones political views should effect who someone wants to be with, or sleep with. Isn't that the point of love is love. That's kinda the thing with pc me and my friends have talking about. We are pc, but we are all starting to realise that it's awfully limiting in the since that individuals have to worry about how everyone else is going to take things instead of actually getting your point across how you would naturally, depleting human individuality. No one should willingly hurt anyone, but also being too sensative about things, is a thing... I say all this to say, no one is explicitly who they appear to be. Sometimes they can be good, or bad. Sometimes they'll shock you, but let an individual be themselves! Who cares what she wants, that is what makes her happy!

  • I don’t think so, it’s her right