Do you find the missionary position as a submissive position and derogatory to women?

[mT2359]

The man pounding away and the woman below him waiting to be impaled and satisfied through his tool. Does this image form the basis for why the missionary position is considered the best and infact the only religiously acceptable position to have sex in?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's the most submissive position for a woman, and it's kinda derogatory, but not as degrading as doggy style.
Though, most submissive women love missionary position, that's why it's the most popular position.
I'm dominant so I prefer inverted missionary (me on top).

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO ;)

[Cosmogirl22]

Nothing derogatory about missionary. If anything, cowgirl would be derogatory cause we are pleasing the guy. Missionary is the best because it has so many variations, plus it can be rough or passionate.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cosmogirl22 Nope, Cowgirl is a dominant position for a girl, while missionary is submissive, it's basically good only for lazy and passive girls. Cowgirl also has so many variations, plus it can be rough or passionate too.

[Cosmogirl22]

We don’t just laty there and do nothing. You must be doing it wrong. We can also dominate in missionary and take over the thrusting.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cosmogirl22 LOL, you can't dominate in missionary, you can only be more active, but the one who is on top is the dominant.

[Kim999]

Its a natural way of doing sex for women, 80% couples past their prime have men on top of women to do the process

[helva]

Maybe submissive because I cannot take the lead in that position but certainly not derogatory.

[emeralddays]

I find doggy a bit submissive specially if the guy is into rough sex.. missionary is ok i feel

[es20490446e]

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[partydelights]

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[es20490446e]

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[Gena-Midwest]

I'd agree it is submissive but I don't think that necessarily means it is derogatory.

[mT2359]

By derogatory, i mean the role of women in love making as minimal or more of a receipient and not an equal partner. Good that you don't see it that way.

[Gena-Midwest]

Ah OK, yes I certainly agree to that to a certain extent. It also depends a lot on how the guy approaches it, but as a position it can definitely feel like it's more for the guy. Although that can be its own turn on as well.

[Tdieseler]

i think its intimate. even though im beginning to think doggy is like the natural way of having sex... i mean, thats how all animals do it. only humans can do missionary, so im guessing intimate cuz we are the only ones who dont have sex for reproduction only.

[es20490446e]

I don't see it like that. It's like saying that the person doing the massage has more power just because they are the active part, when the truth is that the receiving part is getting pleasure with no action whatsoever.

[Dalisay]

No. I think it's intimate.

[PrincessGrail]

Not inherently derogatory at all, but it is submissive.

[sinastyle]

No because it's perfect to stimulate my clit while he is enjoying fucking

[JustCallMeLeon]

Its not submissive if both get to move around. And during missionary, they do.

[bananathunder]

I think it's submissive but can be very intimate to with easy access to kissing

[Imche]

Yes submissive because he hs all the control but no not derogatory.

[Kim999]

Its not dero, women like being dominated once a while. I myself like it.

[Kim999]

Yes true getting dominated on bed is a turn on

[performhousep]

it's submissive. it's not derogatory since it's woman's natural position

[Anonymous]

It is a very natural position and in nature a man is dominant over a woman.

Derogatory? No.

[Anonymous]

I do not think of it any those ways. Just normal.

[Anonymous]

I don't find it to be submissive.

[Anonymous]

It is boring :(

[Cosmogirl22]

Then you are doing it wrong. So many variations.

[Anonymous]

No, it can also be dominant.

[mT2359]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

Guiding.

[mT2359]

May be!

[Opinion Owner]

Is Cowgirl a submissive position for a guy?

[mT2359]

I guess the meanings of submissiveness and aggressiveness are a bit different in my mind when it comes to a guy and as compared to a woman.

[Opinion Owner]

how so?

[mT2359]

A man wanting rough sex would take control in a different way than a woman wanting rough sex, i guess. Not convincing may be, but it's how I feel.

[Anonymous]

I only like cowgirl position.

[Opinion Owner]

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