Who would you choose in a threesome?

I am curious about a threesome & my boyfriend suggested his best friend because he trusts him but I feel awkward.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • in a MFM, I get to choose the other man in the first instance, but then my husband has a say, if he is uncomfortable with my chose then its a no go,
    may I suggest meeting someone say by accident and then see where that leads, we did and it worked for us,
    if you have his friend and things don't work out then a lot is lost,

  • Not that i'm in the same circumstance of even thinking about a third person but I would never deliberately choose a best friend of my guy

Most Helpful Guys

  • I had a threesome with my wife and my best male friend. It was a lot of fun.

    That said, it obviously doesn't work for everyone. Like others have pointed out, it should be a person that both of you feel comfortable with. And if it's a guy, you should also find him physically/sexually attractive.

    • I have a friend who says he wants to see his wife fuck other guys. Do you think he is trying to hint something to me?

    • @newPython He might. I mean, that's basically what we were doing. My wife and I were actually experimenting with cuckolding with my best friend because I have been into the idea for a very long time. We were on vacation together and usually I just watched them having sex, which was also lots of fun (my wife got pretty horny for him lol). One time my friend asked me to join in... maybe he just felt like it. I was surprised at first but then we dropped all the power dynamics that are involved with cuckolding for once and just had a "regular" threesome, which was also a lot of fun, albeit in a different way. The problem with cuckolding is that it is a huuuuuge taboo. There are still lots of people who say rude/nasty things to you when you admit being into it. That's why a lot of cuckold-wannabees are super scared to openly talk about it. In real life, there are only two people who know this about me: my wife and my best friend. The only reason I was able to muster up the courage to "come out" to my friend about it was because I've known him since childhood and I know that he is super easygoing about this kinda stuff and not judgmental. So... the fact that your friend said this to you could definitely be a hint. Especially if it was said in a serious tone (not goofing around) and in an intimate friendship situation (when you were at his house or he was at your house for instance). If you are interested in such a scenario but you don't want to embarrass yourself, you could maybe just give some hints back. For example you could say: "oh that sounds fun" or maybe even "well your wife is very attractive, so I'm sure you'd find lots of guys who would want her". Or if you want to take a different approach, you could perhaps ask him: "do you think your wife is up for something like that? And what kind of guy would you look for?" If he is indeed fantasizing of you and his wife having sex, his description will just so happen to resemble a guy like... you ;-).

    • those are fucking good hints.. thanks a lot.. I appreciate it...

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  • If you don't feel comfortable then I wouldn't suggest doing it yet. I'd make sure you both are comfortable with the person coming in. When sharing like that you need to make sure everyone is on the same page and comfortable to make sure it's a good experience

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  • I would never let another guy touch my woman! That’s just stupid. If I love a woman her vigina will only swollow me dick.

  • then don't do it.

  • WEll I wouldn't choose anyone.

    But if you want it, anyone who you can trust is okay

  • Hmmm same here I'm really interested in it, I'm thinking to bring my ex girlfriend lol! I'm sure that will be crazy as hell, what do you think?

  • I would love two females personally if I were too and it would be a good friend and a girlfriend. But I hear random people are better because then you don’t have to worry about them coming back

  • Me myself and I.

  • I almost think it would be better to have a stranger, because you never have to see them again afterwards

  • I would never had chosen a third that either of us had known...

  • Would have to be a stranger

  • I would do two girls but another guy would be weird

    • So mff

  • 2 Woman and me

  • I would definitely make it someone you're comfortable with and know. Both of you

  • Gay.

  • Hmm, well I'd probably choose another guy, and we can both focus on pleasuring her... One of us focuses on pleasuring the top half the other focuses on the bottom half :)

    • I like your way of thinking ;-)

  • I'd never do one.