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Women with high sex drives do you feel embarrassed?

I have a high sex drive, but I would only want to fuck someone who i have feelings or connection for.
Otherwise I just suffer from frustration or just distract myself.

But my toxic ex, he always says, ' but you love cock so much', as a reason to believe since we broke up that I am having sex with others. And that is not the truth.

Which when I think of it, I feel ashamed for having a high sexual appetite. Like if i love you or have a deep connection I want it 4-5 days a week. I am just passionate, and when I have sex it's intoxicating and i don't think about the stress in my life.
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  • Nothing to be ashamed off... men have the same, just certain men can’t control it.. so your already above them and your ex in that aspect. But sex helps to bond two people closer together.. so the higher it is in the female the better. I haven’t had that luxury... but I hope some lucky guy understands the gem you are

    • Thanks, I hope i end up with someone who has sexual chemistry, and stamina as me lol

    • I hoped for it too.. and didn’t get it.. I hope you do.. we would match up well... but I’m taken... you will get a great guy and you will be lucky to have each other

    • I hope so. I am a great woman too, never cheated in my life or could ever intentionally hurt. I give the love I want. And i guess I ended up loving the wrong persons... I hope the next person is worth it

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  • If you’re sex drive is so high wouldn’t you still be able to fuck a hot guy and even if prefer a relationship , it Would still fix the craving. Or do you get frustrated because you want more and a hookup is a one time thing possibly?

    • Well i know that one night stands, there is no guarantee they will even be good at sex or have good sexual chemistry with you. So that keeps me from wanting those. I could imagine a friends with benefits, but the person would have to be a person that respects me and values the friendship aspect. A hot guy there are plenty of those. I get offered sex from both sexes whether they are straight or gay or bi etc. So that helps in saying no. Its too easy to get. A good looking man like Daniel Henney when he was young or Henry Cavill, well hmmmm I can see myself having a really hard time saying no even if they were not a boyfriend or if i had no feelings for them LOL

    • Do you get turned on easily though seeing hot guys or think of sexual things or Lusty thoughts of wanting to bang then but don’t because of reasons you said? You said high sex drive, I would think if one actually has a high one, they would be very visual

    • Do you get turned on easily though seeing hot guys or think of sexual things or Lusty thoughts of wanting to bang then but don’t because of reasons you said? Depends on the guy. Some guys have that sex appeal and aura. Yes I get turned on visually. But to say easily, no. Depends

Most Helpful Girls

  • ugh men like that are the worst.
    i have an ex that thinks that just because i can give a blow job and like to that it must mean i give them all the time to every guy

    he's insecure so he tries to make you feel bad because he feels bad

    • yeah he is really dumb. He thinks because i have options , well men who would want to be my boyfriend or date me. It's okay when he did shady things or go back to his ex He keeps asking over and over, no matter how many times I explain, after we ended. When he should just focus on making it work with his ex solely. He is insecure... I actually love him... he ended things. And can't leave me alone

  • I prefer sex with a loving partner but due to my high sex drive I bought a large vibrating saddle thing.

    Women with high sex drives do you feel embarrassed?Women with high sex drives do you feel embarrassed?

    • I think I need to get a toy too. Cause I prefer only sleeping with someone i have feelings for or a connection.

    • Yeah it's just not the same without feelings. I found that usually one night stands don't care about my sexual needs.

    • Interesting how you have a high sex drive and could satisfy it with guys but use a sex toy. And that takes care of your desires. Guys masturbate to handle their desires but if guys had sex options like many women, they would definitely not be preferring or sticking with a sex toy or whatever. And it’s becuase of how high the sex drive usually is for men and is legit because it’s very visual based. Even if you prefer a connection, if you have a high sex drive you’d think it would be hard to say no if you’re Singh’s to a hot person with sexy body. If you have such a high sex drive I wouldn’t think a Sex you could compare to sex with a hot guy even if no connection to him because that’s the point of having a high sex drive, it’s visual based so connection not needed to be horny and lusty to sex you’re attracted to. The visual sensation the tactile sensation of said body and body parts, hair face eyes sensuality. I’m think you don’t have that for male body despite you supposedly having a high sex drive

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  • It's none of his business. A high sex drive is a real asset if you'll look until you find a matching sex drive in your guy.

