I lost a bet and my boyfriend made me? Is this taking it too far?

[Anonymous]

So I lost a bet to my boyfriend and the deal was that whoever loses has to do what the other says for an entire day (no exceptions). I thought he would simply boss me around and get me to make him breakfast or something, but he made me do some really embarrassing things for his own amusement & I'm very upset. Here are just a few of the things he made me do:

1) He made me yell "I'm so horny" in the middle of a store that we frequent often

2) I had to give him a lap dance

3) While I was at the library and bending down to get books, he used a fart machine to make it look like I was doing it. People were laughing so much and I wasn't even allowed to tell them it was fake

4) I had to do yoga on the bus and make weird meditating sounds

5) He made me cut two inches of my hair even though he knows I am very attached to it

I just feel so embarrassed and mad at him because he knows I'm a shy person. Those things were so mortifying to me & he specifically did it so he could laugh at my expense. Did he take it too far or am I being too sensitive? :(

[Hathon]

Let's get one thing straight... Cutting your hair was a huge line to cross and that is absolutely too far... As for the rest...

I gotta be honest, I know they were probably very embarrassing but holy fuck they'd be funny as hell... If I were him... Well I dont think I'd be so creative as that lol. But definitely if he ever loses a bet plan for an equally embarrassing payback 😈

[Feetlovers]

Yes he did take it way to far and can't really love care and protect you that much if he can do them things and more to you. He just showed how insensitive he is to you and how selfish for his own gratification and i would advise you to get rid of the arsehole as quick as possible x

[Anonymous]

I think it was all just fun and games dont take it so hard its just a joke and im sure those people in the library and all the other places know you were joking too

[Goodwifie]

What's the problem with number 2?
All the others are messed up.

[mrbobz]

You didn't have to do it. You could have declined at any point. If he didn't allow that then that's abuse

[totallygeneric]

I'm impressed you put up with that. I'd be seriously pissed.

[WillyD]

lol, He might be pushing it a bit but at least you're being a good sport about it and living up to your end of the deal.

[qwert1234]

Too far.
I mean, while the rules of the game has no exceptions, he (or you, if you won) should still consider what the other would feel.
A big no no on public places.

Only number 2 is acceptable.

[Browneye57]

WAY over sensitive, and severely lacking in a sense of humor.
Don't be writing checks with your mouth that your ass can't cash. ;)

[Zebadee88]

Sounds like you have little self respect and need more maturity

[CuChullan]

He went to far with this. The cutting your hair was an absolute no-no. At some stage you should have told him to F OFF bet or no bet.

[AynonOMouse]

You guys should have recorded it all and posted it on YouTube. It could be like that show "Impractical jokers" or something.

[AL1994ind]

I’d dump him right away! Such a jerk.. he took it way too far.

[Engineer__]

He is bad guy to treat you like that.. Wtf.
You are a girl, you dont value this badly i think
but the way he treated you is very badly if u ask me

[Amur8711]

Dump this jerk now! Obviously he doesn't respect you if he made you do that kind of stuff.

[Anonymous]

He took it waaayyy too far 😡 give me his name and I’ll beat him up for you!!!

[Anonymous]

Stop doing what he is asking you too do you may have lost a bet with him but he is clearly amused watching you embarrass yourself