Should I shave down there?

I don't know if I should shave down there me and my boyfriend and gonna have sex for the first time its gonna be my first time having sex and I don't want to ask him if I should shave or not
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  • Your to embarrassed to ask him if he would prefer you to shave but not to embarrassed to get naked in front of him and have him be inside of you? That seems like a strange priority. I would say at the very least trim, you don't need to remove everything if you don't want to but you should probably trim it up so its not a "bush". As for sex hurting that depends entirely on you two, if your not quite ready (aroused and lubricated) and he jams it in, then yeah it will probably hurt at first (but I can't imagine its too terrible (though I obviously couldn't tell you from first hand experience))), but if he is careful, takes his time, their is proper foreplay and your fully aroused then their should be no pain at all.

  • I can only really tell you when I was 15... if I remember correctly with my girlfriend hummmm... I think she wasn't shaved cause it just happened lol...

    and it certainly wasn't an issue... I think he will like it either way
    the choice is yours...

    • lol thanks

Most Helpful Girls

  • Gosh! What women have to do for the men! There is a reason why we have pubic hair u know! (It protects your vjj from bacteria 🦠, it also holds moisture you produce before sex-“better slip purposes”, and it provides cushion against any injury/abrasion)... anyway, if you shave or, you’ll leave yourself exposed to bacteria and irritation). Just trim the bush, I guess is the best job can do, don’t expose your health for good sex girl!

  • Removing pubic hair is not healthy. You can get an infection after it, and you will be more sweaty without hair, let alone the irritation of the skin.
    But if what he likes is more important to you, then this is your choice

    • I don't sweat down there and I shave

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  • I shave
    As for if it will hurt for some girls it does hurt for others it doesn't for me it did hurt I also bled a little

    • thanks

  • Shaving is a good way to be seen as more appealing but yknow. Its not the end the of world.

    • okay

    • Sex doesn't hurt! If you use PROTECTION and LUBE it will be painless. Plenty of foreplay and you'll be golden. Emphasis on the LUBE AND PROTECTION.

    • what do you call foreplay I don't really know what to do

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  • So you going to have sex with him but you can't talk to him about some sexual stuff before that? also you are 15 years old you sure that it's not too soon?

  • Think about what YOU want and what YOU are comfortable with. He should accept you for who you truly are. OR, if you really do need to know what his preference is, you should ask him :)
    Look after yourself, have safe fun.

    • Great response

  • Do not shave. Either wax or laser

    • she's like 15 lol... what wax or laser lol

    • what if he don't like it

    • A kid getting any kind of puss is a win. He will like anything

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  • it wasn't a big deal to shave when i was at that age. but today it represents better hygiene and respect for your partner if you at least trim the bush. since you haven't ever done it, get some practice in before you do. it's really going to come down to your personal preference. it itches like an s. o. b. and needs constant attention. waxing is better but expensive.

  • Don't go here yet. Stay in school, keep your grades up and revisit it in a few years. Getting sexual at 15 will leave you empty at 20.

  • Maybe for the first time and then gradually grow it and see what you're both comfy with

    • Wait just saw your age, if you feel you're not ready don't get into it just to make him happy and if you really do think you need to do it, please be safe and lube will be needed

  • Well for me shaved pussy is good. I know not all guys like it. But I can lick it better with out the hairs there.

    • Most girls at my school shave. Hairs are gross down there at least where I go to school and live.

  • Most the girls at my school shave when they start shaving their legs. Do what you feel comfortable with.

  • Tbh I wouldn't completely shave. Definitely trim but let him know you're a young lady and you can grow hair.

    • okay thanks

    • You're very welcome. I hope you have a good time, stay safe, use protection.

    • we will

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  • Ask his opinion bravely 🤞

  • Why would you ask strangers but not the man you are seeking to please?

  • You're only 15, don't worry about it.
    Just have fun

    • okay thanks

  • Just leave it, or trim it. Some guys aren't into the completely shaved look, if your boyfriend is he'll let you know just ask him.

  • Don't do it, bush is back baby

    • okay

  • Damn! You’re 15 what’s your boyfriend age?

    • he is 15

  • I'm outta here!

  • It's your body and your choice alone to make.
    I am sure he would not be put off by your pubes , if anything he just wants to be with you

  • I like a hairy pussy

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