Why do guys say it’s hard for them to pull out?

I’ve always heard guys complain about it being difficult to pull out during sex. Is that true? I sometimes let my current boyfriend go without a condom and he just nonchalantly reaches down and takes it out right as he starts to cum. It seems pretty easy. What do others think?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • When a guy gets close to an orgasm he is focused on the orgasm. That makes it difficult to control. As I hope you know the "pull out method" does not work... You can and will get pregnant from precum of a mistake. I would never have sex without a condom every time.

  • Sometimes it's hard to control the timing. I've never nutted on accident inside a girl. but, I've come close.

    • Thanks for the mho

Most Helpful Girls

  • It’s hard to judge timing, guys sometimes say they can’t cuz it feels better to keep it in, lots of reasons. But you can get pregnant even if he pulls out in time, there's sperm in precum too. Not a good birth control method

    • It indeed feels better to keep it in but i dont care , so most guys that say they can't or its hard is bullshit tho

  • It goes against instinct.

    Why aren't you using birth control?

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  • It's designed to go in not out. with practice not so hard. careful... babies expensive!

  • Its more that you have to get in the habit of doing it because once yo uare used to cumming inside (at least for me) its what your body naturally wants to do and you REALLY want to in the moment.

    That said its totally possible so any guy who says it isn't is exaggerating :P

    • Yeah wanting to do it and not being able to not do it are not the same thing 🙃

    • Exactly lol

    • 🙄😁😎😊

  • It’s hard because it simply feels so good and there’s a block feeling from pulling out. It’s like doing push ups, after a while it’s difficult and you give up on the last push-up. Hope that makes sense

  • Sometimes an orgasm comes on very rapidly with little warning but most of the time those that say that are full of shit

  • My boyfriend is so big that it gets stuck and won't come out until he is soft

    • thanks for exposing me

    • Doesn’t that hurt you?

    • @RyanAmaral sorry babe

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  • Its not hard people bitch , its not the best feeling i could say BUTTTTTTT its pretty easier if you are on top of the girl... so thats bs

    • Yeah he’s always on top when we do that. He says he’s done it with other girls, so he seems pretty good at timing it just right.

    • Good I don't know what to say :P , if people say its hard then thats bullshit

  • I’m not a guy obviously, so I’m not sure.

  • Well because... We feel a um... get a Intense great feeling in our dicks as we're about to cum... Pulling out would sort of ruin this great feeling slightly and make it slot less pleasurable... It's like... Trying to resist the urge to eat a slice of chocolate cake while it's a centermetre away from your mouth... It's not impossible... But it takes a lot of self control

  • Because it ruins the pleasure. The moment s guy has to pull out is usually the moment he has to go the fastest.

  • If he pulls out as he starts to cum he's already cum in you... get ready to be a mom!

    • No he takes it out like a few seconds before he cums.

    • Yeah not a big deal I could pull out and lick your pussy for a bit to my cock calms down to stop me from cumming yet and then put it back in and rod you some more but the closer a guy gets to cumming the greater the risk of a few sperm cells making it into you.

  • He's probably not exactly in the moment if that's the case. I'm sure your boyfriend has experience but he's probably also not focusing on what's actually going on either.

    • Why do you think he’s not focused?

    • I mean he's just focused on pulling out instead of enjoying it.

    • I hope that’s not the case. I thought I was giving him kind of a treat by letting him ditch the condom every so often.

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  • Mind sharing some and helping a brother out 😂

  • You don't have a lower back tattoo

  • Telling lies all you do is pull your cock out its safer to wear a rubber

  • because thats the peak moment when you want penetration, and pulling it out of pussy is just ruin all the pleasure.

  • Why do you think?