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Do you guys want your girlfriend to lay on top of you? Why?

Hi, so we have been together for like a year and had sex for 4months. Tonight I went to his place, we had some kissing and cuddling stuffs but sex (I'm on period). So I gave him a handjob but he stop me before he cum.. after that he asked me if I could lay on top of him.. He meant.. my whole body on him! I am quite bigger than him (so I'm about 160 lbs and he is 132lbs) I was afraid that I would hurt him so I told him and tried not to put my weight on him.. he seemed upset a bit that I didn't lay my whole body there.. I want to know why guys like his girlfriend to lay on top of you? (Normally I just laid my head on his chest) Should I lay on him next time if he asks me again? /Or should I try to do without asking? We did some girl on top position and he liked it, but I think I hold my weight.. so I dont know He told me once that it doesn't matter about weight, he likes sll about me.. but I dont have confidence.. Thank you.. PS. Because we are new into sex, now we are looking for some new sex positions, do you guys have any advices? I think lotus sex would be great (but it depends on my weight.. idk)..
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He wants to feel your weight on him; it's kind of like a hug, would you want it to be limp, or do you want them to hold you tight?

    That's why he was disappointed; ypu basically gave him the limp hug that's normally reserved for people who are forcing you to hug, which is kind of creeping you out.

    • Awww,, I gotta do something to tell him that I love hugging and cuddling him.. next time there will not be some disappointment anymore

  • he was wanting the physical intimacy. i wouldn't worry about the weight. 30lbs won't crush someone and i'm sure he would tell you if he was uncomfortable

    try to feel comfortable about being on top of him

    • Ok, next time I'll do it :) I just dont want to crush him..

    • you won't crush him.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I know my boyfriend always wants me laying on top of him. I thought I would crush him too (I'm 155lbs he is 196lbs) since I am heavy, but he adores it!

    • 155lbs isn't heavy to most guys. A lot of us lift twice that amount in the gym or doing training. Or did you mean you weigh 196lbs and he weighs 155lbs?

    • @Truthatanycost No, I meant I weigh 155. It still seems heavy to be laying on top of someone

    • Yeah because he is quite smaller than me so I was some kind of... afraid.. But he told me that he likes the way we cuddled because I am soft... Next time I will do it

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  • He’s been honest in telling you what he wants, surprise him by doing it without him asking.
    Put all your weight on him, if it’s too much for him you’ll soon find out.
    Don’t be scared to try new and different things, that’s how you find out what you both like.
    If things don’t work out always be prepared to have a laugh about it and move on to the next thing.

    • Actually I wanted to do it as well, it just.. I was too afrraid.. Next time I will do it without asking, hope that he will like it :) Thank you

  • You're not gonna turn him.
    Don't flatter yourself.

    • crush*

    • Ok.. next time I will.. I hope he likes it

  • Honestly. I would love it if they lays on me, and we both fall asleep. Magical.

    • Its warm and it feels safe.. and I don't know.. i really like it too, next time I will do it

    • I only got to experience it once, and it was amazing. I felt so calm and happy.

    • Ok thxxx

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  • You won't crush him XD. Don't be shy, he probably wanted you to finish him off by grinding with your body (or him grinding on yours).

    • Yeah I guess so that he wanted to finish as well.. no problem I will do it next time /do you think its ok to do without asking?

    • You can, but communication is always better.

  • I think you will be fine putting all your weight on him...

    • Ok thank you, I will do it next time

  • yes you should

    • Next time I will do it

  • Totally... cowgirl position

  • Ride his cock

  • It's what he wants.

  • It’s nice when they lay on us, it’s comforting but I’ve never been with a woman that weighed more than me so I don’t know if you’ll hurt him but 160 isn’t that heavy so I think he could probably take it

    • Ok,, he said that it was ok but I hold it back anyway.. Next time I will do it :) I hope its gonna feel safe and sweet

    • Yeah I’m sure he will be fine

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