Why do men feel intimidated by good girls?

[twerkingisgross]

I'm almost 20, a virgin, and never masturbated. I am stuck up about it because I don't like people attacking me or trying to say I shouldn't be proud of myself. I can't stand insecure low-self esteem having bitches. Anyways, most men get butt-hurt when I reject them. The thing is, there are low tier girls and high tier girls. You can't compare a virgin in her 20s who has never masturbated to a girl who has been ran through. Too many men have unrealistic standards when it comes to getting a good girl. They assume that they can easily find virgins when they're young and treat good girls like shit. When they realize the majority of adult women aren't virgins, they try to switch up and get hurt when I say no. Men need to learn to date within their level.

[Necdump]

I get the feeling you're assuming you're a good girl because you're a virgin who has never masturbated.

I wouldn't consider you dateable for me after reading what you wrote, I get the feeling you're putting yourself above others which is not what a good girl would do.

So to answer your question. I don't think we do get intimidated just by the fact a girl is good, additionally the definition of good girl you have seems to be incorrect.

[twerkingisgross]

Bitch I am a good girl for that. Name 10 bitches who are 20 years old, a virgin, and never masturbated. So stfu. I didn't say I was a nice girl, I said I was a good girl. Learn to comprehend.

[Necdump]

What is the definition of a good guy then? Virgin? With your way of thinking, a girl who is a murderer, rapist, thief but still a virgin would be considered a good girl which is illogical

[twerkingisgross]

Why is it your business? Focus on your ownself and your washed up thots.

[Redstang88]

“Intimidated by good girls”

Translation - “Irritated by arrogant bitches”

Get over yourself, nobody gives a flying fuck whether you’re a virgin or not

[twerkingisgross]

Virgins are rare, we have a right to be stuck up. If you want a nice bitch, go get a worn out thot your age. Oh wait, most girls in college are getting ran through by whole ass basketball teams. No one cares about your sensitive ego.

[Redstang88]

My sensitive ego? Who’s the one posting the same narcissistic bullshit 20 times a day? if you’re gonna be a cunt, at least brag about something you HAVE done, not something you haven’t. That’s like bragging that you haven’t climbed a mountain, or haven’t flown a plane. Nobody gives a fuck about what you haven’t done

[twerkingisgross]

K, bye.

[RyanAmaral]

Lmfao

[lightbulb27]

you have values and self esteem, that's to be proud of. as did I at that age. you are sounding a bit... angry though, like its getting to you. watched a great video that kinda hit on this if interested I'll post it.

do not compare yourself to others... especially in this hodge podge of society.

[twerkingisgross]

I'm not angry. People think good girls are obligated to be nice and we have to listen to them. I'm sick of thots coming at me and beta males trying to give me their opinions. Just because I'm a vgood girl and a virgin does not mean I want a beta ass male. I don't like sensitive males. I don't want some man who needs to be babied trying to control me. I do whatever the fuck I want to do. I only fuck with bosses and only bosses f/with me.

[lightbulb27]

nothing wrong with that, most girls don't like beta males. I agree people think they are obligated to be nice = good. sounds like it will take a strong and confident, well trained male to get past your defence shield, nothing wrong with that actually normal, but you don't have to be mean to guys do you? If they see a hot looking girl and they give it a go, you are going to tear them up?

[twerkingisgross]

I ignore males and never lead them on. I treat men how they treat me. I don't like it when guys try to manipulate and gaslight me as if I'm some washed up thot. I also don't like insecure males who feel the need to dominate me or tell me what to do/think/behave. Only weak people do that.

[lightbulb27]

so if a nice, decent guy gets past his fear and approaches you, says he noticed you and wanted to say hello, you are a bright light in his day... or whatever. you'd reciprocate and be nice back, right? but he has to have that alpha male confidence or he gets flamed, right? If I met you in person I could better assess what I think of all this, but that isn't possible, so I only have so much I can say.

