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Am I going to die without the pleasure of oral sex?

Hi everyone! I have a problem. My boyfriend (3 years relationship) doesn’t give me oral.

I do it all the time to him, like 3/4 times a week or more, everytime he asks me to, and he did it to me 3 or 4 times in 3 years! I love when he does it but we are our firsts everything so I can't compare to anyone else.

For a long time I didn´t complain but after 2 years dating I started asking him to do it, because I have trouble orgasming without a sex toy. He denied it to me. He started making excuses for not doing it and I didn´t want to upset him or make him feel bad.

Today I come up with the subject again and he finaly told me that he doesn´t like the taste of my vagina. He really hates it, he said it tastes like sour milk. I take a realy realy good care of my vagina, no pubs, always fresh it up when I go to the bathroom, clean underwear everyday, no smells, regular doctor visits etc

He even said he was getting nauseated only from thinking about it.

It makes me feel so bad and upset. I think it is so beautifull for a couple to share.

I dream a lot of times with other men doing it to me because I´m missing this part of our sex life. Am I going to die without the pleasure of oral sex? Am I wrong here? He saids I can´t force him to do it... Help :(
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd tell him to do it or I'll let someone else do it :P

    Or more diplomatically tell him to do it or you'll start using a toy during sex as its not fair that you don't get to get off. Maybe make a rule you have to cum before he penetrates you, how he does it is up to him/you.

    • we already use a toy during sex so I can cum but he refuses to do oral

    • Up to you how important to you it is then. If its a dealbreaker I see only a few options, stay and suck it up, leave, or get him to ok someone else doing it, are you into girls? That might be easier for him to get his head around. Personally I find it odd that he's a straight man that disgusted by vagina.

  • Not a troll. Going to respond. But first a question.
    Have you sampled the fragrance and taste of your girl? If you haven't, you should do so. I'll wait. What do you think of it?

    • Yes and I think it has no smell...

    • Here's what I think. "He finally told me that he doesn't like the taste of my vagina. He really hates it, he said it tastes like sour milk." And "He even said he was getting nauseated only from thinking about it." Any guy who would go so low as to crudely criticize a girl in the most intimate way is not worth his testicles. He has a darkness which will show itself in other ways as time goes on. One might think that a disagreement regarding sex is too shallow to end a relationship over but this reflects a deeply flawed character. I think you should move on with minimal explanation. Even if he resolves to change, he won't. Time is wasting. Get out now.

    • But we live together and love each other. It´s just this one thing I can't forget

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  • Don’t give him oral & say you don’t like something about his dick

    • I already tried that and he gets upset with me. he said that if I dind´t like to do it he wouldn´t force me.

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  • The most important question to ask yourself is: Do you think this is a dealbreaker? Because I know some women for whom it actually is a big deal.

  • It's easy. Stop giving him oral!

    • I tried that and he gets upset. he said that if I dind´t like to do it he wouldn´t force me.

    • Then let him be upset! You are upset too and he doesn't care. Don't be a pushover

    • U think he won't just get it from another girl

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  • You can’t force him to like it hun , if you love him and want to stay together then there will be other things sexually he can do to please you in that way. Let’s face it , if it’s heart isn’t in it.. and he hasn’t done it before then is it really going to be any good? Lol

  • I would lick your sower cream all day every day! Your boy friend might be gay or an immature little dude, selfish. Leave him, life is really way too short to not enjoy your self and be happy.

  • no pussy, no blowjob

    • I told him that and he said that if I dind´t like to do it he wouldn´t force me... the thing ih that he loves thats even more than intercourse...

    • yeah he won't last long without it, and other girls won't take him if he won't go down on them

    • I told him that and he said that im giving this a lot of importance and that I shouldn't

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  • Easy, just stop giving it to him.

  • Simple, deny him oral.

    • I tried that and he gets upset

    • Tough, he does the same thing to you, he deserves it

    • Doesn't matter if he gets upset, he only deserves it if he gives it to you, that's how it works, i won't get paid if i don't work

  • Choice is yours!

    • what do you mean?

    • As to whether you want to stay with your current lover or find one that will please you in the ways you are asking. by the way. Diet and your body's PH levels can change the taste.

  • Dude, you don't DIE without any kind of sex.
    But if he doesn't wanna give you what you give him then you don't give it to him. Simple. You should have a feel for what you want/deserve.

  • Get a better boyfriend.

  • Maybe it is time to get a new boyfriend, one who will eat you, suck your clit and make you cum numerous times. I could do that for you.

  • stop giving him bj. he should get the hint

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