In my experiences it depends on the level of trust, and knowing the other person.
Some girls do like to have their hands or wrists held, but not pinned. They like knowing that they are restrained, but can easily escape whenever they want.
Other girls don't like it. Something could have happened in their past and that trapped, or hopeless, feeling comes back. So, for them, it's not something they want, or enjoy.
Gauging what the other person likes takes subtly and communication. In my opinion, I would say that labeling it "normal" would be false. I would say it is more of a personal preference based on the relationship.
So it’s a minority of women that enjoy it then? Thanks for your input, I appreciate it. I only asked because a guy I dated said he liked that I enjoyed it. But I thought most girls enjoyed it!
I wouldn't say it's a minority. Just a personal preference. Like the amount of pinning. Some girls like the full pin, or even being tied, without being able to escape. Others like the more forceful pin where they have to work just to move. Still, others like the light pin where it's more playful and they fully allow themselves to be restrained. All of it is personal preference. What I have discovered is that this something that many women desire, but few are able to actually do. Most women desire to emotionally give themselves completely over to the man. One way to do this is to allow themselves to be restrained in some way. Others, pinning or restraining is completely off limits. Either it's a thing from the past, or there isn't enough trust built in the relationship. Again, personal preference and emotional connection dictate what is allowable.
It's very normal. In my experience, as a Dom, almost all women willingly submit to pretty much whatever I ask of them be it bondage (of all sorts, including manual where I hold them in position), spanking, rough nipple play, and anal play and sex.
Not most girls probably. But it is normal, and not uncommon. But it shouldn't be done without consent.
I personally don't care for it.
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Yes, but bear in mind...
I can't speak to anyone else's experience. This is due to the fact that I've historically attracted crazy, hypersexual females that really enjoyed rough sex. Consequently, I have a different perspective.
So in your experience the ones that enjoyed it were “crazy” hmmm okay. Have you been in a LTR with a nice girl?
Lemme answer your question this way: Every girl I know enjoys feeling like she drives her man so crazy that the only thing that stopping him from ripping her clothes off and taking what he wants is respect for her wishes as a woman.
You’re spot on, but if he’s earned that respect and she trusts him and wants to give him permission to do that, is the ultimate turn on!
I don't know that there's really a good way to establish that you have her permission without verbal consent though... It's not really the sexiest conversation
Obviously you’ve addressed it naturally first ha
Yes they do.
yeap, i like it
Most do
Why would a guy say he likes that about a girl if other girls like it too? Doesn’t exactly make her unique..
I wouldn't say its what i like about a girl but its sometimes just fun to do. Def not a unique thing but i guess some girls feel its too much or violates them for whatever reason... The guys in your case could also be reffering to a much more extreme kind
You mean the kind you see in porn which is degrading?
May be, Do you enjoy yourself?
I do yeah
Pinned down forcefully?
Yes but not in a degrading way
Oh sure
There IS a balance. Those that can’t see it don’t view women with humility and generally have a negative sense of entitlement.
not all of them but yes there is a few
Would you say a majority enjoy it or are they a minority?
not sure tbh women are all different
True
I love when a guy fully pins me down.
Nope, I enjoy pinning guy down during sex.
All of the girls that I have met do enjoy it, yes.
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