boyfriend is angry because of a leaked balloon pop challenge video where it looks like another guy is fucking me. Is he right to be angry?

[Anonymous]

At new years eve I did something stupid. My boyfriend already went home and I stayed with only a couple male friends of ours. I was really drunk and didn't think about the fact that a balloon pop challenge could kinda get outa hand, especially with this one guy. I don't remember that much, but one of the guys filmed it and sent it around, also to my boyfriend. my dress was all the way above my ass so this guy was practically doing this against my thong. He was really disrespectful and was really taking advantage and acting way too dirty. He slapped my ass till his handprint was in my ass the next day, he pulled my hair, grabbed my boobs and stuff. He was calling me a slut while doing it and said to the camera that my boyfriend now had something to jack off to the entire year. Of course, that is really bad, but I was clearly to drunk and didn't mean anything bad. I totally get that he's angry, but why only at me and not at his friends? Why not that one guy who did it and the guy who filmed? Is he that scared? What are your thoughts?

If you don't know what a balloon pop challenge is, it's this kind of thing (and no, that's not the video of me):

[markscott]

What you describe would make me extremely unhappy and upset. Being drunk is no excuse, as you chose to drink that much, and nobody forced it down your throat. You let a guy slap your basically bare ass to the point of leaving a mark, feel your titties, press his body up against you over and over, etc. It sounds like there wasn't any place on your body that his hands didn't go, while he repeated pressed his groin against you. And to top it all off, it's immortalized on video. Why is he more angry with you, than them? Because you are the one he trusted, the one who he is in a relationship with, the one who he expects you won't pull your skirt up and let a guy slap you bare ass repeatedly, and feel your tits over and over, along with groin pushes. If you plan on using "I drank too much" and don't learn from this, and massively curtain your alcohol input, then you will have no relationship. Assuming it's not too late already. You owe your boyfriend a massive apology, along with a promise to change your behavior, and change your drinking, and to stick to the promises.

[englisc]

He's probably mostly angry because by allowing his friends to do that to you and show all of his friends, you've not only made a complete fool of yourself but also allowed his friends to humiliate him. It also says a lot about how much respect you have for your boyfriend He should be mad at all of you, but you want to pass on the blame rather than admit you fucked up when you also allowed it. He should dump you and knock his "friends" teeth out.

[Anonymous]

YOU did it all. YOU allowed it to happen. Of course a guy is going to go as far as YOU will let him, and this guy certainly did! If I were your guy, I would dump you on the spot!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHG!

[Vesta]

I hope he did

[FragileSnowflake]

Slut, he doesn't deserve you.

I would be absolutely disgusted and ashamed if I even MET you if I was him.

[FragileSnowflake]

What's even more sad is that you're around your thirties and you still have an immature mind of a teenage girl, you'll never grow up and find a guy who will love you, you'll just always be a slut with no self control or values, go get gangbanged by his friends while drunk and blame them.

[chrisuk]

Can I see the video? I'm joking but he has a right to be angry at you and his other two mates. On the flip side why didn't you just leave with him?

[lindseycreampie]

if he is making a big deal about something in your past forget him your a hottie i wish he was fucking you in this video

[Tamera952]

He’s a moron

[wankiam]

he is being silly

[Miristheiss]

My thoughts?

My first thought is that this is a BS, made up troll scenario.

Second thought? If it is real on any level your boyfriend is a pathetic weak, beta male if he hasn't already dumped your sleazy, slutty ass. You're scum... no offense intended.

[BigRob420]

This is either fake or I award un to you the idiot of the year award.

[Anon-ymous1]

This is retarded.

[Senacık]

enjoy video

[skittles2017]

He has all the right to be upset with you and his friends as well... He should be upset with you and his friends as well...
Nobody is to be excused.
And it's really bad what you all been doing ( even drunk ) tits grabbing, hair pulling , slut calling , bum slapping and on top of that no dress... just thong.

[MisterAnon69]

I would have beat your ass if I found out. holy shit you are pathetic.

[DDpsy]

"He was really disrespectful and was really taking advantage and acting way too dirty. He slapped my ass till his handprint was in my ass the next day, he pulled my hair, grabbed my boobs and stuff."

"... but I was clearly to drunk and didn't mean anything bad. "

Well. A woman that can't keep her personal boundaries clear with other men when I am not around is certainly not a keeper. Alcohol is never an excuse either.

Tell your guy to dump you ASP.

[Hugemoth]

I don't see anything weird in that. It's just a challenge.

[Omar5881]

Yes ofc he has the right to be angry

[Nachowedgie]

Yup, I would be too

[NetTech]

I believe he has every right to be angry. At you for letting yourself to get into such a compromising condition. At his friends who filmed and actually sexually harassed you. He should be angry at everyone in the room who did not try to break up what was happening.

And personally I would no longer go to any parties that involved these two guys ever again.

[TurlBirb]

He is a hypocrite if he isn't angry with his friends too, but that doesn't excuse what you did. You weren't acting in the best of mindsets, you were drunk, yes, but at the same time something tells me you weren't drunk enough to have absolutely no idea what was going on.

He needs to consider who his friends are, and more importantly, what he wants with a girl who might do that to him again. For now though, my advice to you is to earn his trust back (should take about 6 months to fully recover if you're dedicated; any more than that and he's probably a little too sensitive or immature). Also never, ever put yourself in a compromising position with any men besides him again. That is just a horrible idea on its own.

[FragileSnowflake]

So if he doesn't trust her back, he's immature? This isn't just his girlfriend being an absolute slut, this is his friends laughing at him and humiliating him, it's so wrong on so many levels and has way too many shitty sides to look at it from.

[j_stanton]

It looks like dry sex basically. You cheated on your boyfriend with his buddies on video. I can see why he'd be upset.

[Anonymous]

kill yourself
you are going to hell

[Anonymous]

He should have tossed your ass.

[Anonymous]

Yeah he has a right to be mad, id probably break up with you unless it was a long term relationship, can't use the drunk excuse because the flip side is dont be so irresponsible that you drink to the point you have "no control" over your own body and brain. 100% unacceptable and he's probably hurt and angry and rightfully so!