Is it right my boyfriend forces me to swallow?

My boyfriend wants me to swallow after bj and keeps holding my head down until I swallowed it all. I told him to stop and considering breaking up with him. Am I right?
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  • Yes, of course you're right. Anything sexual without your consent is assault. If you let it continue, it could escalate. Either make it blatantly clear you don't wish to do it, or leave. Personally I would say leave, as it's clear he doesn't respect your wishes.

  • I like girls to swallow and my first girlfriend wanted me to hold her head down when I came to help her swallow. If you not into it then stop giving head to him for while.

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  • You're in the right. Sex should be pleasurable for the both of you. If he does something you don't like, he should respect that you tell him off. If he can't do that.. 🤔

  • If it not somthing u want or like no but by entertaining his stupidness u allow him to think it's nothing wrong

  • That's absolutely not okay. Forcing you to do any sexual act is assault.

  • Bite his sick if he does so?

    • I'm ok with swallowing when I give him head but it is how he holds my head down hard on it when he cums I don't like.

    • If you tell him and he keeps doing it, bite his dick.

    • haha :)

  • You are right. A guy should not force you to do anything..
    Its considered rape

  • Well if you're into that, then it's hot. If you're not, then absolutely consider breaking up with him because that's not hot. He should be more concerned about you than he currently is.

    • I'm ok with swallowing when I give him head but it is how he holds my head down hard on it when he cums I don't like.

    • Yeah-- you should tell him that, even though it may be hard to talk about.

  • if you love him you will swallow all of it!

    • i am jk by the way if you dont like it tell him you dont have to do anything you dont want to

    • I'm ok with swallowing when I give him head but it is how he holds my head down hard on it when he cums I don't like.

    • its a little bit instinctual for a man to want to go as deep as possible when he is cumming but its still no excuse to do that without letting you know about it unless you like it rough

  • Yeah. You're definitely right. He shouldn't force you to do anything

  • He's not respecting you! Next time, swallow his load, keep it in your mouth, and then spit it back in his mouth. When he freaks the fuck up, simply tell him : now you can maybe understand how I feel you selfish fuck. !

  • It’s not right that you’re boyfriend FORCES you do anything. Sounds like a stand up guy you. Maybe consider finding somone that cares about what you want.

    • I'm ok with swallowing when I give him head but it is how he holds my head down hard on it when he cums I don't like.

    • Yeah that’s rude.

    • It is

  • Absolutely not. Anything forced is in no way right or fun. Kick his ass to the curb now and find a real man.

  • Yes your right. You don’t need to do that.

  • If a girl swallows her man's cum, she shows him that he is someone special. Otherwise, it is just masturbation with your mouth.

  • Protect yourself babe as he wants to have a child. As simple as that. 👶

    • I'm ok with swallowing when I give him head but it is how he holds my head down hard on it when he cums I don't like.

  • Absolutely right

  • No. You should never be forced to do anything like that.