Why was my friend so rough during sex almost like he hates me?

Me and this guy friend hooked up today for the first time, we got along really well and talked everyday and chilled a lot. SO today when we hooked up ot
wasn't good he was so fk rough almost as if he hated me or something was the vibe that I got is that normal? I used to like him tooo so it sucks knowing he only wanted to hookup
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He didn’t even kiss me or anything he literally just went straight to sex like no foreplay or anything either

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What Guys Said 14

  • It sounds to me like he's got some sort of sexual dysfunction. Stay away from him.

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    • 6d

      Yeah it’s weied cause he didn’t even try and kiss me or anything he just kinda went straight into sex like no for play or anything

    • 6d

      Weird is right as well as dangerous.

  • There'a two reasons:
    1. He likes it rough. Many guys do, including me. It doesn't mean that we hate our partners, it's just what gets us off.
    2. He's an idiot. Nobody in their right mind roughs-up someone without confirming that they like that and want that. Start vanilla and explore from there.

    How he treated you was pretty abusive, and that's no way to treat anyone, least of all a friend. You deserve better.

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      It’s like he doesn’t respect me and doesn’t care about me and just wanted sex cause he hasn’t talked to me since and he always texts me first it kinda hurts cause I used to like him and we were friends if it was a random person I wouldn’t care what do you think I should do?

  • one of the issues of porn is it can make guys think all women like it like that. i personally think you should tell him you dont and if you are ever going to have sex again you need him to be gentle

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      He didn’t even kiss me or anything he literally just went straight to sex like no foreplay or anything either

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    • 5d

      I have a feeling he doesn’t care about me and just wants sex and nothing more and that hurts cause first I actually did like like him and second most importantly cause we were friends like if it was a random hookup I wousont mind and now he hasn’t talked to me since and he used to always text me first everyday what should I do?

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      sadly i think all you can do is try and forget about it and move on. not easy i know but if he really respected you either as a friend or indeed more than that then he would not have treated you so uncaringly

  • Not compatible - he likes it rough, you don't, that's his thing, not yours - again, Not compatible sexually - End of!

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      Yeah it’s weied cause he didn’t even try and kiss me or anything he just kinda went straight into sex like no for play or anything

    • 6d

      Honestly ( and really hope I don't offend you ) but he just wanted to get it over and done with, the aggression was so he cam mask the situation.

    • 6d

      Thanks for the honest answer that’s exactly what is is but I just thought we were friends so he’d be nicer lol

  • Some people enjoy rough sex has nothing to do with how he likes or dislikes u lol

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    • 6d

      You are not lovers why would u expect him to

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      Yeah but with every other guy I’ve hooked up with has done that and tbh with some of them we never even talked again so I don't know it just makes it better

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      So communicate that with him

  • Some guys like it rough. Just tell him to calm down a bit

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      He didn’t even kiss me or anything he literally just went straight to sex like no foreplay or anything either

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    • 6d

      He needs to kids you if feels much better

    • 6d

      Yeah I kinda like the part where you makeout before sex and then foreplay and then go into that those were the best times I’ve had good sex lol like some people on here were like why should he kiss u if u gius are not dating but like cmon I’ve done that with guys I’ve met once and never talked to again it’s just kissing nothing else

  • Too much porn.. Tell him you don't like that if you do it again.

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  • maybe he just dont have a clue what he is doing watch some more gentile porn with him and see if he gets the hint.

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      Yeah it’s weied cause he didn’t even try and kiss me or anything he just kinda went straight into sex like no for play or anything

  • dont have sex with him anymore if u didn't like it

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      Yeah it’s weied cause he didn’t even try and kiss me or anything he just kinda went straight into sex like no for play or anything

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    • 6d

      You are right honeslty now it feels weird even just being his friend I think I’ll stop talking to him for a few days

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      i can't stick my nose in that situation, but you should do what makes you valuable.
      hope everything goes good with u

  • What did he do

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      Like I don't know he was just so rough and
      He didn’t even kiss me or anything he literally just went straight to sex like no foreplay or anything either

    • 6d

      Oh not good

  • Isn't that every girl's dream?

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  • Is there another way to have sex?🤔

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      He didn’t even kiss me or anything he literally just went straight to sex like no foreplay or anything either

  • You have to learn how to communicate, it’s as much your fault as his that you didn’t enjoy it, he doesn’t hate you it’s just his thing or what he thinks most girls like

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    • 6d

      Yeah it’s weied cause he didn’t even try and kiss me or anything he just kinda went straight into sex like no for play or anything

    • 6d

      Ok I’ve never heard of a guy doing that before, was he a virgin? Or never had a stable relationship and just learned from porn?

  • Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if he's an inexperienced porn addict, and thinks that's how it's done.

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      Yeah it’s weied cause he didn’t even try and kiss me or anything he just kinda went straight into sex like no for play or anything

What Girls Said 5

  • Some guys just really like rough sex. But he should have asked if that was ok first.

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      It’s just that Now
      He didn’t even kiss me or anything he literally just went straight to sex like no foreplay or anything either

    • 6d

      Well, you don't have to just lie there and accept it if you don't like it. You need to talk to him about communicating what he wants and getting your consent (and vise versa).

  • It is subjective

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  • Wtf this happened to me today

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  • Why didn't you stop if it wasn't your thing?

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  • Some guys like it rough, but that’s why is best to talk before and during sex. It just isn’t cool he is having a great time when you’re def not! If u guys decide to hook up again, just let him know your demands and standards, if he is not ok with it... then leave him blue balled! 😁👍🏼 good luck!🍀

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    • 6d

      Now
      He didn’t even kiss me or anything he literally just went straight to sex like no foreplay or anything either

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