Are you guilty of checking your phone during sex?

This guy I have been hooking up with for months has started checking his phone DURING sex. He will reply to texts and look up something while actually inside of me. Needless to say, it makes me feel inadequate. Guys, do you do this? I have asked him why he does it and told him it bothers me. He just says he is good at multitasking. Wtf?

Obviously, sex with me is good. He keeps coming back. Lol But it really makes me feel insecure.

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  • I've got better thing's on my mind than my phone ! What a dumbass!

    sure he's not filming you or something?

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    • He usually tells me when he is. He likes to show me 🤷‍♀️

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    • Why don't you do something like slap it out of his hands? I doubt it breaks and give him a remark, either focuses on you or gtfo

    • 5d

      Thanks for mho.

      I hope it work's out for you.

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  • Maybe he is looking at porn because he can't keep it up on his own.

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    • He likes to make his own sex videos. We have made a few. But last time, He pulled up a video of his ex wife with another man on his phone. She made it for him at his request. He wanted to show me. What a turn off

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    • @dreamweaver671 I have been open to all except the 3somes yet. I have tried so many new things with him. I think I have been incredibly open

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      Then he needs to open his mind to you and listen to your desires and dark fantasies. But you gotta Let Go of those secrets and inhabitans. You got to be the Every Woman a man needs. But this is all about you and him. All I know for sure is he dreams of watching other men lusting for you... Even watching as they take liberties you would normally object to.

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What Guys Said 20

  • No. I can't understand why anyone would want to, let alone would actually do it. Shows zero respect for a start. Why would you. You're having sex because you want to have sex. Just sit at home with your phone if you want to use you're phone. I think that's what I'd be telling him.

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    • I agree. Next time just stop or whip out your phone when he's going down on you lol.

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    • It could make him think twice. You could also say you're off to bed to jave some fun on your own and that you'll just leave him in the kitchen with his phone.

    • Do it. Hell! I'll be the person you can be texting lol. Just let me know when i can and so I'll know when to text you to perfectly interrupt!!😂😂

  • I’m kinda Impressed he can do that. During sex I’m usually so focused and in the moment the house could be on fire and I wouldn’t notice or care.

    Frankly if a girl did this to me I’d stop, and tell her to get out. That’s about as disrespectful as it gets. Unless he’s got a kid with health issues or some other serious situation necessitating him doing that I’d let him know you’re not tolerating that anymore.

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  • Guys don't necessarily go back because the sex is good but might go back because sex is sex. Bad sex is better than no sex.
    I'm not saying that that is necessarily the case with you. Regardless, id tell him to stop checking his phone. It's disrespectful.

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  • No, I’ve never done that. He’s an idiot for doing it to you while he’s fucking you, he’s unappreciative of you in my opinion.
    So, no, I am not that inconsiderate, I don’t know anyone who is.
    Dump his ass... lol

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  • I turn my phone off and even leave it in the car when I'm with a woman. Unless we need some tunes softly waffling in the surrounding areas. And I expect the same. I will leave a date sitting if they pull out their phone during a date.

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  • that is bullshit tbh wow and with you thats really crazy would love to pm if your ever up to it

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  • He may be fucking you but that doesn't mean he is into you... I would set him adrift with the rest of the boys who know not what to do with a woman with both hands on her... this is where boys are separate from men

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  • I hate phones ;) :P .. to answer your question I think nothing is wrong with you but this guy who obviously has other things in mind while also having sex with you, I am not sure how cool can that be really

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  • you not ugly... so must just be an average fuck... try something new... stick a finger in him... he will soon stop multi tasking

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    • I let this guy do absolutely anything he wants. I never say no. I can’t possibly think I am just average. Our sex is intense.

    • intense... how?

    • Choking, spanking, handcuffs, dirty talk.. I am very submissive and he is very dominating. So, it’s rough. Lol

  • That's so crazy

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    • I agree lol

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    • Lol I have no idea. If it just happened once, it wouldn’t bother me. But it’s happening every time we get together now. I need to find someone new I guess

    • Yeah I would think so for sure big time

  • Definitely not during PIV.

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  • That dude has to be one hell of a fucking retard.

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  • No wtf.

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  • This is ridiculous

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  • Sounds like a jerk to me

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  • Odd.

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  • What ur guy is doing is bit weird

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  • Never not once, until tomorrow

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  • you should sext with me while he’s doing that

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    • Lol he would probably think that’s hot. He wants a 3 some with me desperately. He is all about sharing me lol. I’m not like that

    • probably time to move along to somebody who can keep focused on you. Offer is open by the way

  • Literally lol'd @ this. how bad is the sex that he's bored enough to check his phone? Do me a favor wait till he's about to cum next time an then just decide right before "Ok, i'm finished"! F*** him! Do this everytime till he gets pissed off and then dump him! And then go be with someone who appreciates you.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Never, that's the weirdest thing. He should be focused on you.

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  • Um, I do that too. Watch tv as well. Doesn´t mean anything really.

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  • Perhaps he's just double checking to see if it's still recording?
    #IpromiseIwontshowitorpostit

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    • No, he usually tells me when he is recording. I ask what he is doing and he is like “texting a friend.” Lol

    • Alrighty then... lol

  • I've taking calling during sex but never text or look something up. That's crazy

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  • Get rid of him. Sounds like an ass.

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  • nope im not

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