Why do people think women are extremely picky when it comes to who they have sex with?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

From my experience, I’ve seen women have sex with a multitude of people for a multitude of reasons, from helping her in need to smooth talking her, I’ve seen fairly attractive women have sex with a man regardless of how he looks. Men who are out of shape, no job, unhygienic, etc. I’ve seen and heard women having sex with these types of men. Now, biology states that women are pickier than men, but lets be honest, anything is pickier than men. It’s not saying much to say that women are pickier than men. I think a lot of men who think women are unreasonably picky when it comes to sex are men who aren’t experienced in socializing with women a lot or who don’t go out a lot. You’ll be surprised just what types of men women will have sex with, and from my experience the spectrum is arguably as broad as it is for the types of women men will have sex with.

[TheFlak38]

You say this today, in the age of online dating apps and a society that elevates women to the most astronomical heights just because they have a vagina. Only months ago we had an ugly tinder slut, no better than a 6 scamming two thousand men who liked her on tinder. They were so desperate that they humiliated themselves by competing with each other for her pussy. She chose the ONE who won the game and the guy still went home with his hand on his dick. Because there was no... chemistry.
This sums up modern dating. Men are willing to accept any compromise just to get laid while even the ugliest women receive entire hordes of men and they still don't know who to choose.
A woman might be retarded, disabled, scarred, fat, dog-ugly and she still has thousands of men willing to marry her. Now imagine what a 10 can have in her life. Have you ever seen a beautiful women that is not successful? Thats right. It doesn't exist. She has a pussy and gets benefits just because of that.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I don't know what you mean? I’ve seen plenty of attractive women who weren’t successful, but I guess it depends on what you mean by “successful” Also, I get what you’re saying, but the men who would give a 6 that much attention and effort, aren’t exactly quality men. Probably the lowest quality men in all facets of life. You’re right that a disabled, scarred, fat, and dog-ugly woman will have thousands of men willing to marry her, but that applies to men too... There’s BILLIONS of people on this planet, so if you’re a marginally successful man in the US, travel to a third world country and you’ll literally have thousands of women wanting to be with you. You and me can have thousands of women wanting us, but they may be in another country, state, continent, etc. It’s a numbers thing basically

[TheFlak38]

No woman on this whole planet will ever stay with a man below her league. Yes, it happens as you say. An ugly guy can find someone and get laid. At least for a time. Sooner or later this guy will get dumped by that same woman once she realises how many more choices she has. I have seen this happening countless of times, even with some close friends, one of them who was dumped last month. Instead of celebrating Christmas he was running to the divorce courts. He married a total bitch and was suffering for 15 years from her abusive behaviour. He was tolerating all sorts of shit and that bitch still wasn't satisfied with her slave and dumped him.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

If that was the case, women would ALWAYS be dumping each man they were with, even a billionaire president. Same thing with men. Men would keep dumping after seeing another beautiful woman, after another, after another. There’s an unlimited supply... If a woman likes you, there’s only ONE of you in the entire existence of the earth. She won’t leave you unless she was already materialistic and/or gold digging in the first place. In the latter case, she’s ALWAYS dump a man for another of higher salary, but for the former, she’ll remain loyal because you are irreplaceable. Some people have morals and values, some do not. So, if a woman dumps you because she can do better financially, I’d say that’s a woman, person, who you’d rather not have wanted in the first place

[BeMuse]

Yes, there are plenty of girls that sleep around… As a teenager I was drinking one night behind a convenience store with a couple of guys and I went to buy another six pack. I ran into two girls from school, we talked about this and that and I convince them to come hang out and have a few drinks. After a beer one of the girls starts kissing me. We went around the corner and she gave me a blow job against the back wall of a convenience store. Not every girl is the same though… Some are crazy picky and drag things out a long time in dating, others are down to fuck on the spot. Most are somewhere in the middle.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yes agreed

[Ellie-V]

In my opinion, the guys who believe that nonsense are the same ones getting rejected. And instead of looking inward, they choose to antagonize everyone else simply because it’s easier than actively changing their own circumstances.

[eMaNnUeL]

3 girls literally just stated that they themselves are picky

[Ellie-V]

@eMaNnUeL I’m sorry... was I supposed to care about that? 😐

[PoliceLivesMatter]

@eMaNnUeL They didn’t detail out specifics.. So, you’re only interpreting what they might be picky on. Again, I do think women are pickier than men, but by how much? What extent? What specific traits? Are these dealbreakers? Women might not be as picky as men when it comes to sex. They might be similar. From what I’ve seen, the latter could be more true

[MrNameless]

If only all the elliot rogers in the world heard this

[PoliceLivesMatter]

He was just a pussy or weak minded person, that probably after 4 negative encounters with women thought the entire gender hated him... He’s not a sane person. Again, I truly feel like the spectrum of people both men and women would have sex with are the very similar, probably more same than different. I used to think differently, but I’ve changed my mind.

