How did the "Daddy" kink come to be and would it be normal if you said "Mummy" in bed?

So, to elaborate.

I don't know how the "Daddy" kink came to be and I personally find it strange, I was wondering if anyone could explain why they like it or if they know how or where it originated.

Additionally, if you think harder on it, if a guy said to a girl "Mummy" while in bed, doesn't it now sound strange?

I'm not judging the people who are "Daddy" fanatics, everyone to their own, I just want to know why you like it and how it started.

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  • Dad kink is simpley to not having a father figure most of the time and that is exactly where this came from.
    by the way it is the same for the mommy kink.

    Men who don't have mommy figure end up get into like been dominated by women or as they would say there mistress or as some people say mommy.
    But tbf it is more commen to find people saying mistress than mom.

    And honestly i don't find any of this weird.
    Cause it is not like there saying as tho they legit want to have sex with there family members.

    Only thing i find weird and gross is when a young girl like 18-20 actaully likes having sex with 60-80 year olds. That's like wtf esspacilly grandpa kinks.
    That's just gross.

  • Daddy kinks/ sexual complexes most commonly emanate from the lack of any father figures in a girl's (or gay boy's) life prior to and during their early stages of sexual adolescence. Mommy kinks/ sexual complexes most commonly emanate from the lack of any mother figures in a boy's (or lesbian girl's) life prior to and during their early stages of sexual adolescence. So, why are daddy kinks now so commonplace? Well...

    How did the &quot;Daddy&quot; kink come to be and would it be normal if you said &quot;Mummy&quot; in bed?How did the &quot;Daddy&quot; kink come to be and would it be normal if you said &quot;Mummy&quot; in bed?How did the &quot;Daddy&quot; kink come to be and would it be normal if you said &quot;Mummy&quot; in bed?How did the &quot;Daddy&quot; kink come to be and would it be normal if you said &quot;Mummy&quot; in bed?



    I'd say that the evidence speaks for themselves, wouldn't you? Of course you'd get a generation where girls almost universally have the Daddy kink- fatherhood's deliberately been devalued, and degraded, to the extinct that it's practically been rendered extinct.

    • GREAT RESEARCH! This HAS to get MHO for sure! ^__^

    • Thanks for MHO

    • You're welcome! :)

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  • ewww if a guy called me mummy, or asked me to call him daddy, I'd vom a little in my mouth and leave right then and there!

  • I have no idea. I find it weird and disgusting. Id never call my boyfriend daddy or let him call me mommy.

    • Well, now I know you certainly don't have that kink :D

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  • I would guess that it migrated over from the Latin kink of using Papi.

    Of course Daddies have been a thing in gay culture for awhile too.

    And sugar daddies have been a thing for a long time as well.

    No if you go the other way, MILF reached popularity because of American Pie. Though that is just talking about women who are mothers and not calling someone mommy.

  • None. It's fucking gross regardless.

    • While I agree, it fascinates me much in the same way a serial killer would

  • Gross

  • You can't compare these things. Women tend to be sexually drawn to dominant men. And older men tend to be more dominant because they have had more time to build status and experience. Lo and behold, women also tend to be more attracted to men who are older than them.

    So the daddy kink is to be expected.

    But what about MILFs? They seem to be a pretty big category in porn...

    • Fair enough and the MILF one, I find it disturbing but yes it does seem to be rather present on the websites :/

    • Lol. Older women are (sometimes) more down-to-earth and less ditzy. Plus they have more experience with men, so they tend to freak out less about men's behavior. On the flip side, some older women are just bitter and entitled bitches. So it's hard to know.

  • Daddy seems to imply power. That’s about all I can think of. I’m not into the kink.

    • Good theory and I'm not into it either, good job :)

  • It's a dark rabbit hole, I would recommend not researching it unless you have a strong stomach.

    • I have a very strong stomach ^__^

    • Then do your research.

  • I just think it's weird.

  • Its because of women's desire for patriarchy.

    • I don't understand Patriarchy that well so I won't go into it :)

    • Do you mind if I DM you? I have a question for you ^__^

    • yeah

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  • I have no idea

    • It's okay, didn't expect many to know :)

  • I like it when they call me daddy but mommy is fucked