Have you ever questioned your sexual identity?

I have been questioning my identity since college and I’ve come to this conclusion: although I primarily prefer guys and will almost definitely marry a guy someday, I will get sexual with a girl if I’m horny enough, I’m single, there are no cute single guys around and (most importantly) I trust her.

I am allowing anon responses to protect people’s privacy. Have you ever questioned your sexual identity?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • For sure, I struggle with the fact that I feel I could easily slip into being a woman. You swap my gender and I would take to it like a duck to water. But I am a guy. I don't want surgery and I feel like I am a guy for a girl. I struggle and hope that one day when a girl comes along, I will be a sensitive man for her. Parts of me are truly male but I find myself moving towards female type activity. I am still attracted to girls and not to boys but I feel more connected with girls and I find myself getting pushed away because I am a guy so is the natural public separation of gender.

  • I have definitely questioned both my sexual orientation and my gender identity. I strongly suggest that you use those two terms for clarification instead of "sexual identity." Now I have both my orientation and identity figured out; I'm a full male heterosexual. Almost everybody has a degree of same-sex attraction. Don't be concerned about that. You are no doubt straight.

    • Thank you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I haven't really thought about it tbh but I could possibly see what you described happening to me; and I also think every uni-sexual person is like that to some extent.

    • Awesome 😊

    • What do you mean by uni-sexual?

  • I see nothing bad, wrong or even out of pocket with that. I feel most people have. Im a small percentage who haven't.

    • Thank you.

    • No thanks needed I got you

    • I do see something wrong with a freak being obsessed with me and dressing as a woman starting in childhood and is a sex offender

  • Nope. I love mens' minds, bodies, existence, and always will.

    • Cool

  • Yes, when I was pregnant (before I knew that I was).

    • Makes sense.

  • Yeah. I have.

    • Hope you liked the answers you found.

    • @princessgrail Im above average 6% of the time I told a guy below. That's the best pick up line I've ever said on accident. That's awesome I'm going to put that on my profile.

    • That's so funny and creepy🤣

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  • I never have. I have never had any interest in anything sexual with another guy. I only think about sexual things with women.

  • I once played around with the idea that I may be asexual, because every guy around me talked about nothing but girls and getting laid all the time, and I didn't care. Now when people ask, I just say 'demisexually straight'. I found that a better description for how I feel.

    • That’s great 😊

  • Nope never questioned it, I even get grossed out when I picture it. I don’t have anything against guys who go for guys, it’s just that it’s nothing I’d ever try or do personally.

    • Makes sense

  • Nope

    • Awesome 😊

  • No. I knew that I was pan as soon as I came out the womb, so I'm good

  • I'm going through it now.

    • Let me know if you wanna talk.

  • No, not really very few do or at least for long. It's not hard to see that women are attractive and dudes are just dudes. Most everyone knows this.

    • My friend said the same thing as you. She just reversed the genders.

  • I have kind of considered a 3 some (MMF) but that's as far as it went. I like women way too much. When she cums, is my fetish. hearing her and seeing her. now I just need a "her" so I can do that.

    • Cool fetish 😊

    • Thanks. Honestly, there have been times when I did have a girlfriend, I was down on her and I came when she did. lol.

    • Wow!

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  • No, I haven't. The closest I have ever come is trying to imagine/see the world through a gay man's eyes. But I couldn't do it very well. Not seriously, at least. And if I truly picture myself with another man the thought is a huge turnoff.

    • I understand.

  • Nope.

  • I'm demisexual, but that's as far as it goes really since anyone can claim to be demisexual these days

    • Yes, but most aren’t. You actually are.

    • Yeah that's my point. Most don't know what it means.

    • True

  • Nopers.

  • Yeppers

  • Nope

  • Everyone on this app thinks I'm gay so yes.

    • I don’t think that.

    • Well that's good because I'm not :) I've never questioned it, I think dicks are funny and I'm not sexually attracted to them at all. I show my friends my dick all the time, we all find it funny 😀

  • Never, im 100% straight.

    • Same

    • 😉 👍

    • I'm a 12 out of 7 about 16% of the time

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  • no I have a penis that enters a vagina and pounds away until I bust my load

    NOT HARD TO CONFUSE
    I understand one of my functions

  • Perhaps

  • Nerves had a need to as I am not attracted to men. Very cut and dry for me...

  • Yeah. Always get to the conclussion that I'm 100% straight

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