[GB2000]

I think as I get older I’m getting more picky but it’s to do with attraction too. I just can’t do it if there’s no attraction there

[PoliceLivesMatter]

More picky? In what ways specifically?

[Makeuphoarder]

Pickier because they can get pregnant?

[DizzyDesii]

Im picky as to who i date because im lookin for a husband material yo have sex with

[Ellie-V]

Do you think your current boyfriend is husband material?

[DizzyDesii]

@Ellie-V yea thats the main reason i broke my 9 year celibacy for him... as of lately i do question if he's still that material since he's changed

[Ellie-V]

People change all of the time.

[DizzyDesii]

@Ellie-V most i know dont change in months..:... i hqrdly changed in 23 years

[Ellie-V]

Maybe it’s time for you to change then, it’s been long enough.

[DizzyDesii]

@Ellie-V nun im tryna change. Just need people who match what im about

[Ellie-V]

You won’t be able to do that if you keep the same kind of people around

[DizzyDesii]

@Ellie-V im the type who can't let go until better options present themselves

[Ellie-V]

That may be the problem. You can’t want/wish for better and expect that to come to you. Certain things in life requires work and sacrifice. No good thing comes easy.

[DizzyDesii]

@Ellie-V i always worked hard to get where and what i got... my boyfriend even came in as a replacement... all replacements eventually come

[Ellie-V]

Is your boyfriend working as hard as you tho?

[DizzyDesii]

@Ellie-V nope, we all know that

[Lilly_Fair]

@Ellie-V asking me Dessi or plm?

[summiter]

We are all different with different desires and values.

[NineBreaker]

I don't know what you're talking about dude, or what kind of women you're running into, women are picky. I just think that you're evaluating their choices through the lens of a straight guy.

It's sort of like a woman you know, or who you're related to decides to set your up with some girl that she knows, and she swears that she's absolutely gorgeous, but to you she seems OK at best.

[Darklydarkened]

People still have a lot of unreasonable judgements on women and can't seem to just think tham as usual human beings.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Exactly

[BigToeJohn420]

WOW !!! You put a lot of thought into that huh. If you're worried about women and who they're screwing maybe you should proofread your questions before you post them might give you an idea of how women pick someone to have sex with.
That's right women are just like people they come in all different shapes and sizes they like all different kinds of men dirty ones clean ones furry ones skinny ones dirty ones muscular ones there's funny ones and Smart Ones safe ones Dangerous ones leader ones follower ones submissive ones dominant ones. Yeah definitely a lot of thought. I'm not sure what I know about women but if I'm lucky enough to get one into bed. I treat her like she's the only woman on the face of the planet. My only goal at that time is to make her feel the best she's felt in her entire life. Like she's the only woman on the face of the planet, the center of my universe.
You know the funny thing is is even if I achieve that you're going to have some women that are spiteful maybe hateful resentful may be grateful may be thankful maybe reciprocal but I know one thing you're not going to get the same response every time because every woman is different and all I can do is try practice, practice, practice.

[Lilly_Fair]

I'm very picky

[Pufffgirl]

This site does not represent real life

[PoliceLivesMatter]

It’s not about this site... also what do you mean by “real life?” Lol... The people behind these computer screens are indeed real human beings... with families, jobs, etc... You’re not making sense

[PoliceLivesMatter]

If anything, people online are more HONEST than those in “real life.”

[Pufffgirl]

Exactly, people online are more honest hence why you will get different reactions in real life and online, people BEHAVE differently online than in real life.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I thought you meant the opposite.

[Pufffgirl]

Same meaning, different reactions... you cannot compare

[Hugemoth]

You've seen a lot of people having sex. What sort of a fucking creep pervert are you.

[SilverRain92]

I am picky too, different female friends has told me that without knowing each other. But I am not a girl.

[EDWINDUNDEE999]

Well girls like a good guy like me as l have very good genes

[Anonymous]

I am "extremely picky" and happy that way.

[Anonymous]

Maybe there is a biological explain for it!

[Anonymous]

It’s probab more of a defence mechanism for the guys that struggle tbh.