  • I used to, but not anymore. I just needed to find a guy that can meet my needs

    • Do You love pussy?

    • @Mariano012 I'm into dick only

    • I thought that women with a high sex drive fuck anything that moves

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  • I'm never ashamed but I hate that women with high sex drive end up getting called nymphos. I get called that a lot its annoying

    • Who knows you fuck frequently enough to call you that, besides your man?

    • @Gyrfalcon family and friends know about our sex life.

    • For the record I think you rock.

  • While having such high sex drive as a woman don't seems to be very common, as long as you control yourself enough to do it with 5 different guys in a week then it's not much of a problem. Many guys are totally okay with doing it 4-5 days a week. :)

    tvtropes.org/.../AManIsAlwaysEager

  • Nah, I have a really high sex drive but I've never been embarrassed of it.

  • If it's not shameful for men, why would it be for women? Personally I too have a high sex drive, and it's one of the criteria for my future wife to share.

  • No reason to be.

  • No. I'm proud

  • I’m the same way.. waiting for for one with high sex drive it is annoying but I’m not ashame of it.

  • At your age this is normal. You're completely normal. Seriously.
    And likely it will even accelerate some into your forties, and not taper off 'till over 50. Enjoy it, wear it, never apologize for what you are or do. EVER.

  • Nothing whatsoever " wrong " with you !! You are very rare for a woman , most are quite happy celibate !!

  • Is your sexuality, just don't make it turn into an addiction, NEVER, EVER.

    • Sex cam is a good alternative by the way.

    • Yeah I will always pay attention and have self control to never make it an addiction.

  • "love you or have a deep connection" That isn't sex. They aren't related. Sex is a physical act. Love is emotional.

    • well i crave sex everyday without having feelings, but I prefer sex with feelings. Sex and feelings are not related, then why do people catch feelings when they are having sex regularly. Its not black and white.

    • "well i crave sex everyday without having feelings" Right. There you go.

  • There is nothing to be ashamed of as women and men both have high drives and dey can have as much sex as dey want, its like a person who says i eat a lot i have big appetite, like food sex is also needed by body

  • Nothing to be ashamed of. Some guys would feel blessed to find a woman with a good sex drive.

  • Why do you need a connection? Or a very strong connection?

    • Because I view sex as something intimate, passionate, where you and the person are connected that from the look in their eyes or certain body languages its not foreign, you can read them and know exactly where to lick, kiss, etc and when. It's a connection that you feel euphoria while fucking them. I mean sex between two person who are just fucking for pleasure can't compare to that. you are definitely sharing not just bodily fluids but energy/energies, you are sharing a connection sexually.

    • I mean sure a connection is nice to have but honestly you will find it is not needed if you really want to let yourself go and enjoy sex

    • Yeah but when you’re supposedly a person with a high sex drive you’d think it would be very physical visual based to spark that often. Like horny a lot or easily And sexy sexual things turning you on. And hot people and their bodies and body parts spurring big time lust and arousal. This is to op or to justasking 1991 here

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  • Why be ashamed. you do it with love and emotion. Fuck what you ex thinks. he is your ex.. He's going to think that regardless because he can't do you anymore.

    • Yeah i realized after explaining to him 10 times the same explanation that no i am not fucking anyone else yet. He keeps asking. I need to cut him off in concerns to communication. "you do it with love and emotion "only way i enjoy it. Just i don't know i guess when society and close minded which is most people in previous times, or guys around my age innately feel like a woman who enjoys sex a lot or has a lot of sex appeal or has options to get that sex even if they are not doing it. Well simply, women get put into the "slut" category easily.

    • IT sucks, I don't use the word myself, unless the moment calls for it :) but honestly.. Men are jealous and insecure and worry to much about how their cocks match up with the guy previouse to him and after him.. Carry on, you know who and what you are,,... And sex is just masterbation with out Love and emotion.

  • I mean it's fine with me. As long as not the only reason I spend Time with someone then I don't see a problem.

    • of course not. Hence for me i need a connection or feelings, which means i love other things about the person and want a real r/ship lol

    • I understand I'm just explaining my own stance. I'm not saying it contradicts yours.

  • So whats the question...

  • Are you waiting until marriage?

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