[twerkingisgross]

Most people assume strong minded women are bitches because we aren't easily persuaded. I'm not mean to anyone. I just don't give men my time a day and some get insulted by it. Most men also don't take into perspective I may not know them or be interested in dating. Every womans lie doesn't revolve around dating. Many men blew their chances with me because if they were nice to me, when I was done with my business, I would have considered dating them. But if they want to throw tantrums and get on my nerves after I said no, I will cut them off. I don't like guys I don't know asking me out because I'm going to say no, i don't date men I rejected. A man should sit back and take time to know me.

[lightbulb27]

the ones reacting are boys, so yes, you shouldn't have to deal with that. you want someone in control of their emotions. realize it is not easy being a male first off. Second, there are a lot of fish in the sea... if you don't mak some effort to reach back to him, a strong guy won't care and will move onto next. you might have to temper your reaction. You must think you are high value. hope you find your man.

[twerkingisgross]

I don't care if he moves on. If he moves on, he must have not liked me.

[lightbulb27]

I disagree, I think there is something else going on under all this. he's going to try, and try so hard. But there is lots of competition at your age... the high quality guy is going to have other options. It sounds like you want him chasing, beggiing, relentless pursuit or something. Is that how you feel? What is that about? its so hard to text, but you don't come across to me as strong and confident but low self esteem.

[twerkingisgross]

Lol. Most people end up divorced who get married young. IDGAF about competition. There are lots of young attractive women my age trying to latch onto rich guys. The difference between them and me is I'm not trying to use my beauty or pussy to get through life, i'm trying to create my own shit.

[Charlie2332]

Hi. You have a superiority complex. I am a virgin by choice until marriage too. But I wouldn't date negative people like you even if I had to date a sexually promiscuous woman. Because negativity brings people down. Don't be mad. But your attitude needs a revamp.

[Sweatyotterr]

U feeling better now lol nice rant

[taleswapper]

You have an over-inflated opinion of your own virtues. Being a virgin and never having masturbated means you're WAY too hung up on sex; neither of those is true for most women your age. You're not "good", just repressed.

[twerkingisgross]

I'd rather be repressed than have a loose roast beef looking pussy.

[PressOn]

@twerkingisgross, I think your staying pure is very admirable but you shouldn't lower yourself by going to bat with this guy. When people can't be descent, I just pass them up

[taleswapper]

@PressOn I think she's displaying her true colors, actually. And it shows WHY she's still a virgin and never mastyurbated. That degree of self-loathing and bile is bound to come through in public...

[outside_Toronto]

Some guys do, but not all

[lord_chilled]

I honestly dont get this. Dodnt know this was a thing.

I have never felt bad about being rejected by a virgin, i mean that makes sense.

When you get rejected by someone who will go for another man, now that can make one feel jealous and insecure.

So this doesn't make sense for me.
I think you should feel proud of yourself.

[twerkingisgross]

Every young woman isn't focused on partying and fucking. Men complain about their relationships but 9/10 they're fucking with some shallow gold digging thot, so idc.

[thebigc]

Look, men aren't intimidated by you. They just don't like you. You focus on exactly the sorts of things that would make most guys not interested.

[twerkingisgross]

I don't care who your ugly ass likes. These thots be having the ugliest simps feeling themselves with their loose ass pussy. You look like a 12 yo fat kid.

[thebigc]

If nothing else, at least I'm happy with myself instead of asking the internet why people I'm interested in don't like me. Grow up and gain some life experience. I wish you the best of luck, you'll need it.

[twerkingisgross]

Okay, bye bitch.

[Poormanscomedian]

I can see you as virgin , but never masturbated? I wonder

[Fuentes]

Well good if you "really never masturbated" nobody needs that pain of gou complaining zIt hurts, it hurts in the future abd every guy would leave you so be proud you're doing everyone a favor by keeping your legs closed in your adult years as if thst won't make ot even tighter and rustier with age lol