Girlfriend sent nude pics of me to her friend. How should I react?

[Anonymous]

To keep it short and simple, while my girlfriend was scrolling through an Instagram conversation with her friend she scrolled up and there was a naked photo of me. Multiple pictures, some including my face. She was crying and saying how sorry she was and that she only wanted to "show me off".

Before we sent pictures to each other we both promise not to send them around and she said she hated people who did that. She flat out lied to me and betrayed my trust but I have forgiven her. Was that the right thing to do? I really love this girl, she's my first love, but it was completely out of character for her to do that to me.

Also ladies, how would you feel about other girls seeing your man naked? I feel like she would be jealous over it but apparently not.

[LesterJester]

As you are under 18, her passing your pics around to her friends is distribution of child pornography, regardless if you're all under age or not.

You should not have forgiven her because she betrayed your trust and betrayed your privacy.

Thats the problem about first loves, you let them get away with bloody murder and stick around because you worry that you'll make a mistake in dumping them. I wasted three years with a drama queen who tried to change who I was into what she wanted and also ended up cheating on me. Even after cheating on me I was too damn young and stupid that I let her come back, because she seemed remorseful and at least she told me she did, rather than me finding out from someone else.

But I was a damn idiot... And it sounds like you're heading down the same path.

If you forgive this and let her off Scott free because she pulled the water works, she won't learn any lessons and will try and get away with more.

[LuciferMorningSt4r]

Lol guys opinion here 🤣 but I'd stay clear of that like walk away if it was the other way around she'd leave you right away. Also now you can't trust her at all just cause uv caught her this time doesn't mean more people have seen or her friend has showed them to others etc

[saucegoddess]

I do realize you love her, so it’s tricky.

What she did was REALLY fucked up, no matter the justification. I hope you do realize that because I do realize that the facts might be clouded if you really like her.

I’d say dump her or take a break. Someone who does this once might do it again. Then again, you know her better then we do. But do not send her any more pictures, okay? She’ll just keep doing it. And that’s wrong.

[Anonymous]

If it was the other way around and you shared her nudes. You'd be a d**k and there'd be tears and witch hunt. That photo has probably been shared a 1000 times by now and shown to so many people.

You should break up with her. She obviously can't be trusted. She probably talks about all the personal details of your relationship. I doubt anything you've done together remains private.

[LuciferMorningSt4r]

Lol we're giving advice not making him shit himself 🙈😂

[TheOnlyAriii]

You will have plenty of love stories of your own before you get the right one.

Unless you're willing to actually go over this and try to rebuild your trust, you must recognize that there is a chance this happens again OR that those pictures are online now, open to the world.

Be careful with your pictures and on Instagram you can "unsend" images and messages so maybe try that?

[kittycat119]

Well that's illegal for one. So not even gonna get into the fact she could be arrested and this is why kids shouldn't sext. But to be blunt you're girlfriend is a bitch and you should dump her

[scorchedwater]

by law, she just distributed child pornography.
no offense to you: but dump her disrespectful, sorry ass.

[kittycat119]

Technically so did he by sending it to her in the first place

[scorchedwater]

@kittycat119 i know. im just trying to get across the magnitude of how serious what she did is

[LoverFizz]

Break up

[findingdreamland-1]

Such a disrespectful attitude. You have to stand on your ground and you have right to be mad at her.
If i did such a thing i would not be jealous at all. She is showing what she has. It is like bragging you know.

[bumbles123]

Its not out of character. You just didn’t know her true character.

[bumbles123]

Also you’re under 18. Illegal

[ChiPaPa]

I'd dump her ass.

[hammeronfire]

sue the fuck out of her for distributing child pornography and her friend sue the friend too because that's illegal.
don't forgive her dump her because she ain't shit.

[Nachowedgie]

Break up