Why I think men really do not care about how women look physically when it comes to sex?

[Anonymous]

I be brief. We all women of course want to look good to our SO, husbands, to the boyfriends, or just for the guy we are attracted to so the guy in question do not l try to look "elsewhere" . but also we also feel good when we externally look pretty.

We women, are very self-conscious about our body and the majority of us probably are not happy with the body we were born with, some may be happy, others dont. So we go to the gym to look and feel better, but deep down we know that if we are dong that is for other people to see us prettier or some women get plastic surgeries to look even better, some get new boobs, new butt, new ehnanced face, but do these women do it for really themselves or for people to see them better so they attract more people to them, so is not always about us anyway we do it for other people. For instance do a woman who gets new enhanced boobs are they really doing it for themselves or because they want the attention from the other people to her?

Now when it comes to sexual intimacy or sex and this is my opinion and the way I see it. I believe guys do not care much about how we look, like do they really care if we have big or small boobs, saggy or not saggy, flat stomach or not. I believe as long as they can have a body to enjoy watching, to make them horny to touch, to lick, to suck and to fuk that is what matters to guys. It is way more important the lingerie or the perfume you put for that sexy nite as that turns them even more than if you have small or big breasts.

I believe this based on a guy Im attracted to. Physically Im not really happy with my body, and even if I work out I dont have the most fit or athletic body out there where I can show off my hard abs or my hard tushie on clothes or without clothes. I have my saggy and flabby body parts. My boobies are not perfect, are small and kinda saggy I wish I have them a bit bigger and firm but im not getting any surgery for that.. But for the guy I like some months ago.

[partydelights]

TBH us guys INITIALLY do look at looks. That's why we check girls out in shopping centres and watch porn and enjoy movies with attractive girls.

But when comes to sex, personally I need sufficient commitment and knowledge of the person to feel comfortable to fuck her.

So a pleasant personality, being jovial and positive, reasonable and witty, perhaps for me even artistically talented in music and instrumental are important to even consider having sex with her.

Finally in the bedroom, I (can't speak for all guys) definitely want to see my girl naked. This is the purpose of sex.

And I want to see confidence and vulnerability. These are attributes that enhances her naked body from "ok meh" to "Wow my Goddess!"

So my opinion is the initial spark is from physical beauty. But a pleasant face and on body is good enough. But that which last and wow the sex is personality and character.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion I like women's bodies natural.
I'm not terribly picky.
Most of the time the things women worry about in regards to their appearance I couldn't care less about and the things I do like about their bodies they don't always understand it or want to hear it.
They already have in their mind what they think is perfect.
I'm not into lingerie at all or even perfume for that matter.
I just want her.
I like how SHE smells.
I don't care if she waxes every inch or not.
I don't care about make up or nails or jewelry etc.
I want her naked body how it is with all it's beauty and it's flaws.

[Anonymous]

When I met my boyfriend he told me that he didn’t care if I had a tummy or stretch marks or cellulite. That if he likes a person, he likes what they have. I found that so sexy

[jennifer_bloom]

I read in an article men base sexual satisfaction on the sensations they get and not on the appearance of the female. Of course this might not be true for all men.

[Berethor]

Men care if a woman looks good in general, but men don't tend to be petty about it.

[jessture]

You call this brief?

[Asker]

haha sorry

[john075]

I don't think do. it is very important

[masterkamasutra]

if it comes for sex, all I want is skill, energy, and hunger.

[Asker]

so you guy sdont really care about looks in bed? Do you care about sexy lingerie and nice perfume also?

[masterkamasutra]

sex is a skillful job, sometimes a sexy looking girl is like a dead hole and sometimes an ordinary one turns out a wild animal. I don't like lingerie much because it gets removed quickly, but yes good smell turns me on.

[Asker]

that is what i siad not everythign is physical as we women believe

[masterkamasutra]

something I always notice on any girl and I want that, if its there she is enough for me.

[Anonymous]

of course we like the babes, but not all guys get the babes so some settle.

[Anonymous]

I’d summarize it like this.

Looks matter more to men then to women.

Men have lower standards than women.

Longer version: women seem to think a pretty small number of men are really physically hot and then a large number are “fine” if they have other qualities. They know men care about looks so imagine they need to be amazing for men to be excited.

But that’s not how men see things. Men find most women kind of hot, some even more and some less. Men might like a perfect body but really do appreciate and care about imperfect ones.

Another way we could describe it: women don’t care much if men are a “4” vs a “6” looks wise. Men care a -lot- if women are a 4 vs a 6 looks wise. Women misinterpret that to mean men must only want 9+