How common is it for guys to try to get "caught" (accidentally on purpose) with a boner or masturbating?

Like, is this a common thing?

Is it true that a hard dick has no conscience?

Do the even care who it is that catches them as long as it's a female?
Do the even care who it is that catches them as long as it's a female?

Just curious...
I'm a guy - it's not common for many of us
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I'm a guy - it's fairly common for quite a few of us
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I'm a girl - I feel like it's common
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I'm a girl - I don't think it's all that common
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I really don't know
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I have never heard any guys admitting to doing this. Of course, it is something that anyone with a brain would not confess, but they guys who might do this would be those less endowed between the ears. I've never heard girls complain about guys doing this either. Is this question prompted by something that you experienced?

    • Lots of girls have experienced it at one time or another. Just hard to know if it's intentional or not in some cases.

    • I would assume that it is intentional.

  • If I remember correctly, didn't you post once that you shared a suite in college with male roommates? Were those guys "accidentally on purpose" boner revealers? If so, that would have been pretty awkward.

    • No they weren't. But I did post a question a while back about hotel guests doing that to staff.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've been caught twice by boyfriends and once by a guy friend, but I've never actually stumbled on a guy doing it. I've watched guys masturbate in front of me, but that's outside the scope of this question.

  • except for the one time I accidentally saw a guy doing it as I walked past his open apartment door, I've never "caught a guy". Accidentally on purpose or otherwise. Is this a common occurrence for you?

    • Not necessarily masturbating but maybe just a naked boner?

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  • Women can do the same thing, so I don't see why it's just a guy thing.

    • How do you get caught with a boner?

    • @Trippinonsex Well obviously you don't but women also masturbate too you know.

    • well

  • It's all about the thrill of putting it all out there on display. I've always had a streak of exhibitionism in me, but never gone as far as to try to get busted jerking off. And it's not necessarily a guy thing, some girls are into it just as much (I had a female roommate like that back in college...)

  • Fake news!

  • haha very common, they all want us to see. Meh.

  • Never saw it with my brother

  • caught with a boner? probably common. Caught masturbating? very uncommon.

    • caught with a boner "accidentally" on purpose?

    • yup.

    • I see. OK.

  • No haha nobody knew when I was hard but I did not wear anything at school that would show it haha If I wore bball shorts or sweats then people would notice

  • Say what? :s

  • Only one ever caught me was my mom. Waters running all day long. She couldn't find her latest issue of Cosmo. The eighties were brutal.

  • Not common at all 😝 lol

  • Caught one of my guy friends. So went over and helped him. Oh it was good!

    • So nice of you

    • Ur my hero

    • Ahag

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  • Most guys are pretty discreet. I am.

  • As a guy I would say that in real life this is not common and pretty creepy.

    With that said, I have sexual fantasies and even watch porn of guys in cars getting caugh masturbating. In real life it isn't a turn on though. When I was in a relationship living with my ex girlfriend for two years, I tried to hide when I masturbated or watched porn. She was very sexual. We'd watch porn together even. But it was just a kind of "me time" and I wanted intimacy without the distraction of someone reaction. Plus with a girl i would be more interested in the girl and ignore the porn.

  • Some times I have crossed my legs or arranged my manhood to push out against my clothes to show a good outline of my package.

  • I know when i was a teenager, i would have a boner
    in public just playing ball with friends of our family
    so at one time i didn't care whether i was caught
    with a boner or not.

  • There are laws about that kind of thing... Best left to fantasy.

  • Never ever ever never.

  • I grew up with 5 brothers. I don't think anyone really wants to get caught.

  • Umm I think most guys try to not get caught.

  • Never. Ever. Tried that.

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