Girls, my girlfriend doesn't want me to use a condom but won't go on the pill, advice?

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NEOTUNIA2U Xper 7
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be consistent with condom otherwise say no to having sex with her unless you want to be a young daddy at your age.
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- Asker
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  Oh hell no to that. I just don't get why she would want to risk it.
- NEOTUNIA2U
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  Good, cause you are not ready for sure. Just saying that some girls would try to trap the guy into being a daddy. I have seen it happen.
- Asker
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  I know I am not lol. And that is a sad situation for sure.
SweetEvilKitty Xper 5
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Tell her no glove no love.
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- Asker
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  hahahaha. I like that haha

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sjoes006 Editor
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IUD copper.
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- sjoes006
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  If in the US the brand name is Paragard. So long as you have healthcare it’s free and lasts for up to 10 years.
sapphire3506 Xper 6
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use a condom
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- Asker
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  I do every time.
- sapphire3506
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  good
- Asker
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  Don't you?
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- sapphire3506
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  I'm a virgin
- Asker
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  Oh. Well you have a good mind set then.
Apple1996 Master
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Learn to pull out faster
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- Asker
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  I hope you are joking. Just because a guy pulls out does not mean you may not get pregnant.
- Apple1996
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  It works most of the time. Besides when I was on top and didn't get off fast enough but that only happened twice
- Asker
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  you are not on the pill? You know guys can still get you pregnant even if they pull out right? Even if he was the fastest in the world, you could still get pregnant.
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- SweetEvilKitty
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  Pre-cum in some rare cases can get you pregnant.
- Apple1996
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  I dont use any birth control I do NFP. And I always take ovulation test so i know for sure. But for the most part is pulling out has worked best
- Asker
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  @SweetEvilKitty exactly. it happens more than people think.
- Asker
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  why would you risk it? just wrap it up.
- Apple1996
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  When me and my husband dated we use to have sex for hours at a time. It hurts so bad to use a condom over 30 mintues
- SweetEvilKitty
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  It makes more sense now. Their married.
- Asker
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  What do you mean hurts. I have to special order mine and I forget they are even on sometimes and have to check. So there should be no reason why he had pain.
- Apple1996
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  We used pull out when we first met also
- Apple1996
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  It hurt both of us the few times we tried. Condoms are good if it's going to be quick but not if you trying to go a long time
- Apple1996
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  And by the way I dont acutally recommend pulling out. You should use condoms or whatever is comfortable for the both of you
Secret6620 Master
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Pull out game better be strong💪💪💪
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Repa33 Guru
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Its a trap!
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Sarisalive Xper 6
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Well, then don’t have sex with her. She’s not being smart and could risk getting herself pregnant. If you really don’t want children, then her being on contraceptive and using the condom will heighten the chance of not having a baby
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Factshurt90 Yoda
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Withhold dick until she does something... babies are a hell no. She needs to let you bring condoms to put on, or take birth control.. I say bring your own so you know she isn’t damaging them or something..
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bumbles123 Xper 7
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She’s outa luck
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- Asker
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  That is how I feel. I would never want to make her experience any negative effects of the pill but I have to do my part you know. We have been together for almost a year but I feel like she needs to accept my decision, right?
- bumbles123
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  Yes so your decision is to not wear condoms? Also the pill doesn’t have bad effects for everyone
- Asker
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  No, I choose to, how I was raised and I am no where near ready for kids. She said it gave her bad headaches when she tried to take it when she was younger I think.
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- bumbles123
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  So no birth control probably no sex then
- Asker
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  I wear one every time but yeah I think I need to tell here that if we don't use either then no sex.
- bumbles123
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  Yes.
- Asker
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  Thanks.
- bumbles123
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  Welcome
Desconhecida Editor
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Good luck daddy
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- Asker
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  Sorry... No